Ngokuqinisekileyo, amantombazana ahluke, omnye ubuthathaka kakhulu ukuba afike kwaye adibana naye, kanti enye ayinzima, ayinaso nxu lumene nale shishini. Bakwazi ukukwazi ukufikelela kunoma yimuphi umfana abathandayo kwaye baqhelane naye. Kuthiwani ukuba awukwazi ukwenza oku? Kule meko, indlela elula yokwazi ukuba uhambele ezo ndawo kunye namaziko apho abafana ngokwabo benza isinyathelo sokuqala. Kule njongo, kukho ii-discotheques ezahlukileyo, apho umoya ngokwawo uthi ukuthandana akunakuphetshwa. Ukukwazi kwiqela okanye kwi-disco yinto elula kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kukho enye ebalulekileyo "kodwa". Ngaphambi kokuba banike umomotheka, banquma ukuba niyintoni apha. Ukufumana umntu osisigxina okanye nje ukuzonwabisa. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula nokuthatha ingqalelo ukuba aba bantu banamhlanje badinga ngokukodwa, kodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo, kungekhona wonke umntu kwaye baxhome iileyibhile kummeli ngamnye wesilisa asiyi kuba. Ngaloo nto i-physiology yomntu-ngokukodwa kule minyaka kwaye kufuneka ihlale icingelwa. Ngoko ke uqaphele ngakumbi, xa ukhetha umfana kwaye ufunde ukwahlula ukuba yintoni kanye. Ukukhangela iimvakalelo ezinyanisekileyo - khangela inkwenkwe ezolile, ezithobekileyo, ezinengqiqo, ukuba ufuna into ehamba phambili (njengokuba ithi, iponagley), ngoko isekhetha ukukhululeka, ukuzithemba. Kwaye nje iklabhu - le ngenye yezinto zamadoda alolu hlobo. Ewe, enye ingxaki ingavela phambi kwakho, ngenxa yokuba bonke abazali abayi kukhupha intombazana yabo encinci kwiqela. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, uye kwenye i-disco disco, ndikholelwe, isiphumo siya kuba sesinye. Ngendlela, ungakulibala ukuzenzele ukulandelelana okupheleleyo. Qinisekisa ukwenza i-hairdo, i-makeup (gxi ninisa amehlo - oko kuqhuba bonke abantu abadengekile), gqoke ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka, okuya kuvela kwi-gray mass of other girls. Uze undikholelwe, umphumo uya kufuneka ulinde ixesha elide. Abafana kule minyaka, njengomthetho, baqhutyelwa kumantombazana, ahluke kakhulu, ukubonakala kwawo nokuziphatha kwabo bonke. Ukongeza kwi-dating guy guy ingafumaneka kwaye ihamba nje epakini. Ngokomzekelo, ufikile epakini (unakho kunye nomhlobo), ngamehlo akho ufumene inkwenkwe enhle. Ngokukhawuleza wasondela waza wathi ungaphakathi kweli paki okokuqala kwaye awuyazi ukuba yintoni indlela ofuneka ukuyidlula ixesha ngaphambi kokuba uhlangane nabahlobo (cela ukuba ubambe). Ngaloo nto, ungakhohlwa ukumncoma, kule meko, akukho mnye umntu ongakulahli. Qala incoko naye, kwaye ke yonke into iya kwenzeka ngokwayo. Yazi, lo mfana akafuni ngokwenene ukuba anqobe. Ngaphandle kwexesha kwaye unobtrusively ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala, ukuba kuyimfuneko: akuthethi zonke iinkosana zizinzileyo kwaye zinobuchule. Ngamanye amaxesha abaphazamisi nonke, ngokuzenzekelayo basithumelele "bathandekayo". Kwimeko nayiphi na into, kukho nantoni na into yokuthetha ngayo kunye nomdla kumntu. Ukuphandana nabafana abapholileyo ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-15-17 kuya kuba yinto efanelekileyo yokwenzeka kwiindawo ezithandwa kakhulu kunye nezixhamlayo zedolophu. Kule ndawo, ukhetho oluhle lunokuba yi-rink yokudoba. "Ukuwa phambi komntu" - ngamanye amaxesha kunceda kakhulu. Kulapha ukuba unako ukuya kumnye umntu kwaye umbuze oko kukufundisa ukuba ufunde (kwaye akukho nto ukuba uyazi ukwenza). Yiba nesibindi uze uzibuze ukuba igama lakhe liphi, kwaye ngoko, ngenxa yokuba uyimile kwiqhwa elibi, uya kunika uhambo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukukufundisa indlela yokwenza ngayo. Ukuba uhlala enqaba, uze uze udibane nomnye umntu, ukuba amanye a makhwenkwe, akakho amahle. Into eyona nto kukubonisa i-logic yabasetyhini kunye nazo zonke iingcango ziya kuvula phambi kwakho. Ngoko ke yonke into inokwenzeka nakwiimeko ezikhohlakeleyo.
Ngokubhekiselele kwezinye iindawo, hamba kunye nentombi kwi-city center. Ndicinga ukuba kuwo wonke umzi kukho indawo apho inqwaba yamantombazana kunye namantombazana abuthana ngokuhlwa. Kwakhona, ungalibali ukuba "uzenzele umhle", kwaye kwakhona uphinde ubonise ubungqina kunye nobuqili. Zithenge i-"WINSTON" encinane kwaye ulahlekele ngengozi ukulibala. Emva koko, akuyimfuneko ukuba utshaye umsi - makube enye yezithuthi zakho. Fumana i-macho enhle kakhulu, kwaye yenyuka uye kuye kuye ngokumomotheka kwaye umcele ukuba akhanyise. Apha, phantse onke amanqaku-ukhetho lokuphumelela.
Ngoko unako ukumazi umntu oncike kwizinto ozizonwabisayo. Yiya kwikhonsathi, enye yebhanki yakho oyintandokazi. Ngethuba le ntsebenzo, unako ukuthetha nomntu osondeleyo nge talente enye okanye elinye iqela, umenzi. Khumbula ukuba naye ungumqhubi, oko kuthetha ukuba sele unento enye efana nayo eya kudlala indima ebalulekileyo ekuqhelaneni kwakho. Ngendlela, apha nangaphezulu kwesihloko sencoko akudingekile ukuba ucinge ixesha elide. Kuza kusetyenziswa ukutyelela esi siganeko. Kwaye nangu umntu ophulaphule umculo ozithandayo, naye. Kuya kuba kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba kulula kakhulu kwizinto eziqhelekileyo kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa ukufumana umntu kunye nokumazi. Kwaye, njengomthetho, abafana kwiminyaka eyi-15-17, sele benamakhoboka athile kunye nezinto ezithandwayo. Ngoko kutheni ungajoyina kwaye uzame ngokwakho kule shishini okanye leyo shishini, eliza kukukhonza njenge "ukukhanya okuluhlaza" ekufuneni inkwenkwe enhle.
Zithathele kwinqumle ukuba into ephambili ihlala isisombululo, kule minyaka abafana bayayihlonela iinjongo ezijoliswe kuzo kwaye banako ukufumana amantombazana abo. Uze ungakhohlwa ukuzibonakalisa njengentombazana enomdla kakhulu, ongeke akhathazeke. Amantombazana avuyayo nje, enesihawu kakhulu kwintlanganiso yokuqala. Kwakhona bonise ukuba ungumntu othakazelisayo kunye noxanduva onokuthi umfana angakwazi ukuxoxa nayo nayiphi na isihloko. Khumbula, awuzange ube ngumntwana ixesha elide kwaye okokuqala ukhangele umfana obudlelwane obude kunye nobubi. Landela la macebiso - kunye nokuthandana nabafana abasusela kwiminyaka eyi-15 ukuya kweye-17 ubudala nangaphezulu baya kupheka ukuba yingxaki kuwe!