Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uhambe ngokukhawuleza kwimeko kwaye unqume indlela yokwenza ngayo. Kule meko, ukukwazi ukuthatha izigqibo ngesantya sombane kunokukunceda ukuphepha iingxaki ezininzi. Nangona kunjalo, akubona wonke umntu onokuyilungisa kakuhle imeko kwaye enze ukhetho olungalunganga. Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ufunde indlela yokwenza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa oku akunjalo. Ukuze ukwazi indlela yokufunda ukwenza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza, kufuneka ufunde imigaqo embalwa.
Ukuba ufuna ukuba zonke izenzo zakho ziphumelele, kufuneka wenze oko ukwenzela ukuba ukwenziwa kwezigqibo ngokukhawuleza kwelanga kube ngokwakho. Ewe, ukuthatha iinqununu ngokukhawuleza kuthetha ukubeka ingozi. Ngoko ke, ukuze ufunde indlela yokufunda ukwenza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza, kufuneka uqale uloyiko. Kufuneka ulungele ukuthatha uxanduva. Ukwenza oku, khumbula imithetho embalwa, apho ungayifunda khona le ncedo, nangona kunjalo
Phendula kuphela
Okokuqala, khumbula njalo ukuba awubophekanga kuyo yonke into kwaye uhlala wenza izigqibo. Funda ukungafuni, ukuba uyazi ukuba akusikho ubuchule bakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umntu unokukhubeka, kodwa qiniseka ukuba uya kuba nomsindo ngakumbi xa isigqibo sakho simlimaza. Ngoko ke, zithathele olu xanduva xa lufika kuwe. Ukongeza, ukwenza isisombululo esifanelekileyo kunye ngokukhawuleza, ungalandeli imithetho yakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo sihlushwa yinto yokuba siqala ukuzama ukwenza njengoko asifuni ngokwenene. Izisombululo zakho kufuneka zifanise iiminqweno zakho ngokubanzi.
Funda ukuzithathela uxanduva lwakho
Ukwenza isigqibo ngokukhawuleza kuthetha ukuthatha uxanduva. Xa ugqiba into ethile, yiphatha njengokuba wena. Emva koko uza kukwazi ukuqonda ngokukhawuleza okokukhetha ukwenza. Kufuneka uqonde ukuba ezininzi zinokuxhomekeka kwisigqibo sakho. Ngoko zibeke imeko kwaye uya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza ukuba unqwenela okanye ungafisi.
Unganikeli ukuxinezeleka
Akufanele wenze isigqibo kwisimo sokuxinezeleka. Ukuba usenokwenza oku, kufuneka ufunde ngokucacileyo kwiimeko. Olu buchule alunikwe ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko ke, zama ukuqhuba uhlobo oluthile lwe "uhlaziyo". Ngokomzekelo, ukuba usebenza kwishishini elithile apho ushiye khona intloko yakho, zama ukutshintsha ngokugqithiseleyo ingqalelo kwisigqibo esithile, nokuba sisincinci. Nangona intloko yakho igqitywe ngezinye iingcamango, zama ukuxhuma kubo kwaye ugxininise ekwenzeni isigqibo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ungafunda indlela yokutshintsha ngokukhawuleza kwaye ungayithobeli ingqalelo imeko, ukugxila kwizinto eziza kubaluleke kakhulu okwangoku.
Funda ulwazi oluyimfuneko
Nangona uceliwe ukuba wenze isigqibo ngokukhawuleza, oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele ukwenze ngokupheleleyo ngaphandle kokukwazi ulwazi olunokukunceda. Buza umntu oza naye ukuba aphendule le mibuzo eyakuthandayo. Ungesabi oko umntu uya kucinga, njengokungathi uchitha ixesha. Emva koko, kufuneka kwakhona ube nenjongo, kwaye oku akunakwenzeka kwimeko apho kufuneka wenze izigqibo ukususela ekuqaleni.
Musa ukoyika
Akufanele ukwesaba ukwenza izigqibo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuxhomekeka kuwe kwaye awufuni ukuba ukhetho lwakho lukhokelela kwimiphumo emibi. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uvumela ukwesaba ukuba kuthathe ifa lakho, isinqumo asinakwenzeka ukuba sichaneke kunye nenjongo. Akusona nto abayithethayo yokuba ukwesaba kunamehlo amakhulu. Kulo rhu lumente, uya kuqala ukuhlaziya yonke into, cinga ngeendlela ezininzi eziya kuthethwa nguloyiko lwakho kwaye mhlawumbi ziphela zigqibo eziphosakeleyo. Ngoko ungaze uvumeleke ukuxhatshazwa ngexesha lesigqibo esheshayo. Ikhethelo elikhethekileyo lingafakwa kuphela ngokuthembela kwingqondo ebandayo kunye nentloko enobungakanani. Ukuba unako ukuzigcina ungeneli kwaye ungathinteli kwimpembelelo yezinto zangaphandle, isigqibo sakho sokukhawuleza siya kuchaneka.