Kuthetha ntoni ukuba impilomba iphupha?
UVanga wakhetha ukungena kwiinkcukacha zamaphupha ngeengcuka. Kodwa yena wachaza ngokucacileyo ukuba kuthethwa ngantoni kuphupha. Eli phupha lifanekisela intlanganiso kunye nomntu obhekene namabini obangela ingozi ngqo. Indlela kuphela yokuphuma kwimeko iya kuba kukulwa nezilwanyana kwaye uyinqobe. Kukho iinkolelo ezininzi zabantu, ngokucacileyo, imboni isekelwe kwizigqibo zayo. Bathetha ukuba ama-windwalks ayimiphefumlo evuthayo yokuzibulala abafuna ukulimaza abantu. Yingakho kufuneka uzame ukubetha isilwanyana, ukuze ungenakukuthintela abagxeki okanye abanye abaxhamli.
Ingcaciso yephupha ye-Miller ichaza iziganeko ezinjalo ukusuka kwimbono yokuqonda. Ngokwenzululwazi, eli lidumi lixhomekeke ngqo kumsebenzi kunye nezoshishino. UMiller ukholelwa ukuba kwishishini kukho "imithetho yemvu". Ngoko ke, ukuba uyaphupha, qwa lasela abaphantsi. Mhlawumbi, omnye wabo akanelisekile ngomvuzo kwaye ulungele ukunika iimfihlelo zorhwebo zoshishino lakho kumncintiselwano ukwenzela ukuhlawulwa kwemali.
Ukuba uva ukulila ephupheni, unokuhlaziya. Iintshaba ngeke zikwazi ukulimaza, kwaye iinjongo zabo zobugebengu ziya kubonakala. Nangona uhlaselayo, luphawu oluhle. Iziganeko eziyimpumelelo ngokuqinisekileyo ziya kuphuhliswa xa ulwela nesilwanyana kwaye uyinqobe. Kubantu abakwizikhundla zobunkokheli, eli phupha lithetha ukupheliswa kwamashishini. Kwaye nabasebenzi abaqhelekileyo-ingqwalasela kwabasemagunyeni kunye nokunyuka ngokukhawuleza kwekhondo lomsebenzi.
Ukwesabisa ingcuka kuthetha ukuba usengozini yengozi. Zama ukuthembela ekuziphatheni kwangaphambili ebomini kwaye uqaphele.
Ukutolika kwabantu amaphupha ngeengcuka
- Ukukubona ehlathini kuyimfuneko yokuhlalutya umlingiswa wakho nokuziphatha. Ukuze uqhube kwinkqubo eyinkimbinkimbi yokwazisa, awukwazi ukufikelela kwiindawo eziphakamileyo.
- Ivakalelo lokuxhalaba emehlweni kwimbusi libonisa efanayo, kodwa iimvakalelo ezincinci ebomini. Mhlawumbi unomuva wokuba usengozini, kodwa ukuqhuba loo nto uzivelele. Phulaphulaphula ilizwi lakho langaphakathi. Uya kukuxelela indlela echanekileyo yokuphuma kwimeko.
- Ukuba uphupha izimpisi ehlathini, umhlambi wonke, ngoko uya kuba nelifa elingalinganiyo, kungekhona nje ngabantu abanesifiso sokugula, kodwa kunye neemeko zobomi obuyinkimbinkimbi. Ukuba ephupheni uya kubaleka ezimpileni, ngoko ebomini uya kuzama ukuphumelela ukufihla kwiinkathazo. Ngako oko, zama ukubandakanyeka ekulwa nepakethi uze ubonise isibindi kunye nobuchule bokunqoba. Kule meko kuphela uza kunqoba ubomi obunzima.
- Iphunga elihle ephupheni linokuchazwa ngokungalindelekanga. Abakhuphiswano bakho baya kukugqithisa, kwaye musa ukwakha nayiphi na intlanzi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba awuzami ukubala imeko kwangaphambili.
- Ukuba uyakubetha, ungabathelani abaqhelana nabo kwaye uzincitshe ukuba ungathethana kuphela nabantu abangabaziyo.
- Ingcuka e mhlophe yinto ebonakalayo yobomi bakho bamandla kunye namandla. Unokuba lula ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke iingxaki ngaphandle kokuphazamisa impilo yakho kunye nokuziphatha.
- Ukufuya isilwanyana kwiphupha kuyisayinwe esihle. Unokubetha bonke abakhuphisanayo. Ngaphezu koko, oku kuya kukunceda kulo mntu kusuka kwimeko yakho, apho ngaphambili ungengaboni kakhulu.