Ukulungisa zonke iingxaki zeengqondo - ngaphakathi kwakho


Wonke umntu ubuncinane kanye kanye ebomini bakhe bendivakalelwa kukuba le nto yayilahlekelwe yintsikelelo. Wayeka emaphethelweni enzonzobileni kwaye sele elele elasha. Uphahliwe - kungabi naso ixesha lokunqumla ukuguquka kwingozi. Kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba zeziphi izizathu. Into ebalulekileyo yindlela yokungabi nexesha lokwenza isinyathelo sokugqibela esinqumlekileyo kwaye singabi phantsi kweli nqwala. Kukho na, nokuba yimeko enzima kakhulu, kukho indlela yokuphuma. Into ephambili ayiyi kuphelelwa yintliziyo kwaye uzama ukujonga ihlabathi ngokuthemba. Khumbula: isisombululo kuzo zonke iingxaki zeengqondo ziphakathi kwakho.

Ihlabathi liwela kwiinqununu ezincinci kungekhona kuphela kwiziganeko, izimo ezingathandekiyo kunye neengxaki. Maxa wambi sigqiba umsebenzi ngokwabo. Thina siyabhubhisa izinto ezingazange zitshabalalise iingxaki kunye neengxaki eziwe phezu kwethu. Siphulaphula le miqabana emancinci kwiintlobo ezincinci ngethemba lokuba iingxaki zethu ziya kuphulaphula. Kodwa oku akunjalo! Sitshatyalalisa ubomi bethu kuphela. Asinakhathalela ukuba kungekudala okanye kamva, ngaphandle kwalo lonke uthuli kunye nenqwaba enkulu yeziqhekeza ezinqamlekileyo ezichithwa ngumbutho okhuselekileyo wamanzi, kuya kufuneka sihlangane kunye nantoni na.

Ngexesha lokuyeka - mhlawumbi lo ngumsebenzi oyintloko kulabo abalahlekelwe ngumdla ebomini. Akulula? Ewe, akulula. Kodwa ihlabathi lihlelwe ngenye indlela yemilingo ukuze kungabikho banikwa iingxaki ezininzi, ubunzima kunye neentlungu kunokuba yena unako ukuthwala. Kwaye ukuqonda oku kuza kuphela xa yonke into isele ikhona. Xa amathuba amaninzi alahlekile kwaye alahleke ngexesha elingenanto. Enyanisweni, kwimeko enzima, xa umntu ebandakanyeka ukwesaba nokuphelelwa lithemba, akulula ukuqonda ukuba zonke iimvakalelo neemvakalelo ziya kutshatyalaliswa kungekudala. Kodwa, kuba neqhekeza elincinci lomntu, umntu akanakujamelana neengxaki ngokwabo-kodwa ngeyodwa. Musa ukulibala malunga nethemba - indlela yokulungisa iingxaki zengqondo.

Ixabiso liyimpawu engazuze ilifa. Akangenanga kwimeko yokuzalwa. Injongo yinto esemgangathweni ekufuneka ihlakulelwe yedwa. Mhlawumbi, ngandlela-thile apha udlala indima ye-auto-suggestion. Kodwa ukuba umntu ulunge kwisiphumo esihle soshishino, ngoko ke umphumo ongeyiphumo ayibangela ukuba adumale. Ukuba nethemba kunokuba ufundise ukuba yonke into engenziwanga yenziwa kuphela. Ngoko ke, nakwiimeko ezintle kakhulu, umntu onikwe le mgangatho uya kuba nokubona indlela yokuphuma kwimeko.

Ukuba ungeke ube neengxaki, awuyi kuphinda wazi ukuba uyonwabile ngokwenene. Ukuba umhlaba awuyi kushiya iinyawo zakho, awuyi kuze wazi ukuba unzima kangakanani kwiinyawo zakho. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba ngaphandle kokubambisana neengxaki ezithile, umntu akayi kukwazi ukukwazi kwakhe. Kufana nobuntwana, xa abazali bezisa umntwana kwisikolo somculo, kwaye ootitshala bavula isipho sangempela somculo kuyo. Kodwa ukuba abazali abazange bathabathe ithole ngesandla baze bambonise le hlabathi lemilingo yomculo, ngoko ihlabathi lonke liyakwazi ukulahlekelwa enye ingqiqo. Umntwana akanakuze azi oko akwaziyo.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, kungcono ukuba kule nto yonke into eyenzeka ngale ndlela - ngokuzolile nangomusa. Kodwa kuya kuba ngumlingo wangempela. Ngako oko, abantu abaninzi banokuvula kuphela xa ubomi bubaqhubela emgibeni lokwesaba, ukucaphukisa, ukudumala, intlungu. Nangona iimbali zethu ezilele entloko nentliziyo zityhilwa kuthi kuphela kwiimeko ezithile.

Ukuba awuze ufike emngceleni welasha, awukwazi ukuba ngubani ohlala kufuphi naye kunye nomhlobo oyinyaniso. Mhlawumbi, ngabahlobo bokwenene abavumelanga umntu ukuba athathe isinyathelo sokugqibela ephosa. Indoda eyifumene kwindawo engathandekiyo. Xa ihlabathi lakhe liqala ukubukeka njengobumnyama obumnyama, ngamanye amaxesha awudingi uncedo. Akuncedi izinto eziphathekayo - kodwa nje umphulaphuli. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuluvuyo ngakumbi xa ubelana ngokunqoba kwakho kunye nemihlali. Kodwa ukufunda ukuphulaphula ngeengxaki, ukudimazeka kubaluleke ngakumbi. Mhlawumbi ngelinye ilanga uya kuba yedwa intambo yokuphepha eya kuvumela umntu ukuba angakhubeki. Kwaye ixesha liya kudlulela, kwaye umntu uya kufaka isandla sakho ngokukhawuleza ukuze ungawa phantsi kwidolongo kunye nolonwabo olonakalisayo. Luhlobo lwesigunyaziso sokubambisana, xa abantu benwebisa isandla. Kwaye ngoko ngamanye amaxesha sibambelele kubomi ngokubonga kubahlobo, abantu abasondeleyo, izalamane. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha siyabonga ngabo bantu esingazange sicinge ukuba bayakwazi ukuphulaphula nokubanceda. Iimeko ezahlukeneyo - abantu abahlukeneyo. Kwaye naphi na eli hlabathi lihamba, ngokwembono yabaninzi, ngamnye wethu unako ukuba ngumhlobo ongenabugovu kunye onokwethenjelwa. Akunjalo kuba sithemba ukufumana uncedo olunye ngolunye usuku. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba asifuni nje ukulahlekelwa ukholo kubantu nakwabo.

Kukho omnye umsizi omkhulu-ngeli xesha. Ixesha liphilisa yonke into. Omnye udinga ixesha elingaphezulu, enye ingaphantsi. Kodwa nakweyiphi na imeko, ngexesha lonke amanxeba ayabhalwa. Ixesha elinika ukuba siqonde ukuba zonke iingxaki zethu ziye zaba esinye isigaba ebomini, ngexesha apho sakwazi ukufunda okuthile. Yiba nesineke okanye unamandla. Uxanduva okanye uxinzelele kubo. I-Tender okanye i-calmer, iqinisekile ngakumbi okanye intle. Ixesha lidlula, kwaye siqala ukuqonda ukuba bafumene amava abalulekileyo, iimpawu ezintsha kwaye baqala ukubheka kwihlabathi elijikeleze ngokwahlukileyo. Mhlawumbi kuba ngelinye ilanga bajonge kwintlango yokuphelelwa lithemba? Ngomzuzu omnye nje, ubukeka nje - kwaye kuya kusithatha ixesha elide ukulibala into esiyibonile phantsi kwesi shwala esibi. Kodwa imemori yoluntu inomgangatho owodwa oyingqayizivele - ngokuqhelekileyo umntu akayikhumbuli ixesha elingathandekiyo lobomi bakhe. Mhlawumbi inokuthelekiswa nenyaniso yokuba ibhinqa eliphantse alikhumbuli intlungu azizwayo ngexesha lokuzalwa komntwana. Okokuthi, uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba yayibuhlungu kakhulu. Kodwa akalikhumbuli ukuba kwakunjani. Ngoko siyakhumbula ukuba xa sasihlatywe ngentlungu kunye noyiko. Kodwa asikhumbuli iimvakalelo zethu. Njengokuba uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi okhuselayo lusebenza kwimemori yethu, ngoko ukuba i-horror ehambileyo ayikukhathazi ebomini bethu bonke. Ngako oko ixesha elungileyo.

Njengomnye wezona ziqhankqalazi kunye nezithandwayo zintombikazikazi ezithandekayo ekupheleni kwencwadana malunga nomsindo, uthando kunye nokukhangela injabulo uScarlett O'Hara "Ndiza kucinga ngalo ngomso." Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isinyathelo sokugqibela ephosa, yisela iglasi yewayini oyithandayo. Thetha kumhlobo wakho omhle, jonga i-movie enhle uze ukhale emlanjeni. Mhlawumbi, ukuvuswa kusasa, uya kuqonda ukuba ikusasa lakho likuxelela isisombululo esithile kwingxaki? Kwaye kusasa kunokuba uninzi kangangoko uthanda. Ngokuchanekileyo njengoko ufuna ukuba uhambe ukusuka entolongeni yendawo enzonzobileni, unamanyathelo ambalwa emva.

Akukho mntu ufuna ukufumana ubunzima bexesha elizeleyo, ukungena kumabali angamangalisi, alahlekelwe yinto eyonwabileyo. Kodwa ihlabathi linzima kakhulu. Kwaye indoda ifuna kakhulu kwihlabathi ngokwayo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kuye, ukuze igweme iintlungu kunye nokuphelelwa yinto yonke ebomini bayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, musa ukuma emva kwekona nganye ukubona ikati elimnyama kwaye uloyike umcimbi wonke onobungozi. Emva koko, ukuxhalaba rhoqo akuyona nto efanelekileyo kunoma yimuphi umntu. Ukukulungele iingxaki kunye nokuhlala besoyika izinto ezihluke ngokupheleleyo. Yaye ubunzulu beentlango ziyakwazi ukuhlukela wonke umntu. Mhlawumbi ngamanye amaxesha awunakuze ukhangele kuyo, ukuze ungadideki ukuba awunakuze ubone indawo ephantsi. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula kuphela ukuba umntu apha kweli hlabathi ufuna umntu kakhulu. Omnye uya kuhlala emlindele, amthande aze akholelwe kuye. Omnye onokufanelekile ukuyeka ngexesha. Okanye umntu ofuna ukuma ngexesha. Ubomi kukuba, akuyiyo indaba yefestile kwaye ayikho i-melodrama eyaziwayo. Kuphi, ngomzuzwana wokugqibela, lowo ungamniki isinyathelo sokugqibela unceda uncedo lwe-protagonist ngendlela ecacileyo. Kwaye ngakwelinye icala - asifuni ukukholelwa kwiindalana? Kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba ukholo olunjalo luyakwazi ukunqoba nayiphi na inzululwazi, ukude, izithuba, iingxaki kunye neengxaki. Ngenxa yokuba thina nathi sinamalunga amancinci. Ubuncinane kumntu okholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo kuthi.