Yamkela umntwana njengoko kunjalo! Oku, mhlawumbi, kubazali, ngowomnye wemithetho ebaluleke kakhulu yokusinda kunye nomntwana onomdla.
Awukwazi ukutsala kwaye uxhatshaze umntwana ngokuhlala ehamba. Ngenxa yobuqhetseba benkqubo yesifo, kunzima ukuba umntwana wakho ahlale ehleli. Zama ukuthetha ngokuthula kwaye uzinzile. Ukuba ufuna ukuchazela into ethile kumntwana, menze ave, akuqonde, ngethuba le ngxoxo, jonga umntwana ngamehlo uze ubambe izandla.
Zama ukwakha ubugcisa obudibeneyo, ukudweba kunye nokudweba, ukudlala ukuzonwabisa kunye nokuphuhlisa imidlalo. Oku kukuvumela ukuba uhlakulele ukucinga kunye nesabelo. Khumbula wena imigaqo ethile yokusinda kunye nomntwana onobuhlungu.
Eminye imisebenzi esebenzayo kunye nokuphumla. Kwiminyaka eyi-3-4, umsebenzi womntwana oswelekileyo unokuhlala ixesha elingaphezulu kwama-7-10 emaminithi, kunye nabantwana aba-6-7 kwiminyaka - 20-25 imizuzu. Nangona kunjalo, bonke abantwana ngabanye. Mhlawumbi uneminyaka emithandathu ubudala kunye nemizuzu engama-20 iya kubonakala ngathi unyaka. Musa ukunyanzelisa imicimbi. Khumbula, ngokukhawuleza uzijwayele yonke into. Qinisekisa ixesha apho akwazi ukuyiqwalasela, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe, ngomzuzu, wandise. Ewe, oku kuya kuthatha iiveki enye kwaye akukho nyanga enye, kodwa iziphumo ziya kuqiniseka!
Kubalulekile ukuba uvunyelwe ukudlala imidlalo ephathekayo, kodwa ukuba uqaphele kakhulu kubo, kuba umntwana unokufumana uxinzelelo.
Ngaphambi komdlalo, cacisa ngokucacileyo imigaqo. Ngaphambi koko, thetha nomntwana ukuba emva komqondiso umdlalo uphela. Imiqondiso ingaba igama elithi "Yeka!", ICotton, intsimbi yentsimbi, ukukhaba kwingcambu.
Masidlale "inqaba yokuwa"
Kanye nomntwana, wakha inqaba ende yemithwalo. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo kufuneka udonse ukuze ungabhubhisi iindonga.
"Ngokukhawuleza - ngokukhawuleza"
Lo mdlalo ufundisa umntwana ukuba alawule ukuziphatha kwakhe. Thatha nayiphi na into uze uyidlulisele omnye komnye kuqala ngokukhawuleza, ukwandisa i-tempo, uze unciphise. Unokuhamba kwakhona, ugijime, ugxume ngeenguqu kwi tempo. Kusoloko ufuna ukugqiba umdlalo ngokukhawuleza.
Kwinqaku
Ukugqithisa ngokweqile kunye nokwesaba kwabantwana banamhlanje kuyintlungu yangempela yootitshala, ootitshala nabazali. Ngako oko, kubalulekile ukuba ungathandeki ngokubhekiselele kubantwana bakho abangasondelanga, kodwa nokuba ukwazi umlinganiselo "wokuthoba". Ukuba umntwana unomdla, kwaye akayi kuboleka kwimpembelelo yakho, ngoko uya kufuneka ulawule. Kufuneka kucaciswe kumntwana ukuba ungumzali wakhe, kwaye akukho nto inokumvumela ukuba aziphathe kakubi. Ukuba abazali baziphatha ngokusondeleyo kunye nenyameko, kwiimeko ezininzi abantwana banokukhawuleza ukuba "bahlale entanyeni" yabazali babo. Musa ukumisa le meko ngexesha, kungenjalo abazali bayengozini yokuxhomekeka kwimpembelelo yabo ixesha elide. Emva koko, ukuba abantwana abasebancinci bazijwayele into ethile, bekhulile, kuba nzima ukuwondla kuyo.
Cacisa ukuba uqhube okulungileyo nokubi. Ungalokothi uphawule kwaye, ngaphezu koko, ungambethi phambi kobanye abantwana kunye nabantu abadala. Mfundise indlela yokuphatha kakuhle abadala kunye nokuziphatha nabanye abantwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo udumise umntwana onjalo, kuba kunokubakho ukungabikho kwengqwalasela yakho kunye nesizathu sokungabikho kwengqondo kwengane. Ukulandela yonke imithetho engentla, ungaphinda ufundise "inkwenkwe embi" emzimbeni oqinileyo kunye nomoya wendoda.