Inkcazelo yamanqaku yenye yeendlela zokwakha ubugcisa, kokubili abadala kunye nabantwana. Isiseko sayo ngumsebenzi wengcinga yomntwana. Le yilungu lemoya yemoya, kuba imfesane isekelwe kwimifanekiso apho umntwana angakwazi ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zakhe. Impembelelo yeendlovukazi ekuphuculeni ubuntu bomntwana inene kakhulu. Iinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo malunga nale zinikwe ngezantsi.
Inkcazo okanye umdlalo?
Kukho uxhulumaniso olunzulu phakathi kweenganekwane kunye nemidlalo. Singaxelela ukuba nayiphi na indaba yefriythi ayikho into ecwangcisiweyo - kungakhathaliseki ukuba le midlalo idlala okanye ayikho. Umntwana, ukuphulaphula iindaba zomntwana, unenkululeko efanayo kumdlalo wezithombe, ehamba kunye nomdlalo wokunyakaza. Umdlalo yi-fairy tale, kunye nenqaku le-fairy, eqinisweni, umdlalo ukuya kwinqanaba. Inkcazelo yenkcazelo yomntwana ayiyiyo ingqiqo. Amaqhawe angamafiya ahlala kubantwana babo ngokuphila kwabo ahlukeneyo, ekukhombiseni ihlabathi leemvakalelo zabo.
Iintlobo zeenganekwane kunye neempembelelo zabo kumntwana
Okwangoku, kukho ezimbini iindidi eziphambili zeenganekwane: umbhali kunye nabantu. Bobabini kunye nezinye iimbali ziyakwazi ukwahlula kwiintsuku zemihla ngemihla, iindaba ezimnandi kunye neendaba malunga nezilwanyana. Masiqwalasele ngokuthe ngqo kwiintlobo ezi.
Iingoma zabantu
Kukho izinto ezimbini eziphambili zeendalana. Okokuqala, yihlabathi eliphilayo elijikelezayo, elinaluphi na ixesha lokuthetha nomntwana. Oku kubalulekile ukuba nesimo sengqondo somntwana esicacileyo nesentsingiselo kuye. Okwesibini, eli candelo lokulungileyo nokubi, ukunqoba okungenakwenzeka. Oku kubalulekile ukugcina imimoya yomntwana nokuphuhlisa umnqweno wakhe wokuphucula, ukuphucula kwakhe ukuziphatha nokuziphatha.
Iindaba zezilwanyana
Abantwana abancinci bahlala bezibona bezilwanyana, bafuna ukufana nabo. Ziyimbali yezilwanyana ezibonisa amava afanelekileyo kubantwana. Abameli belizwe lezilwanyana bajwayelene naye kungekhona nje amaqhawe eendlovu, kodwa njengabantu ngabalingani babo kunye nezakhono. Umntwana ufumana ithuba lokuthetha kunye nokufunda ubomi.
Iindaba zeNdlu
Bathetha malunga nokutshatyalaliswa kobomi bentsapho, kubonisa iindlela zokulungisa iingxaki ezahlukeneyo zengxabano, ziqulethe isimo sengqondo esivakalayo kunye nengqiqo efanelekileyo yokuhlekisa ngokubhekisele kwiingxaki zobomi. Ngako oko, iindaba zeengxelo zemihla ngemihla zibaluleke kakhulu njengento ebalulekileyo ekuphuhliseni ubuntu bomntwana. Ngokukodwa ngomsebenzi ojolise ekwakheni ulwalamano lwentsapho kubantwana "nzima".
Ibali eyoyikisayo
Ukumodela kunye nokuphila ngokuphazamiseka ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwimeko yeenganekwane, umntwana ukhululekile ekuxininiso, athole iindlela ezintsha zokuzilawula. Iindaba ezibuhlungu zizinto ezithandayo ezengqondo zinika ithuba lokubona iingcamango zangaphakathi zelizwe labantwana. Amaqhawe eendaba ezinjalo anemiqathango kwaye ayinagama. Umlingani wabo awubonakaliswa, kwaye izenzo azikhuthazi. Ziyinto nje yokwenza umququzelelo wobungqina obuhle kunye nobubi. Umntwana uzikhethela yena, "ogula". Umsebenzi wabazali ukukhokela umntwana ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Iimbali zeMbhali
Ngokuqhelekileyo bacinga ngakumbi, bahloniphe ngakumbi kunabantu. Kukho uhlobo lweembali zamabhali, njengabafundi - zidalwe ngabafundisi "ukupakisha" kwezinto ezifanelekileyo zemfundo. Izibonakaliso ezingabonakaliyo kweli phepha (iinombolo, iileta, izenzo ze-arithmetic) ziphilileyo, umfanekiso wehlabathi lomhlaba wendalo. Ezi ndaba zibonisa intsingiselo nokubaluleka kolwazi oluthile.
Iingxelo zombhali we-Psycho-corrective zidalwe ukuba zibe nempembelelo enamandla ekuphatheni komntwana. Apha, ukulungiswa kuthetha ukuthatha indawo yokuziphatha engafanelekanga kunye nesicacisa ngakumbi, kunye nencazelo efumanekayo yomntwana wencazelo yento eyenzekayo. Ukusetyenziswa kweziganeko ezinjalo kuphelelwe ngumda (iminyaka engama-11-13) kunye neengxaki (ukungasebenzi, ukuziphatha okungonelanelekanga).