Ngokuqinisekileyo ufundisa izifundo kunye nomntwana wakho. Ukuzaliseka okuhlanganyelweneyo komsebenzi wesikolo kuphelile kwiimeko eziphene kunye nokuxabana? Ukuze wenze umsebenzi wesikolo - ngaba kubuhlungu njengomntwana? Ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuba ufunde eminye imithetho oza kuyilibala ngayo malunga nokuxinezeleka xa usombulula umsebenzi wesikolo.
Umthetho wenombolo 1. Fumana isizathu
Ukuba umntwana akafuni ukufunda izifundo, ucinga ngezizathu eziqhubekayo, lonke ixesha kuthatha ixesha ukuba lingayifundeli, fu manisa isizathu. Kubalulekile ukufumanisa ukuba zonke izifundo aziyibi kuye okanye ezinye izinto ezihlukeneyo. Ukuba umntwana akayithandi ukwenza oko, yenzeke kule migaqo elandelayo. Kwaye ukuba akayithandi izifundo ezithile, buza isizathu. Enyanisweni, kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi zinto: umntwana akayithandi utitshala, akayiqondi le ngongoma, izifundo malunga nesi sizathu zimbangela ukuba akhumbule izinto ezintle okanye iinxulumano ezimbi. Ukuba kunjalo, funda umthetho # 8.
Umthetho wenombolo 2. Ndiphe ikhefu
Ukuba unyanzela umntwana ukuba afundise izifundo emva kwesikolo, ndiyeke ukukwenza. Makhe aphumle aze atshintshe iingxaki zesikolo, aziphazamise. Ewe, ukuba njengalolu qhekeza kuya kuba semini, i-snack, ukuhamba epakini okanye imidlalo esebenzayo kunye nabahlobo.
Ukuba umfundi usemncinci, mhlawumbi uya kufuna ukulala okuncane. Yonke into incike kwibala, ubunzulu, ubudala kunye nempilo yomntwana. Kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba umntwana uhleli phantsi ukuze afunde izifundo eziphumliweyo kunye nentloko entsha.
Umthetho wenombolo 3. Yakha i ingqondo
Ukuze ufunde izifundo ngaphandle kokunyamezela, kufuneka wenze isithethe. Umzekelo, cela umntwana ngexesha apho kufuneka ahlale khona ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba wenza ntoni (umzekelo, yonke imihla ngo-4 ntambama). Umntu ngamnye ulawulo lolo suku luncedo, kunye nomntwana ngokukodwa. Ngaloo ndlela, unokumfundisa kunye nentlangano kunye nokugxininisa. Kusenokuba kuyimfuneko ukusetha ixesha (nangona kunjalo, kufuneka uqwalasele umthamo wezifundo eziphambili kunye nesantya somntwana ngamnye) ngexesha apho umfundi wesikolo uya kufunda umsebenzi wesikolo, umzekelo, isiqingatha seyure yeeklasi ezincinane kunye neeyure ezimbini kwiiklasi eziphezulu.
Kukho izizathu ezibini zezi. Okokuqala, xa ixesha liphela, uya kukwazi ukuqokelela ngamandla kunye nobunzima nokufunda kakuhle. Yaye ukuba uthe wongeza kwixesha elimisiweyo, iiyure apho umntwana echitha esikolweni, uya kuphawula ukuba kuya kuba ngumhla wokusebenza wesikhathi esigcwele. Kubantwana oku kuninzi.
Umthetho # 4: Thatha ikhefu
Ukuze ugweme uxinzelelo ngexesha lemisebenzi yasekhaya, lungiselela umntwana ukuphumula okufutshane kwemizuzu emi-5 ukuya nganye. Emva kwakho konke, wena ngokwakho emsebenzini usela itiye, umsi, intetho, njl. Ngoko umntwana unako ukuphumla encinane, ukusela indebe, ukufudumala okanye udle isahluko se-apula.
Ingakumbi kubaluleke kakhulu kwiimvuthu, eziqala ukudweba nganye ileta kwifom, ixesha elide lihleli kwindawo enye. Kwaye ngexesha lokuphuka amehlo angakwazi ukuphumla.
Umthetho wenombolo 5. Hlola nje okanye uhambe
Ukufundiswa ngumntwana wakho ngaphandle kokuxinezeleka kakhulu, makube khona kwizifundo zomntwana (ingakumbi ukuba iiklasi lokuqala). Kule meko, ukuphumelela kudlala indima ekhethekileyo.
Ukuba unomntwana osemncinci kakhulu, uzama ukulungelelanisa umsebenzi wakhe, uncede uze uqinisekise ukuba ufunda yonke into, ujikeleze kunye neleta nganye ihafu yure. Emva koko, kufuneka ukuba umntwana wakho akhule kwaye athole izakhono zomsebenzi ozimeleyo, ngoko uyavuma ukuba yena ngokwakhe wenza imisebenzi eqondakalayo kwaye kulula, kunye kunye nawe okanye, makabe umntwana wenza izifundo ngokwakhe, uze ukhangele.
Ekugqibeleni, qiniseka ukuba udumise umfundi oko akufundileyo kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo ugxininise ukuba sele sele esecala: "Ngokuqhelekileyo zonke izifundo ayenzileyo, yintoni na onomntu onelungileyo kum! Sele sele sikhule! "
Umthetho wenombolo 6. Musa ukufundisa izifundo kumntwana
Akufanele ufunde izifundo esikhundleni somntwana wakho. Kwezinye iimeko, unokuba ufuna ukuxelela umntwana wakho indlela yokusombulula ingxaki okanye umzekelo ngokuchanekileyo ukuze ugcine ixesha. U-Er akwenyaniso.
Okokuqala, unike umntanakho umzekelo ombi, emva kwexesha ufike kuwe kwaye akucele ukuba usombulule iingxaki kunye nemizekelo kuye. Ngoko ungamangalisi ukuba le ngcamango yenzeke kuye. Ngaphezu koko, akasoze abe noxanduva kunye nozimeleyo.
Kukulungele ukwenza into ehlukileyo: unobtrusively push, xelela yiphi isalathiso sokuhamba; umbonise ngokuqinisekileyo.
Umthetho wenombolo7. Funda kabanzi
Ngexesha elithile, qaphela indlela umntwana efundisa ngayo izifundo, ngoko uya kuba nako ukuqonda apho unenkathazo okanye zeziphi izifundo ezifunekayo ukuba zinike ingqwalasela engakumbi. Mhlawumbi akayi kuphinda atyathele itekisi okanye enze iimpazamo zegrama rhoqo, mhlawumbi unikwe imizekelo embi.
Zibonise ukuba yiziphi iingongoma ozifunayo ukuze uqine kwaye uqaphele ngeveki. Ngaphandle kokukhawuleza, sebenzisa ngokuzinzileyo nomntwana ngaphezu koko kwaye emva kwexesha uza kubona iziphumo ezilungileyo. Ingane yakho iya kuqala ukuxazulula umsebenzi othile ngokuzithemba.
Umthetho wenombolo 8. Intetho yomphefumlo
Ukuba umntwana wakho akafuni ukufunda izifundo, khuluma naye ngesihloko ngokunyanisekileyo. Zama ukukhumbula iminyaka yakho yesikolo uze utshele umntwana wakho ngabo. Mnike ekuqheleni kobuntwaneni bakho, chaza izinto ozithandayo, kwaye zeziphi izifundo ozifundileyo kunzima. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqonda ukuba akukho nto ebalulekileyo kulo mcimbi kulula - kufuneka usebenze nzima.
Ukuba akayithandi utitshala, zama ukuchaza ukuba utitshala naye ungumntu, unezithuba zakhe kunye ne-pluses, kufuneka ulungiselele kakuhle isihloko kunye nokuziphatha kakuhle, zonke iingxaki ziya kutshabalala. Mhlawumbi u titshala unzima kakhulu kwaye umntwana ekufundweni kwakhe akanakukhathazeka. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ukuba ityala linzima kakhulu, ngoko uye esikolweni uze uthethe notitshala ngokwakho.
Ukuba umntwana akaxubushelana nabafundi afunda nabo, zama ukufumana isizathu, simema umntu ukuba a tyelele okanye ahlele iholide lezingane ngootitshala be sikolo.
Umthetho wenombolo 9. Kuloo matyala anzima kakhulu aqesha umqeqeshi
Ukuba ubona ukuba umntwana uphambili kwenkqubo kwaye oku kuqinisekiswa nguTitshala ngokwakhe, kule meko kufuneka uqeshe umqeqeshi. Ukuba, ngokwenene, wena ngokwakho awukwazi ukusebenzisana nomntwana uze uze naye into engacacile kuye.
Musa ukulukhulula umntwana ngeeklasi ezingadingekile, nokuba ngaba uhlahlo lwabiwo lwekhaya lukuvumela ukuba ubhale kwizinto ezikhethiweyo ezilishumi. Akakwazi ukuqonda yonke inkcazelo efunyenweyo. Kubaluleke kakhulu kumntwana ukubuyiswa kwamandla nokuphumla.
Umthetho wenombolo 10. Yiba nomonde
Yakha kwaye isineke. Emva koko, lo ngumntwana wakho, akunakwenzeka ukuba akafumani nantoni na.
Ngemizamo ebambisana nomonde kunye nobutyebi bakho umntwana uya kufunda ngokukhawuleza ukwenza izifundo ngaphandle kwemisipha kunye noxinzelelo.