Amadoda amaninzi akholelwa ukuba umfazi akayi kuhamba naphi na, kuba uyipropati. Yaye indoda ingenza nantoni na. Jonga ngokungakumbi abahlobo bakho, osebenza nabo emsebenzini. Ngaba uqaphele ukuba ufihla emva kokumomotheka emsebenzini? Kutheni i-intombi yakho igqoke izibuko zelanga namhlanje, kwaye intombazana evela kwisebe elilandelayo ayizange yambathe iingubo ezimfutshane elaliziqhayisa izolo?
Makhe sijonge ingxaki evela ngaphakathi kwaye uzame ukubona into enokuyenza kule meko.
Ngokwe-2009, malunga ne-80% yeentsapho zaseRashiya zihlala zifumana ubudlova basekhaya ngenye indlela. Kwaye, oko kukuthi, isibhamu sokuhlasela sithatha indawo yokuqala. Umfazi oye wahlaselwa ngumyeni wakhe akafuni uncedo naphi na. Kwaye, ngokwenene, apho ukubiza khona? Ngomnxeba wefowuni kuphela, kwaye uxoxe nomsebenzisi, ngubani, ngelanga, akanakunceda kwaye akenzi nto.
Ukumisa ugonyamelo lwasekhaya, kuyimfuneko ukuphumeza imilinganiselo yamanyathelo ajongene nenkxaso yoluntu kunye nokukhuselwa kwabasetyhini. Uncedo lwezonyango, olusemthethweni nolokwengqondo kufuneka luqwalaselwe. E-Russia, okwangoku, akukho nkonzo enjalo.
Okumangalisayo kukuba, amava aphumelele kakhulu ekukhuselweni kobundlobongela basekhaya aseMelika. Nawuphi na waseMelika oye wahlulwa ngumyeni wakhe unokungena kwinqanaba le-social support center apho unokufumana uncedo olufanelekileyo aze azifihle kumyeni wakhe onobudlova. Baya kunceda ukulungisa imeko yokubetha, kunika onke amaxwebhu afanelekileyo. Umhlali waseUnited States akayedwa yinkinga yakhe, uninzi lokubuyela kuye. Kwaye kufuneka ntoni abesifazane baseRashiya?
Okokuqala, kuyafaneleka ukuqonda ukuba yintoni ingozi kuwe nabantwana bakho enikezwa ngumyeni onobudlova, nendlela yokunciphisa ukubetha, nokuba bhetele, ukuwayeka ngokupheleleyo. Makhe sibone ukuba ziphi iingozi zesilisa ezikhoyo.
I-animator.
Ngaphandle yindoda efanelekileyo yentsapho, ihlala ikhutshwe, iyancasa kwaye ivulekile ngaphandle. Akukho mntu wayeza kukwazi ukuthetha ngomntu onjalo ukuba unako udlame lwasekhaya. Abahlobo bakho banomona ngomona ukuba utshatile umntu onjalo omhle. Umyeni emsebenzini nguye inkokeli, kwinkampani yabahlobo-umbane omkhulu. Inentleko enhle, iyazilandelela ngokwayo.
Ukubetha umfazi ngesimo esicacileyo. Ukuze uphume kuye, elinye ilizwi lakho elibi lizwi lanele. Ukungaphumeleli ngentsingiselo, uyaqiniseka ukuba uya kukugweba ngokufanelekileyo, emva koko, "ubeka ityala."
Ukholo.
Umtyholi oqhelekileyo. Ulawula kwiintsapho, uziphatha njengoko ufuna. Hlangana nabahlobo, unokunxila ekhaya. Uhlasele izibhamu ezifana noko, akadingi isizathu. Njengomthetho, ngexesha lokubetha umntu udakwa. Ekuseni akayi kukukhumbula okwenzekayo, kwaye akayi kuphinda axolise. I-psychology ye-despot ilula kakhulu: "ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka umbethe umfazi ukuze azi indawo yakhe."
Loser.
Indoda enjalo ibhekene nokuzithoba, ininzi ehlukileyo ebomini bakhe, kwaye uzama ukunganeliseki kwakhe emhlabeni kwaye ngokwakhe ekubetheni umfazi ongenacala. Indoda enjalo, njengokulawula, ngamanye amaxesha isela, iyakwazi "ukushiya". Uzama ukubonisa amandla akhe kumfazi obuthathaka. Bala ilahleko ngempawu zangaphandle kunzima kakhulu.
Uvukelo.
Uyindoda enhle kakhulu, uyayithanda umfazi nabantwana bakhe. Ekusebenzeni kuyakwazisa, kwinkampani yabahlobo-bahlonishwa. Uncedisa indlu, ngelizwi, indoda epheleleyo. Uyancibilika izandla zakhe kuphela ngokusela ngokunyanisekileyo nakwezinto ezinkulu. Ngenxa yezenzo zakhe, ngoko uxolise, kwaye uya kuba nentlungu kakhulu malunga noko kwenzeka.
Njengomthetho, kwiintsapho ezinjalo umfazi uqala ukubetha, ekholelwa ukuba unokuxelela umntu nantoni na ukhuseleko olupheleleyo. Khumbula ukuba unokufumana umntu ngaphandle kwakhe ngegama elilodwa nje.
Yintoni enokuyenza xa impilo yakho yokuphila isuka esihogweni, uyayesaba indoda yakho? Okokuqala, kuyafaneleka ukuba ucinge ukuba ulungele ukuqhubeka uphila nomntu onjalo. Khumbula ukuba xa kwenzeka ukubetha, kwenzeka kwakhona.
Kwimeko ye-Despot ne-Zhivader, unokukubiza ngokukhuselekileyo amapolisa, ngokuqinisekileyo eze kwaye athathe umyeni onobudlova ixesha elide. Yaye ungesabi imibono yabamelwane, izalamane kunye nabaziwayo. Unengxaki kwaye ufuna uncedo.
Kukho iinkonzo zenkxaso zentlalo ekhethekileyo, udibanisa nabo, unokufumana uncedo lweengcali kunye neengcebiso. Iingcali zengqondo ziya kukuxelela indlela yokuziphatha nokuzikhusela kubundlobongela basekhaya.
Cinga, kunjalo, kodwa umfazi akafanelanga ukubetha kwaye akabophekanga ukuba aphile nomntu ochaphazelekayo. Mhlawumbi kuphela indlela eqinisekileyo yokuqhawula umtshato.