Ukulungiselela ukubonakala komntwana akuwona umsebenzi olula: kufuneka ucinge yonke into uze uyilinganise. Kunzima kunabo boomama abanomso, abanalindelanga enye kuphela, kodwa iimbini ezimbini ngeyodwa.
UKUKHUTSHISWA KWENKQUBO
Amama amawele ahlala ejikelezwe ngqalelo ekhethekileyo. Oogqirha abavela kwiintetho zabasetyhini bayazigcina zixhatshazo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha zikhutshwa kwimizi yinto engena "iqela elijongene nobungozi", ebonisa ukuba umntu ukukhulelwa okungafaniyo kuyimfuneko.
Izihlobo kunye nabahlobo, njengomthetho, bayamangalisa ngempumelelo ephindwe kabini kwaye sele beqikelele kwiindleko zengqondo zezipho kubantwana abathandayo ngosuku lwabo lokuzalwa.
Ngemihla yokugqibela ngaphambi kokuba azalwe, isisu segolide somama weentsana ezimbini siyakubonakalisa ubungakanani bayo, kwaye yena kunye nentloko yakhe kubonakala ukuba inokuthi ifakwe kakuhle kwi-Guinness Book of Records.
Ekupheleni kwinyanga yesithoba, ngokuqinisekileyo, umfazi uya kufakwa kwiimbono zabantu abancedayo kunye nemibuzo yabahlobo kunye nabasebenzi. Kodwa kufuneka ahlale elungelekile nakwabanye - kungekho mnandi kakhulu kubachaphazelekayo kwiimeko zakhe. Ngokomzekelo, iindleko zokuxilongwa kwe-ultrasound okanye olunye usuku lokuhlala esibhedlele ngokwemvumelwano yokuba "umama omkhulu" ngaphezulu. Ukulungelelanisa ii-nursery kunye nokuqokelela i-dowry, umama omncinci akahlali emela ngokucacileyo okokufunekayo "ubomi obutsha". Siza kuzama ukulungisa uluhlu lweamawele ezifunekayo kumbono womama.
KONYE - VESELEY!
Musa ukukhawuleza ukuthenga izibini ezimbini ngokukhawuleza. Iintsana oza kuziselela ekhaya zincinci kwaye zisebenzisekile ukuba ufikelele kumbhede omnye kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuphazamisana. Ngaphezulu koko, izazi zeengqondo zibonisa ukuba abantwana abaye bahlula isibeleko sikamama, kwiinyanga ezilishumi elinesithoba, baya kuba noxolo ngakumbi okokuqala. Kwimeko apho, cinga ngokucwangcisa ifenitshala ukwenzela ukuba kukho indawo yendawo enye. Bonke abantwana bahlukile, mhlawumbi ngokukhawuleza uza kuthenga enye yesibini. Uphando lwabazali abavini lubonise ukuba abanye abazalwana noodade banokulala ndawonye ukuya kwiinyanga ezintandathu, ngelixa abanye baqala ukuphazamisana kunye nokufuna ukuvuselela "kwigumbi elihlukileyo" kwinyanga yesibini yobomi. Ngokuphathelele ukuncelisa, ngoko, ngokuchasene nenkolelo eninzi, oomama abaninzi banamathela kubantwana ababini ngaphandle kokuxhaswa nobisi ngobisi. Kwaye, ke, oku kunceda kakhulu umlotha wokutya amawele. Into emangalisayo kuzo zonke iintlobo ingathengwa kwiivenkile ezizodwa okanye ezenziwe kwi-foam eninzi. Umcamelo ukhangeleka njengehashe enkulu. Umama, ehleli embhedeni, uyifake esinqeni kunye neendawo "izindlalifa" kumacala omabini omlambo. Ukondla ngokusana kweentsana kunamathuba amaninzi. Okokuqala, ngoku kusela, ukuveliswa kweprolactin kumzimba wesifazane kukhulu kakhulu, okuba nefuthe elihle kwimali yobisi. Okwesibini, ixesha, elinqongophalayo, lilondolozwe kakhulu. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba kunye nokondla ngokufanayo kwintsana kunikwe ingqalelo enganeleyo. Ewe - unganokuthi ungondla abantwana kunye nanye ngexesha.
SIDLA, HLA, HLA!
Xa ukhetha isitulo sabakhubazekile, qaphela ubungakanani balo, ubungakanani bomhlaba wonke, ukulungelelaniswa kwe-assembly-disassembly kunye nomenzi. Njengomthetho, kwi-elevator yesiqhelo, umqhubi ophindwe kabini uhambelana kuphela xa ephanga. Akuyikrele kakhulu-inye into yokuhamba ukuhamba iya kuba nezigaba ezimbini. Ukwahlula inqununu phakathi kwabaqhubi ababini abafakela abantwana: ingaba abantwana bayasondelana, okanye omnye ngomnye, "ngedolophu". Ikhetho ngalinye linamathuba kunye neengxaki. Xa abantwana behlala eduze komnye nomnye, banokuthintana nomnye, ngokuba wonke umntu uqala ukujonga, kodwa "i-locomotive" iyahambelana kakhulu-ingena kwi-elevator yokuthutha kunye ne-balcony. Ezinye iimodeli zenguqu-zitshintshi zixhotywe ngeenkonkcola zokugcoba. Ukongeza ekuhambeni, banokwenza omnye umsebenzi omhle: ukuba zombini iintsana zingenangqondo ngaphambi kokulala, ziyakudaka.
UKUKHETHA KWEMISEBENZI
Ngoku kutshanje, kuye kwaba yinto yesiko ukugqoka amawele ngeempahla ezifanayo, ngokugqithiseleyo ukugxininisa ubungqina babo. Umboniso onjalo ungakhupha umfesane kwindwendwe ethile, ngokukhawulela bonke abantu ukuba bahambe kwintsapho. Kodwa makhe sijonge ingxaki yokukhethwa kwezigubhu ngamehlo wengqondo yengqondo yomntwana: iphutha eliphambili kwimfundo yeewele liyi-generalization yabo, idibanisa umgca phakathi kobomi bobufana obunjalo. Oku kuvimbela abantwana ukuba bangaziva njengomntu ngamnye: baqala ukuzibona bona "thina", kodwa kungekhona nje ngokuba "mna". Kwaye inyaniso, ngaba siva kaninzi kangakanani kumama wamawele njengamagama athi: "Amakhwenkwe ayagula", "iintombi zam azivumeli umama alele." Nangona eqinisweni, umntwana omnye kuphela unokugula, ongenasiphelo okanye ogulayo. Kwaye iingubo ezifanayo kwakhona zigxininisa "ukudibanisa" kwabantwana.
Ngenhlanhla, iimarike zanamhlanje zembatho zezingane zihluke kakhulu, kwaye unokukhetha ngokudibeneyo, kodwa izinto ezahlukeneyo.