Sonke sikholelwa kumlingo, kumatshi, nangomoya obi. Ukususela kumaxesha apho sasisemantombazana amantombazana, emva kokufunda i-fairytale "iCinderella" sonke sizama ukujika ithanga libe yinqwelo elihle, kunye nekhanda lomzalwana okanye ikati yomdade - kumqeqeshi oqinileyo, ukuya kwibhola aze ahlangabezane nenkosana enhle apho. Kwaye ngoku, xa sikhulile, ukuba sibaleka ngaphaya komgwaqo omnyama, thina, sibambe iqhosha leengubo, siwela ngaphaya kwekati, sichitha kathathu phezu kwephepha lakhe. Sikholelwa kumandla amnyama omona, kwaye sizama ukungabelani nabanye abantu abanomona, besaba ukuba baya ku-jinx "ibhande elimhlophe" lobomi.
Kwaye ke, yintoni iliso elibi? Kunye nomonakalo? Namhlanje ndiya kuzama ukutyhila kweli nqaku ngesihloko "senkohlakalo, isohlo elibi - ukunyanzeliswa okubi, ukuxilongwa nokukhuselwa." Funda kwaye u phu laphule.
Iso elibi - okanye iliso elibi - lwazi olubi olujoliswe kuyo. Ifowuni ithunyelwe ngengqondo, kwaye unokuyomeleza ngelizwi. Abantu abanako ukukwazi ukuxhamla, banako ukuhlupheka ngenxa yalokhu, kuba banokuthi bangabaxhamla. Nazi iimpawu eziye zenziwa yi-jinxed: uya kuziva uzibi, ungakhathazeki kwaye utyumle, udibana neenyembezi ezininzi, ukucaphuka. Yaye ke, yonke into iya kuphuma phantsi kwezandla zakho, kwaye uya kuba nokuhluleka. Isiseko sesiso esibi sisona. Abantu ababukeka benomona kuwe, banokuqhubela isohlo elibi, bengazi. Iso elibi lingeniswa kuphela ngabantu abaye bahlakulela ubuchule bendawo. Iso elibi ngethuba linokudlula, linyamalale okanye linciphise ngendlela enokuba ayiyi kuba nefuthe.
Ngokubhekiselele ekutshatyalaliseni, i-spoilage inomfanekiso wesithethe, oko kukuthi, ukufezekisa injongo yendlela ethile ethile, ngoko ukuhlaselwa kuthathwa njengomlingo omnyama. Ulwaphulo lusebenza naluphi na umgama, ngokungafani neliso elibi, okungafunyanwa kuphela ngokusondela kwinto. Ukhohlakele lunempembelelo enkulu kumntu, ngokuziphatha kwakhe kunye nempilo. Ubuqhetseba budluliselwa kwisizukulwana kwisizukulwana kude kube isizukulwana sesixhenxe, kwaye sihlala ixesha elide kakhulu.
Ukuxilongwa kuqhutyelwa kuphela ngabantu abanikwe amandla athile awanalo kweli hlabathi. Kuphela kuyimfuneko yokwesaba abantu abanjalo, okanye abo bantu abathi banikwe igunya elinjalo. Emva kwakho konke, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ama-90% eengqondo kunye nabalumkani abakhona, abakhohlisi nje kuphela, abazama ukukususa kuwe umonakalo okanye isohlo elibi, kodwa ihembe lakho lokugqibela.
Ngokuphathelele ukhuseleko, ngoko ndingumntu oqhelekileyo, ndinokucebisa into enhle kakhulu. Xa ubhekana nomntu ongekho, ucinga, cinga ukuba umi emva kwesibuko, kwaye ngoko ke iingcinga zakhe ezimbi ziya kugxothwa kuwe kwaye zibuyele kuye. Kwaye bhetele ucinga ukuba ujikelezwe zizibuko, ngoko uza kubonakalisa konke okubi kuwe. Okanye enye inketho, xa usebenzisana nomntu ongekho nto, gcina izandla zakho ephaketheni lakho, njengoko sithetha eRashiya, ngendlela ye "cookie," ukuxolela. Oku kuphelisa ukubukeka okubi kunye neengcamango ezimbi ezijoliswe kuwe. Ndiyakwazi ukucebisa ukusuka ngaphakathi kweengubo ukugqoka ipini kunye nemilenze ephezulu. Kukholelwa ukuba yonke into embi ngentloko yepini, ekhomba phantsi, iya emhlabathini.
Ewe, kunjalo, gqoka amabhonkce ahlukeneyo, amasongo, amacici, apho "amehlo kaFatima" aboniswa khona. Kutheni "iso likaFatima"? Kukho umlando, ixesha elide elidlulileyo kukho intombazana egama linguFatima. Wayenomthandi, kwaye emva kokuba imfazwe iqalile, kwaye uFatima othandekayo wabizelwa enkonzweni. UFatima wayebuhlungu, enkxalabo yokuba akayi kubona intanda yakhe ngakumbi kulo mbomi. Kwaye ke kwafika loo mini inomdla, xa beza kuye. Emva koko uFatima wasusa intambo yakhe entanyeni yakhe, ngomfanekiso welihlo lakhe wayibeka phezu kwayo, ngamagama athi "vumela leli lizwe lilondoloze ekufeni okuthile kwaye liholele ekhaya." Long Fatima walindela intanda yakhe, ubusuku neentsuku zabonakala zingapheliyo, kwaye uFatima wabheka yonke indlela ayeyithandayo ngayo intanda yakhe. Emva kwexesha elide, walinda ulonwabo, wabonakala. Uphilileyo kwaye ungonakali. kwavela ukuba nguye kuphela oshiywe ephilileyo ephuma kulo lonke ibethi. Ukususela ngoko, lo mfanekiso ubizwa ngokuthi "iliso likaFatima," kwaye kukholelwa ukuba eli likhusela kuzo zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki.
Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, abantu baye bazivikela ngokumelene nesiliso esibi ngendoda. I-talisman ngumxholo ongayifaka ngenye indlela ulwazi oluthile olubi. Njengomthetho, i-talismans iyadalwa ngenxa yengozi ethile. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntu ophethe le ntsizi ekholelwa ngamandla akhe. I-talisman, eyenziwa ngolu hlobo lomshini okanye umatshini, akanalo amandla, kuba ayinalo umphefumlo namandla omntu.
Inkolo inokukunceda kwiso elibi. Icawa kunye nakwezinye iintlanga, ama-mosque, iintempile zivumela ubuncinane ixesha lokubandakanya umntu kwimeko yabantu abangafuni ububi. Ukulila kweentsimbi, umthandazo, amanzi angcwele, umnqamlezo ophilisa ubomi kunye nomzabalazo-konke oku kunceda amakholwa ukuba abhekane neengxaki. NgamaSulumane, umthandazo uyisiseko sokukhusela kunye nokulwa nombi.
Ziqaphele wena kunye nabathandekayo bakho!