Izizathu ezinokwenzeka zokumisa umntwana
Isizathu sokusebenza kakubi singangena emntwini ngokwawo - kwimeko yakhe yempilo: ukuva okanye ukubonwa kakuhle, ukukhathala ngokukhawuleza okanye naziphi na izifo ezingapheliyo. Isizathu esingabalulekanga sinokuba isimo sengqondo somfundi: akakwazi ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye nabafundi ofunda nabo kunye nootitshala, ukuxhalabisa okanye ukukhathazeka. Imisebenzi yomntwana omnye ibonakala kulula kakhulu kwaye ke akenzanga nto, kwaye kwimisebenzi yesibini inzima kakhulu.
Musa ukujezisa okanye ukuxhaphaza umntwana ongekho kakuhle esikolweni. Zama ukufumana isizathu sokwenza inkqubela yakhe embi. Buza icebiso lootitshala okanye inqununu, qhagamshelana nesazi senzululwazi yesikolo, ukuba sikhona.
Umntwana onamandla
Ukuba bonke abafundi eklasini bafunda inkqubo efanayo, ke abantwana abanokukwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yabo kulula, kuba nzima ukufunda. Kule meko, kuphela ukutshintshwa kwinqanaba eliphezulu kunokunceda. Isigqibo silungile ukuba umntwana uthuthuke ngokomoya nangokwenyama kunabo bonke oontanga bakhe. Kwimeko embi kakhulu, uya kuba yedwa phakathi kwabantwana afunda nabo, ngokukodwa kwixesha elivisayo.
Ukuhlala kwiklasi, kubafundi abanolwazi ngakumbi, uqeqesho lunokuba nzima ngakumbi, ikwalelwe ngokwahlukileyo ukuba isebenze incwadi ebunzima kwaye yenza into engacacanga kuyo. Ukuba umntwana usebenza ngenxa yokuvavanya okanye ukwenzela ukuba utitshala abe nemihlali, abafundi beklasini banikezwa ngamagama amaninzi, njenge "Pet" okanye "Smart".
Ukuba usebenza kunye neqela lakhe kunye nengqondo yakhe nolwazi luncedo kakhulu kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo, ngoko abafana bayamhlonela baze baxabise ulwazi lwakhe.
Kwaye kufuneka ufundise abantwana abanengqondo ngaphambi kwesikolo ukufunda nokubhala? Abazali bathi abantwana bahlala becela ukuba babonise iinombolo kunye neleta, ngoko ke bona bacela ukuba bafundiswe. Akukho nto eyingozi xa unelisa umnqweno womntwana.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali babeka ithemba elikhulu kumntwana onjalo kunye nephupha eligqwesileyo bonke abantwana. Ukuba umntwana udlala kwimidlalo yabo, bahlala bezolile, kodwa ukuba unomdla wokufunda, ngabazali bamnceda ukuba afunde ukufunda. Kwaye le nkunzi ayiguquli "ukufunda nokubhala" ngobudala.
Abazali kunoma yimuphi umdala akufanele bafake uxinzelelo kumntwana malunga nezifundo okanye ukhetho lwabahlobo. Kubazali abalungileyo, umsebenzi oyintloko kukuba sikhule umntu onoyolo.
Isifundo esibi ngenxa yokwesaba
Iimeko ezahlukeneyo zingaphazamisana nokufunda kakuhle komntwana - ezi ziintlungu okanye iingxaki zeentsapho. Ndiza kunika imizekelo:
- Intombazana eneminyaka eyisixhenxe inokutshatyalaliswa yimvakalelo yomona kumntakwabo omncinci. Iyamphazamisa ekufundeni kwakhe kwaye imenza abe nexhala.
- Umntwana uphazamiseka ngenxa yokugula komntakwabo okanye udade okanye kwinto yokuba abazali bahamba ngayo.
- Kwiminyaka yokuqala yesikolo, umntwana unokwesaba utitshala, ngaphambi kokuba iklasi yonke iphendule imibuzo okanye endleleni eya kwesoyika inja embi okanye inkunzi.
Ukuba umntwana uhlawuliswa ekhaya okanye akhankanywe ngamandla, yena, esesimweni sokuhlala engapheliyo, akakwazi ukugcina iingcamango zakhe.
Inomdla yokufunda ishiywe
Ukufunda abantwana esikolweni kakubi, kuba akukho nto inomdla ekufundeni. Kukho izizathu ezibini kule ngxaki:
- Abazali babengenakukwazi ukuba nomdla kumntwana ngenxa yokuba bengenzi imisebenzi edibeneyo naye.
- Okanye ngaba abazali baqala "ukugxotha" umntwana onolwazi oluhlukeneyo kwaye kusuka kule nto, wayenqatshelwe.
Nayiphi na imisebenzi kufuneka iqhutywe nomntwana "kwindawo elinganayo". Isikhundla soxinzelelo kunye nokunyusa ulwazi kumfundi "ombi" kunokuyenza ingozi enkulu. Injongo yethu kukufaka emntwini inzala yolwazi oluzimeleyo lwehlabathi.
Umntwana onobuqili
Umntwana, ngokuqhelekileyo uthathwa ngokuba "uvila," akunjalo.
Izizathu zobuqili bakhe zihlukile, kodwa lobu buvila bulibalekile xa kuziwa kwizinto ezithandayo. Umntwana, ekwesaba ukuba ahlupheke nawuphi na ukuhluleka, akazami ukuzenza. Oku kusebenza kulabo bantwana abazali babo ababagxeka kakhulu iimpumelelo zakhe okanye abafuna into engenakwenzeka kumntwana.
Umntwana onokholo unamaxesha ambalwa unokufunda kakubi. Unakho ukuphindaphinda amaxesha amaninzi isifundo esivele sifundekile kwaye uhlala elahla emva koontanga bakhe ngobungqina obukhulu.
Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - fumana isizathu sokungaphumeleli komntwana kwaye, ukudibanisa imizamo nolwazi malunga nomntwana, ootitshala nabazali kufuneka bavule iimpawu zakhe ezintle kunye noncedo lwalo lwazi ukubandakanya umntwana kwinkqubo yokufunda.