Kukho iingxaki ezibalulekileyo, isisombululo sokuba kukho ukukhathazeka kuluntu. Enye yeengxaki, ukukhathazeka ngabazali abaninzi kweli lizwe, kukukhathazeka kwabantwana abakwilanga. Emva koko, kukho imeko ezininzi ezinokubangela ukulimala okukhulu. Ukufunda zabo iinkcukacha, ungakwazi ukubona izizathu ezinobangela, obangela ubuninzi bokulimala kwabantwana.
Izizathu ezinjalo zingabhekiswa kobuchule bokungabikho kakuhle kwabantwana kwimimandla engqongileyo, ukuqeqeshwa ngokwaneleyo kwabantwana xa behamba, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana bayalimala, bewa kwiislayidi, izitebhisi, imithi, ukuguquka, izicingo kunye nokuzama ukunyuka kwiindonga zaseSweden nezinye izixhobo zemidlalo ezifanayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukulimala kwenzeka kubantwana abadlala kumaqela, ngexesha lokuphikisana. Kwakhona kaninzi kunokwenzeka kwimivimbo ehlukahlukeneyo ngenxa yeempembelelo kwiintango zeglasi, ibhetri kunye nezinye izinto.
Kukho izizathu eziphambili, ezikhokelela ekubanjweni kokulimala kwabantwana. Oku kukunyaniseka okunamandla kunye nokukhubaza abantwana, okukhokelela ekubeni umnqweno we-polyhachit (ngokukodwa udlalwa ngabafana) kunye nokunyanzelisa abantwana, okubangela ukuba bangengozini yokulimala ngenxa yokungakwazi ukuphendula ngemiphumo yezenzo zabo.
Izinto ezisemgangathweni zokulimala kwabantwana kwirejista zingaqwalaselwa, okokuqala, ukungabikho kolawulo olufanelekileyo lwabantwana, ukulawulwa obuthathaka ngabasebenzi beziko, kwaye, okwesibini, nokuba kungenakulungelelaniswa okanye inkqubo engekho ngokubanzi yokukhusela ukulimala.
Indlela yokuthintela ukulimala kwabantwana kwintsimi
Ummandla omdala womntwana kufuneka alwele ukukhusela umntwana kwiingozi kwaye akhule ube nempilo kwaye eqinile. Iindlela eziphambili zokulwa nokulimala kukuba, okokuqala, imfundo efanelekileyo, ekufuneka abazali bayinyamekele yokuqala, kwaye kufuneka baqwalasele iinkcukacha ezincinci. Ngaphambili umntwana ufunda oko afundiswayo, ubuncinci bungozi. Inkqubo yemfundo kufuneka iqhube kumaziko abantwana, ngokudala izimo ezifanelekileyo zomntwana kunye nokunyamekela kwakhe.
Amashalo kunye neekhabhinethi emagumbini apho abantwana abangabakho khona, kubalulekile njengokhuseleko kunye nokuzinzileyo kunokwenzeka kwiindawo zabo. Kwizingcango ezinemibala efunekayo ukufaka iinqaba zeenkuni, ukuze umntwana akakwazi ukuhlupheka xa ehlasela ngengozi. Ukukhusela kunye nokukhiya kufuneka kufakwe ukuze abantwana bangakwazi ukufikelela kuzo, kwaye kwizitebhisi kufuneka kubekho isikhokelo kunye nezinye izicingo.
Musa ukuhlobisa iinqwelo zeenqwelo zeenqwelo ezinobumba obukhulu, imizobo, imizobo kunye nezinye izinto ezinokubangela ukulimaza abantwana.
Nangona indawo, naziphi na izixhobo zomculo kufuneka zizinze ngokuqinileyo kwaye zizinzile.
Kubalulekile ukuba ungabandakanyi ngokupheleleyo ukugcinwa kwanoma yiluphi udidi lwesitya, i-disinfectant nezinye izinto ezinjalo ekhitshini, zangasese kunye namagumbi apho abantwana bangagcinwa khona. Ezi zinto kufuneka zigcinwe kwiindawo ezizodwa ezingenakufikeleleka kubantwana. Kwizabhinethi yonyango, ubukho bokuba kuyimfuneko, akufanele kugcinwe iziyobisi ezingenelwe abantwana.
Kwintsimi yesikhungo kubantwana, kubalulekile ukugcina umyalelo kunye nococeko. Iziko ngokwalo limele lifakwe, lucacise ithuba lokufikelela kwizilwanyana zasendle nezilahlekileyo. Yonke imihla, nokuba ngaphambi kokufika kwabantwana, okanye emva kokuhamba kwabo, ummandla kufuneka uhlambuluke. Ebusika, zonke iindawo, iindlela kunye neendlela kufuneka zisuswe ngekhephu, kwaye ehlobo, ukuba imozulu isomile kakhulu, amanzi ngamancinci ama-2 ngosuku.
Ekwindla nasentwasahlobo, kwintsimi edibanayo, kuyimfuneko ukucima izihlahla kunye nemithi.
Akunqunyelwe ukusebenzisa nayiphi na inkunkuma yezilwanyana ezincinci xa usebenza nezityalo ukuba ungabandakanyi ithuba lokutyhefuza abantwana nabasebenzi beziko.
Xa utyala insimi, izityalo ezinetyhefu kunye nezityalo kunye nezihluma kunye namaqabunga amava akufanele zisetyenziswe. Ezi zityalo kufuneka zisuswe xa zifumaneka kwisayithi.
Xa usebenzisa i sixhobo, zombini kwintsimi kunye nakwiziko leziko, kuyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukuba luzinzile kwaye alukwazi ukulimaza abantwana.