Kutheni ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezincinci zezithuthi?

Ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezincinci zezithuthi kubantwana kuyinkqubo ende kunye eqhubekayo, ngexesha apho umntwana efunda ihlabathi, uqala ukuthetha naye, ukufumana ukuxhamla kunye nokuqala ukuthetha. Ngamanye amaxesha abazali abangakwaziyo kwesi sihloko bazibuza ukuba kutheni ukuphuhlisa izakhono zamancinci kumntwana? Sizakuzama ukuphendula lo mbuzo.

Izakhono zezithuthi ezintle azikho nje umsebenzi odibeneyo we-muscular, bone and systems systems of body. Uphuhliso lwayo olufanelekileyo luxhomekeka kwiimpawu zengqondo, ngokukodwa inkqubo yembonakalo, eyimfuneko ukuba umntwana aphinda ukunyuka okuncinci kunye neminwe. Ngendlela, ngokubhekiselele kwizakhono zamandla ezandla kunye neminwe, igama elithi "dexterity" lingasetyenziswa. Izakhono ezintle zezithuthi zibandakanya iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuhamba, ngokuqala ngokuthathwa kwezinto eziphambili (umzekelo, ukuthatha izinto) kwiindawo ezincinci, ngesiseko apho, ngendlela, kubhalwe ngesandla kubantwana. IzeNzululwazi ibonise ukuba kukho uxhulumaniso phakathi kokuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi kunye nentetho yabantwana. Ngoko ke, iingcali zincoma ukuphuhlisa izakhono zamancinci ezincinci ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala, kuquka neentsuku zokuqala zokuphila, nokwenza oku kubomi bakho.

Kuboniswa ukuba ukuphuhliswa kweminwe yeminwe kumntwana kuncedisa ekuphuhlisweni kokuqala kwangoko nokukhawuleza kwentetho. Oku kusekelwe kwinto yokuba izakhono ezincinci zezakhono zithuthukisa iinxalenye ezininzi zobuchopho, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuya kuthintela ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kwengane kakuhle. Izakhono ezincinci zezithuthi zomntwana ziya kumvumela ukuba enze ukunyakaza okuchanekileyo kunye nezixhobo ezincinci kwaye uyabulela kule nto uya kuqala ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza usebenzisa ulwimi. Uphando lweentetho zonyango aluyi kuyimfuneko kuye.

Abantwana abanezakhono eziphuculweyo zakhono ezinzima kunzima ukunika ileta esikolweni. Ngokuqhelekileyo abanakukwazi ukuphuma iintonga kunye neengwegwe zobume obufunekayo, kuba iminwe yabo kunye nebhasikidi abayithobeliyo, abanalo ukuxhamla. Nangona kunjalo, le ngxaki ichithwa. Akukho nto ikhusela ukuba uqale ukuphuhlisa ngamandla izakhono zezandla zomntwana wakho, nokuba waqala ukuya esikolweni.

Ileta iya kuba yinto efunwayo, kuba kuya kuba lula ukubhalela kunye nokufunda kuya kubonakala kunzima kwaye kungathandeki. Oku kubangelwa ukuba kunye kunye nokuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi, ingqwalasela, intetho, ukulungelelanisa, ukucinga, ukucinga, ukubonwa, imemori ebonakalayo, ukuphuculwa kwezinto eziphuculweyo kuphuculwe.

Ukuze ufumane indlela enokuphuhliswa ngayo ubuncinane bezakhono zemoto kwintsana yakho (unconywe iminyaka engama-3), ungammema ukuba enze imisebenzi emininzi kwifom yemidlalo. Oku kunokuba "iPiramidi" (gxiba intonga yentsimbi), unokunikezelwa umsebenzi wokuqokelela ama doll noma izixhobo ezincinci, ukukhawuleza iifowuni kwiingubo kunye nokubopha izicathulo, ukubopha amanqatha kwiinqumle okanye iidbhoni. Jonga kulo mzuzwana ngomntwana, ubeke ingqalelo kwisantya apho akwenza khona imisebenzi, ukuhamba ngomnwe wakhe. Ukuba uthe wagqiba ngempumelelo yonke imisebenzi ngezinga elifanelekileyo, ngaphandle kokuncinciza iminwe yakhe kunye nokuxubha, le yiphumo elihle kakhulu. Ukuba umntwana akazange aphumelele, lo msebenzi wawuhambisane nokucaphuka, iminwe yakhe ayizange ilalele, ayengasebenzi - ubuncinane bacinge ngexesha kwaye ukunika ithuba lokuphuhlisa izakhono zezithuthi ezifanelekileyo.

Iingcali zincoma abazali ukuba baqonde ngokugqithiseleyo ukukhethwa kwamathoyizi omntwana. Nika okukhethekileyo kumathoyizi ngokukhwela, ngokusebenzisa imingxuma, izikhwelo, iinxalenye ezincinci. Iindawo ezikhethiweyo ezithandwa yinto yokudlala, zibhetele. Ingane kufuneka ibe nomyili. Kwaye umdala osemdala, ugqibezele iinkcukacha zomyili. Kukholelwa ukuba ngumyili wezakhiwo unceda ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi kunye nokucinga okufanayo, ukucinga, izakhono ezifanelekileyo.

Ngesiseko seengcamango ezinzulu kunye neengxaki ezininzi zeengqondo kunye neengqondo zezingane, izazinzulu kunye neengcali zeengqondo zafika kwisigqibo esivumelanisiwe malunga nokukhombisana phakathi kwezinga lokuphuhlisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezakhono kunye nezakhono zokuthetha kubantwana. Umntwana onobugcisa obuphuculwe kakuhle bezandla zomnwe kunye nesandla sineendawo ezininzi eziphuhlisiwe zengqondo ejongene nokuthetha. Oko kukuthi, iminwe eqhelekileyo umntwana unayo, kulula kwaye ngokukhawuleza uya kuqonda intetho.