Kwaye emva kokuba uqhawule umtshato, ngaba ucinga ngako? Ungaphila ngakumbi?
Ukwahlukanisa kuhamba kunye nokuxinezeleka, ukuphazamiseka kunye nokudumala ebomini.
Kodwa, inqaku lethu liya kukufundisa indlela yokuphila, emva kokuqhawula umtshato.Sifuna ukukwavulela ngokuqhawula! Buza, njani le nto inokwenzeka? Unokuvuyisana njani ngokuqhawula umtshato - ukuba unobomi obuthathaka?
Ungazisoli nantoni na . Into eyenzekileyo ayikwazi ukubuyiswa. Ebomini, akukho nto iyenzeka njalo. Abantu abaqhawule umtshato ngokukhawuleza, kuba ukuhlukana kobudlelwane bosapho badinga izizathu ezilungileyo. Wena wasinda ekuvutheni! Siyakuvuyisana, nguwe heroine!
Ihla ngeengcamango zangaphambili. Ukuzityhaphaza ngeembulelo akuyinto enombulelo onokukulimaza. Phupha wena kangcono ngekamva lakho - lihle kwaye alifi, kwaye likulindele.
Khumbula: awuyixhoba . Ngaba uyazixolisa? Yiba nesihe kwi-puppy engenamakhaya, kholwani mna, yimbi kakhulu kunani. Akukho namnye owafa ngenxa yokuqhawula umtshato. Kuthiwani ukuba umyeni wakho washiya intsapho, wakucatshulwa. Kodwa ngoku ungumfazi okhululekileyo, uThixo uye wakusindisa ebuhlotsheni obungathandekiyo. Esinye isizathu sokukuhalalisa ngokuqhawula umtshato! Ukuba unabantwana, ngulo lwakho usindiso. Ndikholelwe, bacaphuke kakhulu xa umama ehlala ephosa kwaye ewela kwingcinezelo.
Enye kunye neyesahlukaniso - emva kokusalugca kunye nokuphuka, ufumene into eyona nto ingabalulekiyo enokubanika ubomi-amava! Unamandla ngakumbi!
Ibhinqa liziphatha njani emva komtshato?
Uhlala efuna ukukhala, ngokuba wayelahliwe, intsingiselo yobomi ihambe, wafumana intombazana enhle.
Bafazi abathandekayo, banokuzithemba ngakumbi. Ngamnye kuni uhlukile - ngcono kunokuba awukwazi. Inyaniso yokuba waya kwelinye ukhetho lwakhe. Kwaye akukho mntu okhuselekayo, ukuba emva kwexesha indoda yakho yangaphambili ayiyi kuzisola ngesigqibo sokushiya umfazi wakhe.
Jonga imeko ngenye indlela. Siyakuhalalisa ngokuqhawula umtshato, kuba ixesha elininzi ochithayo kumntu ongafanelekanga, umntu ongenakufanelwa nongqalelo.
Uninzi lwabasetyhini abalahliwe banengcamango yokuziphindezela kumyeni wabo wangaphambili. Ewe, kunye nempilo! Musa nje ukuphule imida yokuziphatha kwakho.
Ukwahlukana nokudakumba, njengoko kuchaziwe ngasentla, ukulahlekelwa yintsimilelo yobomi. Ngamanye amaxesha, ibhinqa lifuna ukusindiswa kwiglasi. Ucinga ukuba xa esela iglasi yewayini ngokuhlwa, intliziyo yakhe iya kuziva ngcono. Kodwa, lo uluvo olungalunganga olunokutshabalalisa ubomi bakho.
Kungcono ukuqokelela abahlobo bakho kwi-nightclub. Inkampani, eyonwabileyo kunye nobumnandi bomoya - iya kukuvuselela. Uya kuphumla, mhlawumbi, uzihlolisise ngokwakho, kwaye unako ukudlala ngothando nabantu. Ukuqwalaselwa kwamadoda yindlela eqinisekileyo kunye neyona inokuthenjelwa yokuphakamisa ukuzithemba.
Ukuze ungagcini kwintlekele yakho, fumana amava amnandi kuwe. Kungaba nayiphi na into yokuzilibazisa enokuyithatha ngokupheleleyo ingqondo yakho yonke. Ukwenza into oyithandayo, wena ngokwakho ngeke uqaphele ukuba zonke iingcinga malunga nomtshato ziya kulahla.
Ukuzinikela ngokupheleleyo ekusebenzeni. Kuqondakala kuphela, ngaphandle kokunyaniseka okukhulu, ukwenzela ukuba ungabikho ngokugqithiseleyo. Ngaloo nto, Ngoko, ukubuyela ekhaya, walala embhedeni ngaphandle kwemvakalelo, ngokwemvelo kwaye engenangcamango eyodwa malunga nomlingane wangaphambili kunye nesizungu. Umsebenzi uvumela ukuba uzive uyimfuneko kwabanye.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, siya kuphendula umbuzo wakho: indlela yokuvuyisana ngokuqhawula umtshato. Kulula kakhulu. Siyanincoma ngokuqhawula! Ndiyakuhalalisela ekuqaleni kwentsapho entsha. Ndiyakuvuyela ngoku ukuba ungumfazi omtsha, onamandla kwaye onamandla!
Yonke into ebomini enayo, uya kuhlangabezana nayo yonke into! Into ephambili yinyamezelo kunye nomonde!
Uqhawule umyeni wakho - ngoku ukhululekile kwizenzo zakho. Ihlabathi lonke liphambi kwakho.