Ngoko, ngokulandelayo siza kuthetha ngeengcinga ezingama-50 ezinokutshintsha ubomi bakho.
1. Musa ukoyika ukwenza iimpazamo. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba umntu oqiqayo ufunda kwiimpazamo zabanye abantu, kwaye isisidenge sisodwa. Ndiyabulela kule ntetho, abaninzi banokuzitshozela ngenxa yazo zonke iimpazamo kwaye besaba ukuqala ukwenza. Ngoko ke, bakhetha ukuhlala ekhoneni kwaye bangenzi nto. Kubandakanya iimpazamo. Enyanisweni, ubulumko abuyikuphosoka konke. Wonke umntu angenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo, kodwa kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba ufunde kule meko engathandekiyo kwaye uqhubeke.
2. Kholelwa kwimpumelelo. Ukuba uqinisekile ukuba yonke into iya kuba njengoko uzimisele, akukho sizathu sokuzibuza. Kwaye nangona yonke into ijika ibe yinto eyahlukileyo kwizinto ozicingayo, akusikho isizathu sokucinga ukuba awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na. Nangona kunjalo, ufumene amava, kwaye le nto ibaluleke kakhulu.
3. Musa ukumba ngexesha elidlulileyo. Ukukholisa zonke iimpazamo zakho ezidlulileyo kwimemori, uchitha amandla akho nexesha, endaweni yokusebenza namhlanje. Impazamo emdala ayikwazi ukulungiswa, kubalulekile ukuba ungayenzi kwakhona.
4. Zama ukuqonda abanye abantu, kwaye akufuneki ukuba yiloo nto ingatshintsha ubomi bakho okanye unike iingcebiso ezixabisekileyo. Yonke into inesizathu. Kwaye endaweni yokucaphukiswa ngumntu onokutshilo into engathandekiyo, zama ukubeka kwindawo yakhe kwaye uqonde oko kwabangela umntu ukuba athethe njalo.
5 Zama ukubheka izinto ezinokutshintsha ubomi bakho kunye nobomi babathandekayo, ngokuqinisekileyo. Sinokucinga ukuba yonke into imbi kwaye iya kuba yingozi kakhulu, kwaye unokuqonda yonke ingxaki njengesithintelo, ngokuyinqanaba apho, uya kufumana umvuzo. Ucinga ntoni, kwimeko enjani amathuba okuphumelela?
6 Yenza okulungileyo. Khumbula ukuba zonke izenzo zakho ziya kutshintsha okanye emva koko zichaphazele ubomi bakho. Ngoko ke, yenza okungangoko kunokwenzeka okulungileyo, ngokukodwa xa kungabi nantoni na kuwe - kwixesha elizayo uza kufumana okungaphezulu.
7 Sumama kaninzi. Smile ipropati yesibuko: ukumomotheka, uya kuphinda umomotheka. Ukongeza, umntu omomothekayo unxulumene nenhlalakahle, kwaye ukuba ukhangele ngempumelelo, ekugqibeleni uya kuba ngumntu onjalo.8 Iphupha. Musa ukucinga ukuba amaphupha ayinkunkuma yesikhathi. Ngamaphupha, uyabona into ofuna ukuyifumana.
9. Qinisekisa ukuba yintoni kanye ofuna ukuyifumana. Khumbula ukuba umntu ongenanjongo uya kulahleka. Ukubona phambi kwakho oko ufuna ukukufezekisa, uyaqonda ukuba imizamo yakho ayiyize.
10. Hlukanisa indlela yokufikelela kwizicwangciso ezinokutshintsha ubomi bakho kwaye zilethe kakuhle kuwo, kwiinqanaba eziliqela. Umzekelo: Ndifuna ukuhamba kakhulu. Oku kufuna imali eninzi. Ngoko, kufuneka ndizuze. Ukufumana umsebenzi ohloniphekileyo, ufuna imfundo enhle. Ngoko, ngoku ngoku kufuneka ndizame konke okusemandleni kwaye ndifumane ulwazi oluninzi. Zama ukwenza rhoqo isinyathelo ngasinye.
11. Musa ukuvila. Ungatsho ukuthi: "Namhlanje luyimini embi, kunetha kwaye andifuni ukwenza nantoni na. Ngoko ke, ndiza kuqalisa iphupha lam iphupha kusasa. " Kodwa ngomso kwakhona, kuya kwenzeka into enokukunyanzelisa ukuba uphumelele ukufezekiswa kwenjongo. Ngoko musa ukuvila - qala ukusebenza namhlanje.
12 Musa ukuyidlula. Ukugqithisa, kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, kubangela ukuba ungenakuvuyela ebomini. Zama ukuphumla ngokwaneleyo kwaye ukhumbule ukuba ukukwazi ukuphumla kubaluleke kakhulu njengomsebenzi omhle.
13. Jabulela yonke into oyenzayo. Kuphela ngale ndlela awuyi kutyhafisa, kwaye uya kugcina inzala ebomini.
14. Thatha uxanduva lwakho lwexesha elidlulileyo, elikhoyo kunye nekamva. Nguwe kuphela ojongene nayo yonke into eyenzeka ebomini bakho. Ukukwazi ukuqonda iimpazamo zakhe ngenye yeembonakalo zamandla omlingiswa.
15. Sebenzisa amandla okucinga ukuze ukwazi oko ufuna. Khumbula ukuba yonke into ocinga ukuba ichaphazela ubomi bakho. Ngoko, gxotha iingcinga ezimbi kuzo zonke iindlela eziyaziwayo.
16. Funda ukulawula uxhalabo kunye noyiko. Khumbula ukuba ubomi ngoyiko alukho ubomi. Kuphela ukuba ingqondo yakho ikhululekile kwixhala, unokuphila ubomi obupheleleyo.
17. Thetha ngabanye abantu kuphela, kwaye uya kuphawula ngokukhawuleza ukuba baqala ukukuphatha ngokuhlukileyo. Kodwa ngelo xesha, gweba ukubetha. Kuwo wonke umntu unokufumana into entle, kodwa xa umntu engakuthandi, bhetele uhlale ucebile, kodwa ungahambi ukunyanzela.
18. Belibale ibinzana eliza kuba libi kakhulu ngomso. Endaweni yoko, cinga ngento yokuba uyavuya yaye uya kuba nolonwabo ngakumbi, ocebileyo nangempumelelo.
19. Khumbula ukuba wonke umntu uza ebomini bakho ngesizathu, kodwa kukunika amava. Akunandaba nokuba ilungile okanye ayibi.
20. Funda ukuxolela. Lowo ugcina ingcikivo ngaphakathi, wenza okubi kumntu ongafanelekanga, owamcaphukisa, kwaye okokuqala kuye. Awukwazi ukuthonya izenzo zomnye umntu, kodwa unokutshintsha isimo sakho sengqondo kubo.
21. Funda indlela yokuthetha nabantu. Batshele okulungileyo, ungakhathazeki ngamabali angunaphakade malunga nempilo yakho empofu, wazi ukuba unomdla kumntu, kwaye kungenjalo. Ukukwazi ukuthetha kuyisinyathelo esibalulekileyo ekuphumeleleni.
22. Thatha ixesha lakho ukuqonda oko ufuna. Thatha ixesha lokuzola kwaye ugxininise, kwaye uza kubona indlela ubomi bakho obuya kuqala ngayo ukutshintsha.
23. Khumbula ukuba le mini ayiyi kuphinda iphinde ivele kwakhona. Ngoko musa ukulibazisa ngomso onokukwenza namhlanje. Qonda ukuba yonke imihla ingazaliswa yimpumelelo, kwaye nguwe kuphela onokukwenza ukuba kwenzeke.
24. Ziyimpembelelo yakho edala ubomi bakho obuya kutshintsha ikhondo kunye nekhokelo. Ngoko ke, zama ukucinga kuphela ngokufanelekileyo.
25. Udumo lunamandla amakhulu. Ngokuvuma ezinye izenzo zabantu, uba ngumthombo wezinto ezilungileyo kweli hlabathi. Ngoko ke, jonga ngakumbi abanye abantu, kwaye uya kufumana phantse yonke into efanelekileyo yokudumisa.
26. Ungesabi ukuphulaphula umbono womntu malunga nawe, kodwa khumbula ukuba akunakwenzeka ukukholisa wonke umntu. Ngoko ke, phulaphule ingcebiso kwabanye, kodwa wenze ngokuvumelana neenkolelo zakho.
27. Khumbula ukuba ngokwenene uhlala uyazi isisombululo seengxaki. Ufuna nje ukuma uze uphulaphule ilizwi lakho langaphakathi. Ungalindelanga ukuba ubunzima bakho buya kusombulula ngendlela ongayikrokreli ngayo.
28. Ngamnye wethu unetalente. Kodwa inyaniso kukuba umntu unetalente ekuculeni, omnye kumdaniso, unokuba neetalente kwiincwadi, ukupheka, ukufunda iilwimi ... Kubalulekile ukuqonda into oyenzayo kwaye uphuhlise amandla akho. Ngoko uza kufezekisa impumelelo enkulu kunezo ndawo apho ubuchule bakho buphelelweyo.
29. Uya kugqiba kweyiphi imeko okanye loo mini iya kudlula. Ukuba ucinga ukuba uya kuyisebenzisa kwindawo eqhelekileyo, kuya kuba njalo. Kodwa ukuba unquma ukuba yonke imihla iya kuba yodwa, izaliswe ngamaxesha amnandi, ngoko kuya kwenzeka.
30. Funda ukulinda nokunyamezela. Ngamanye amaxesha ukunyamezela kuxabisa kakhulu, kodwa emva kokulinda encinci, unokufumana into ongazange uyiphuphe ngayo.
31. Zama ukusebenza nomdla kunye nomdla. Ukuba umsebenzi wakho ngumsebenzi nje, awuyi kufumana nantoni na, kwaye wena ngokwakho awuyi kuqonda ukuba kutheni ukwenza. Kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba bonke ubomi baya kuchitha.
32. Khumbula: ukungaphumeleli akusisizathu sokuyeka. Esi sizathu sokusebenza nzima. Ngoko musa ukuyeka ukuba awuphumelelanga. Ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa into ethile, uya kufezekisa.
33. Sombulula iingxaki njengoko zifika. Awukwazi ukujongana nabo bonke kanye, ngoko zama ukuqonda oko kubalulekile kuwe ngoku, kwaye yintoni enokuyilinda.
34. Yenza izithembiso kuphela ukuba unokuzizalisekisa ngokuchanekileyo. Akunzima ukuthembisa nantoni na, into eyona nto kukuba kamva akufanele udideke malunga nendlela yokwenza ngayo.
35. Mamela iingcebiso zabanye kwaye ungalindelanga ukuba ujeziswe ngenxa yento ongayenzanga.
36. Phila namhlanje. Jabulela kulokho oye waphumelela, yonke injabulo, nokuba yincinane, eyenzeka kuwe namhlanje. Ndikholelwe, oku kulunge kunokuba ufumane amaxesha adlulileyo, nangona kunjalo.
37. Musa ukuphikisana. Njengoko sele kukhankanywe, iingcinga zakho zibalulekileyo ekuzalisekeni iminqweno yakho. Kodwa ukuba ufuna into echaseneyo, akukho nto iya kwenzeka.
38. Musa ukoyika ubunzima. Bazisa kumava obomi bakho, kwaye ngenxa yabo kuphela unokukhula njengomntu.
39. Musa ukuchitha ixesha kwiintlobo. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokutshintsha into ebomini, qiniseka ukuba ufumana ngaphezu kokutshintsha.
40. Phu laphula amanye amagama abantu uze uzame ukubamba intsingiselo yazo. Le ngenye yezinyathelo kwindlela yokuphumelela nokuvisisana.
41. Ebomini, yonke into iyadibaniswa. Oko kubonakala kukuzimeleyo ngokupheleleyo, ngokwenene kunxibelelwano oluqinileyo, kwaye umsebenzi wakho ufunde ukuwubona.
42. Zama ukuhlakulela rhoqo njengomntu kwaye uncede bakho abahlobo kunye nabaziwayo kule nto.
43. Jonga izinto ocinga ngazo, kwaye uqhube iingcamango ezimbi ezingonakalisa ubomi bakho. Ukucinga ngothando, ukuchuma, impumelelo, ubutyebi, uya kufumana.
44. Hambisa "njenge-turtle", kwaye "ungathi" njengengxuma "- ngokuqhubekayo, inkani, inyathelo ngesinyathelo. Yeka le ndlela ibe kude, kodwa iziqhamo zemizamo yakho ziya kukukholisa ngakumbi.
45. Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu ukushiya amagama angabonakaliyo ukuba ahambe ngomso, enokukwenziwa namhlanje. Ungalokothi unganqikaze ukuthetha okanye wenze into enhle.
46. Zama ukungaphutheli ithuba lokufeza injongo yakho. Khumbula ukuba ithuba alinakuphinda linikezwe.
47. Khangela kwikamva ngethemba kwaye ungesabi izinto ezintsha. Yintoni ebonakalayo ingenakwenzeka namhlanje, engadingekanga okanye inokulimaza, inokuphucula kakhulu ubomi bakho ngomso. Izinto ezinjalo, njengefowuni okanye i-locomotive, yayisisono kwaye asihlambulukanga, ngoku asikwazi ukuzicingela ubomi bethu ngaphandle kwabo.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni - iingcebiso ezimbalwa "zezesetyhini" zendlela yokufumana ukuzithemba.
48. Zithande. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ingava njani, kodwa wena wedwa. Khumbula ukuba umfazi ongazithandiyo akakwazi ukuthembela kwintando yomntu.
49. Ukuze ufunde ukuzithanda, ungawuthinteli "i-whims" yakho. Zenzele, ntanda yakho, into oyifunayo ixesha elide, kodwa yonke ixesha uyifaka. Thatha ibhotile, yidla ityelethi, uthenge into enhle ... Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nemibono emininzi, indlela onokuzikholisa ngayo!
50. Ukuba kubonakala kuwe ukuba into embi kakhulu ebomini ukuba akukho ndawo enye eya kuyo ... Shintsha umfanekiso! Akukho nto itshintsha utshintsho lwangaphakathi, njengokuziguqula kwindoda ye-nondescript ibe yinto ebuhlungu.
Ezi ngcebiso zilula ngokwaneleyo, kwaye ngokuqala ukuzilandela namhlanje, ngokukhawuleza uya kufumana okokufunayo-ukuvisisana nehlabathi lakho langaphakathi, ngoko ke-nabanye, bafunde ukujonga kwikamva ngokulindela. Kwakhona, ukuzithandana nawe, uya kuba nokholo ngakumbi kuwe, ukuba ngokukhawuleza kuya kubakhokelela ekuphumeleleni. Emva kokuba ndifunde ibinzana elimangalisayo: "Azikho iinjongo ezingenakufunyanwa kwintombazana enokuzithemba kwaye igqoke iingubo ezintle zobunxibe." Yaye ke okwesibini makangakabi, kodwa ukukhulisa ukuzithemba kusemandleni akho. Okubaluleke kakhulu kukuthanda nokuzihlonela. Kwaye ekugqibeleni ingubo iya kuvela. Siyathemba ukuba uya kusebenzisa imibono engu-50 engatshintsha ubomi bakho.