Abantwana abancinci

Kwiinyanga ezili-18 ukuya kwezingama-30, xa umntwana efundile ukuhamba, ukuxabana phakathi komntwana kunye nomntu omdala kungavela kalula.

Ukomelezwa kolwazi kunye neengxaki ezingenakuzikhethela zabazali ukunyanzelisa ngokufanelekileyo, okanye, ngokuchasene noko, ukungazihoxisi iimfuno zomntwana onobundlobongela. Ukuba awufumani "intsebenziswano" ngexesha lokutya, ukulala okanye ukugqoka, umntwana uzama ukuphoqa.

Ukunyanzeliswa kwandisa kuphela ukukhusela. Kwaye ukuba, ngokujezisa, umntu omdala naye akahambelani, ngoko kungathobeli ukuthobela. Umzekelo, abazali bahlala besebenza ngokukhawuleza - abanalo ithuba lokujongana nomntwana ngaso sonke ixesha. Okanye umama noyise bahlala ngokuhlukileyo, bacatshukiswa kwaye bazijonga benetyala.


Benza iimfuno ezingenangqondo, kubonisa abantwana ukuba akufanele bazame. Kwaye umntwana uyaqhubeka engenangqondo.

Abazali, ukuze bawubeke endaweni, babe nobudlova, babhubhise kumntwana iindawo zokuhlala zokhuseleko. Ngenxa yoko, uyaba ngumthobeli, alahlekelwe ngabazali bakhe kwaye unokuze athathe ingxoxo enobungane kunye nobutshaba.

Abantwana abaneminyaka emithathu ubudala sele basebenzise izixhobo ezisisiseko zokuziphatha kunye noqhagamshelwano. Ngoku indima ebalulekileyo iza kudlala amandla omzali ukuxhasa ukuzithemba komntwana. Kubalulekile ukukhuthaza ukuzimela kwakhe, kodwa ukuvumela umntwana ukuba abhekane nemiphumo yokuziphatha okungalunganga, ngaphandle kokusola. Ukuba ulwalamano phakathi komzali nomntwana alukwazi ukufudumala novelwano, ke phakathi kwabo akukho ntembelo kunye nosizi: unxibelelwano luyenzeka kuphela xa kukho into ebaluleke kakhulu, kwaye umntwana uzama ukufezekisa ngayo nayiphi na indlela.

Ukufunyanwa kwintlanzi yabantwana kungabonakalisa kwi-nursergart. Abafaki isikhalazo, kwaye umzali wenza umfanekiso womntwana ongenakulawulayo, onobundlobongelayo nabangathobeliyo. Umntwana akawamukeli imithetho yoqhagamshelwano, kuba awufaneki ukuba ukhokhe ngenxa yokuba isetyenziswe njengendlela yokulawula. Kwaye umntwana ohlala eyoyika isohlwayo, uveliswa yimpembelelo yangaphandle: wenza konke ukukholisa abanye. Iintliziyo zangaphakathi zihanjisiwe: unako ukuthetha amanga, kodwa awukwazi ukufikelela.

Umntwana oneminyaka engama-2.5 ubudala akufanele athole yonke into ayifunayo. Kodwa intsana engenakudinga idinga uncedo lokuzincama - akwazi ukukwenza okwamanje. Ukwenza oku, sebenzisa iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, okuza kuba ngumzekelo kuye. Ukunciphisa iimvakalelo, kuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana ahlukanise phakathi kwabo. Uncedo lokuqonda: "udidekile", "ucaphukile," njl.

Khuthaza umntwana, ngenxa yoko, ukuzithemba kwakhe kwakha. Musa ukulinganiselwa kuphela igama elithi "wenza kakuhle," kodwa uthethe ngokucacileyo: "Namhlanje ungathula xa udibene. Clever! "

Yenza imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla nomntwana wakho. Ngoko uya kufunda ukuxazulula iingxaki ngokwakhe kwaye uya kukwazi ukuthembela kuwe xa iimvakalelo zikhulu.

Ukuba umntwana uqhubela umxhasi, ungamthukutheleli. Ukufumanisa ngokukhawuleza into akuthandayo okanye ukukhathazeka ngaye, kwaye uzama ukufumana isisombululo kunye. Yaye khumbula, isijeziso esisoloko singakhokelela kuyo nayiphi na into entle.