Musa ukukhawuleza
Umntwana uhlala ehla. Le nkqubo inokusebenza kakhulu, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ibonakala ikhupha, iqokelela amandla okuphumelela okulandelayo. Ngako oko, abantu abadala kufuneka bavumele ukuba "baxolelane" kunye nento engumntwana ngoku. Musa ukukhawuleza, ungagxininisi, musa ukulungisa ngokukhawuleza yonke into, uhluke. Kuyafaneleka, ngokuchaseneyo, ukuphulaphula umntwana, ukugcina, ukumnceda ukuba athembele kwizinto zakhe ezintle, kwaye ukuxhasa xa kubonakala ubuthathaka. "
Uzuze kwiimpazamo
Akuphosi, njengokuba uyazi, ongenakwenza lutho. Umnincoko uyinyaniso: nabani na owenza into ephosakeleyo. Ubuncinci ngamanye amaxesha. Myalela umntwana ukuba ahlalutye izizathu zokungaphumeleli ngoko uya kumfundisa ukuba aqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba yintoni eyakhokelela ngqo kwimpazamo. Cacisa into ehleliyo ukuba ingaqondwa kakuhle, cela isicelo sokubuyisela ekhaya ekhaya.
Ukubalisa isifundo esingafundi kakuhle
Yilungele kwaye uphinde uchaze intsingiselo yezinto ezidlulileyo. " Kodwa ungalokothi wenze umsebenzi kwindawo yakhe, yenza njalo nomntwana. Ewe, xa ubugcisa obudibeneyo bunxulumene nemisebenzi enzima kunye neyendalo, iphrojekthi kwi-biology, ukuhlaziywa kwencwadi okanye isicatshulwa kwisifundo samahhala. Xoxa ngeembono ezintsha kunye naye, khangela kunye kunye neencwadi, ulwazi kwi-Intanethi. Olu hlobo ("ishishini") lwamava oqhagamshelwano nabazali, izakhono ezintsha ziya kunceda umntwana ukuba abe nokuzithemba ngokwengeziwe, zama, enze iimpazamo aze afune izisombululo ezintsha. Akukho nto iyathuthuzelayo kwaye ibuyisela ngaphezu kwexesha lezinto ezidibeneyo kunye nosapho. Ukubambisana ukupheka, ukucwangcisa, ukulungelelanisa imidlalo, ukubukela kunye nokubeka izimvo malunga nokutshintshwa okanye ifilimu ezininzi ezingabonakaliyo, kodwa iindlela eziphambili zokufunda! Ukwabelana ngeengcamango, ukuzithelekisa nabanye, ngamanye amaxesha bachasana omnye nomnye-konke oku kunceda ukuhlakulela ingqondo ebalulekileyo, leyo leyo, inceda ekujongeni imeko ukusuka kwicala kunye nokugcina uxinzelelo.
Cwangcani kunye
Ngeliphi ixesha kulunge ukwenza izifundo, ukuqala kuqala kokulula okanye kunzima kakhulu, indlela yokulungelelanisa indawo yomsebenzi - ngabazali kufuneka bafundise umntwana ukuba acwangcise ubomi bakhe bemihla ngemihla. Oku kuya kumnceda enze iinqununu ngokulula, abe noxolo - uyayeka ukuhlala edeskini yakhe ngomzuzu wokugqibela ngaphambi kokulala. Xoxa naye ngomsebenzi wakhe, cacisa oko kwaye kuyintoni na oko kuyimfuneko, kutheni kulungele ukulungiswa ngale ndlela. Emva kwexesha, umntwana uya kufunda indlela yokucwangcisa ixesha lakhe kwaye ahlele indawo. Kodwa okokuqala, abazali kufuneka babonise indlela oku kwenziwa ngayo, kwaye wenze kunye naye.
Yenza u khuthazo
Umntwana unomdla xa eqonda kakuhle ukuba kutheni ufunda. Thetha naye ngezinto zonke ezimangalisayo. Khumbuza: impumelelo izayo, ukuba siyayithanda into esiyenzayo, siyayivuyela, sibona iphuzu. " Oku kuya kunceda umntwana aqonde iminqweno yabo, baqonde kangcono iimfuno zabo. Musa ukufuna kakhulu, ukuba thina ngokwabo sifunda, sifunde, sifunde entsha ayinomdla kakhulu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bonisa ngokucacileyo umnqweno wakho olutsha, ukuba ufunda ubomi bakho bonke. Ungayifaka ingqalelo kwizakhono kunye nezakhono azakuzifuna ukufezekisa iphupha lomntwana. Ngaba ufuna ukuba ngumlawuli wefilimu okanye ugqirha? Kwinqanaba lomlawuli, bafunda imbali yobugcisa obuhle kunye noncwadi. Ugqirha kufuneka ukuba wazi i-biology kunye ne-chemistry ... Xa kukho ithemba, umntwana unomnqweno oqinileyo wokukhawuleza ukufikelela kwiphupha lakhe. Ukwesaba kuyaphela, kwaye ukufunda kuya kuba mnandi.
Ukufundisa ngaphandle kokucinezela
Musa ukucaphukiswa ngenxa yokungaphumeleli kwaye ugweme ukugcinwa ngokugqithiseleyo - ukuze ubeke umgaqo wesibini wokufundisa. Umntwana ufunda ukukhwela ibhasikidi. Xa ewa, ngaba sithukuthele? Akunjalo. Siyamqinisekisa kwaye simkhuthaze. Emva koko sigijime eceleni, sisekela ibhayisikili, njalonjalo, ade ahambe. Kukwafanelekile ukwenza imicimbi yesikolo yabantwana bethu: ukuchaza into engacacile, ukuthetha ngezinto ezithandayo. Yenza nabo into enomdla okanye enzima kubo. Kwaye, ukuziva ukuchasana komntwana, ngokunciphisa umzimba wakhe - ngoko ke samkhulula indawo yokuzimela ngokuzimeleyo.