Kunqabile kakhulu ukuhlukana ngokungalindelekanga. Enye into yokuba akukho mntu ufuna ukuvuma ukuba ubudlelwane bakhe buba bubi kakhulu imihla ngemihla. Yonke inethemba lokuba ithuba lokuba yonke into iya kuhamba ngokwayo kwaye ize. Ngezantsi, unikwe uluhlu lwempawu ezibonisa ukuba le ndoda yayifuna ukuhlukana nawe.
U ngumfazi
1. Umoya wenguqu.
Umntu udla ngokuthe rhoqo ukuba lixesha lokuba utshintshe. Akayithandi impawu yakho, into oyenzayo kunye nendlela othetha ngayo. Uqala ukucaphukisa yonke into. Nangona kunjalo, i-samoa ayiyi kutshintsha phantsi kweyiphi na ingqiqo kwaye ayicingi ncam.
2. Naliphi na, ingxaki eyona nto ingabalulekiyo yaba yintlekele.
Into kuphela efika engqondweni yakho kukuba ungaphila njani ngaphambili ngaphantsi kwephahla elilodwa? Namhlanje yonke into ishintshile kwaye oko akuzange ayithobele ingqalelo ngaphambili, ngoku kubangela ukuqhuma komsindo. Unokuthi indoda ibetha indlovu ephaphazelayo, kwaye kakbudto ngokukhawuleza ifuna isizathu. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba ngoku kufuneka ufune iindlela zokusombulula iingxaki zodwa.
3. Unxibelelwano kwicala.
Unkosikazi, owabonakala ebomini bakhe emva kwemigodi ethile-akude nesizathu sokuphelisa umtshato. Kodwa kwinqanaba elithile bubungqina bokuba umntu uyakwazi ukwahlula okanye ubuncinci ukulungiselela. Kodwa ukuba loo mntu uzimisele ngokumka, akayi kugcina zonke iimfihlelo ezingqongqo, kuphela xa engenazo iingxaki zemali.
4. Iimangalelo rhoqo rhoqo.
Umyeni uzama ukukwenza unetyala kuwo onke amathako akhe ngokukhenkceza okanye ngokukhwela. Uhlala etsho ukuba ngenxa yokuba awukwazi ukwakha umsebenzi, akasebenzi, awuyena umfazi afuna ukumbona emva kwakhe. Kwaye ngokubanzi-ufuna uninzi kuye kwaye ukhathele.
5. Awuthandi.
Njengoko kuvela, akasanelisekanga noko akubonayo ngaphambili. Uqala ukubeka ingqalelo kuyo yonke into - "uyadla kakhulu," "zithini iinwele zakho?" "Ugqoke kwakhona, njengoko ndingayazi na?" Ngokubanzi, nonke nenza netak njengoko kuyimfuneko.
Unkosikazi
1. Uloyika.
Ngomnye weentlanganiso zakho eziqhelekileyo, ngokukhawuleza uthi uyesaba ukuqhubeka nawe. Uchaza yonke into engeyena indoda yakho kwaye ufanelekile ngakumbi. Uthi, "Ndixhalabile ukuba andinakukunika oko ufuna."
2. Ukhumbula abantwana.
Abantwana bangasetyenziselwa isizathu sokuyeka ulwalamano. Uqala ukuthetha ngabo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye ngenye indlela, uthi akakwazi ukutshabalalisa intsapho yakhe. Umbuzo yindlela abantwana abasebenzisa ngayo ngaphandle kwengqalelo kabawo, abawudlali indima.
3. Uqonda ukuba uye wenza uxolo.
Ukuziphatha komntu kuyatshintsha. Ngaphambili, wakhetha ukungathethi ngomfazi wakhe, kodwa ngoku uqala ukuziva ukuba wayeziphatha ngendlela engafanelekanga kwaye wamngcatsha umfazi wakhe. Ungaqala ingxoxo kwimiphefumlo, apho iya kuhamba kuyo yonke into ebalulekileyo.
4. Umbhalisi kwinethiwekhi.
Ngoku, xa ebuya kuwe, ifowuni yakhe sele ingekho kwimodi yokuguqula. Uphendula ngokukhawuleza umnxeba umnxeba wakhe, uxelela ububele bakhe kunye nokulalela kwaye kukho ukuziva ukuba akafikanga khona. Awuqondi into ayenzayo ngokubanzi.
Yendalo.
1. Ubomi buba bubi.
Ubomi bakho abukho into entsha eyenzekayo, yonke into iyafana neyayiinyanga ezimbalwa ezedlule. Ubundlobongela buba ngumsebenzi wokudibanisa kwaye kaninzi kunika uvuyo kunye nemibono emitsha. Intshukumo iya kwixesha elingapheliyo imihla ngemihla, kwaye loo ndoda ayenzi nto yokusombulula ingxaki. Ixesha lokuba uqaphele kwaye likulungele ukugqithisa.
2. Thetha malunga nabafazi abangaphandle.
Isabelo sakho siba vavanyo olunzulu. Kufuneka uphulaphule imihla ngemihla malunga neentombazana ezakhayo, ezintle, ezonwabileyo, ezakhayo kumsebenzi wakhe. Ingcamango yokuba uya kuba mkelekile ukuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca kwaye ukhangele ngakumbi, kodwa yonke into iyacaca.
3. Akwazisi.
Ngexesha elithile, ngokukhawuleza uyanyamalala. Uyeka ukubhala, ukubiza, akazibizi naziphi na iinjongo kwaye emva kokufowunela zonke izibhedlele, ngokukhawuleza uyashumayela kwaye akachazi nto. Ufanele uzicinge ngokwakho oko kwenzekayo kwaye apho bekukho. Unokuqala isangqa, apho ungasidingi isizathu. Ukuba uyayithiya inxila, kuya kunxila ukukhupha. Ngokuqhelekileyo - uya kuziphatha ukuze wena ngokwakho ufake umtshato.