Indlela umntu ahamba ngayo iya kwenza ukuba kukwazi ukuqonda kuphela iimpawu zakhe zangaphakathi, kodwa kunye nokukhethwa kwezesondo. Uphando lwezenzululwazi lubonisa ukuba xa umzimba womntu ukhululekile, ungagxininiswa, ngoko unceda ukuphakamisa isimo sengqondo, isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, kwaye ekugqibeleni, kukhokelela ekuphumeleleni.
Iingcebiso ezixabisekileyo zanikezwa yi-heroine ye "Inveli yeNkonzo" iVerochka: "Intloko iphakanyiswa kancane, ibukeka iyancipha, yonke into ikhululekile esifubeni, amahlombe abuyele emuva, umvuzo ulula kwi-hip ..." Le nto ibalulekileyo ekuphumeleleni!Zingaphi izitrato sizidibana kunye nabafazi abancinyiweyo, abakhathazekile nabanamaqhina. Iindleko zabo zinzima kwaye zinzima. Ukholo kunye nenkosikazi ephumelelayo, ngokuchaseneyo, iya kuhamba (nakwiivenkile!) Ngendlela elula kunye neyindiza, njengemodeli kwi-podium.
Ukuba udibana nendoda enomdaniso wokudansa, uyazi, phambi kwakho ngumntu ophazamisekeyo kwaye uyalibala (umfazi). Akakhumbuli izithembiso zakhe, uyayikhohlwa into oyitshilo kuye, kwaye, ngokuqhelekileyo, akayikhumbuli kakhulu, kuba akanandaba. Indoda enomdaniso wokudansa ifana ne-moth ehamba ngeentyantyambo enye ukuya kwenye, engazi iintlungu kunye nosizi.
Indoda ehamba ngokukhawuleza nangokuthula, incike kwizwane zakhe, ibhekisela kulabo abathanda ukuhlala emthunzini kwaye bangabhenkali uluntu. Yena, mhlawumbi, uvaliwe kuye ngokwakhe, engaxoxiswanga kwaye adibeneyo. Nangona kunjalo, nangona kunjalo, umntu onokungaqiniseki kakuhle unokuthandana ngesondo.
Ukuba uva ukubetha okukhulu kwezithende kunye nokuhamba okukhulu, ngoko udibene nomsebenzi osebenzayo, onenjongo, kodwa ngelo xesha, umntu ongenakukhuseleka. Ngaphandle kwesibindi sangaphandle "sokuzithemba" kunokufihla uhlobo lwesigxina kunye ne-villain. Susa lula ukuqala ubudlelwane bezesondo, kodwa ixesha elide lo mbandela awuyi kuhlala.
Ingaba uva ukukhawuleza, ukhathele kwaye unzima? Ngaba ubona izandla zakho phantsi kwaye intloko yakho igobile? Udibana nendoda eyayikhathele ngobomi bakhe, wayondliwa ngeemeko kunye nemvakalelo, kwaye akukho nto eyamtsalayo kwaye ayinomdla kuye. Umntu onjalo unxunguke ebhedeni, unesidima kwaye uxinezelekile.
I-gait ekhawulezayo neyophaphazelayo iyahlukanisa abo bashushu, abanomdla kunye neemvakalelo. Umntu onjalo unquma yonke into ngoku kwaye apha, akalokothi uhlehlise nantoni na kamva. Lo ngumntu ophumelelayo ochitha ixesha elide emsebenzini, kodwa akalibaleli ngokuhlala okunethezekile nokuhle. Ngezesondo, loo mntu uya kugxininisa ngakumbi kwintlalo yakhe, naye wuleza kwaye ushushu.
I-slowly, "crane" gait iya kukuxelela ukuba umntu unokuzikhukhumeza, okanye akanandaba, nokuba yi-snob okanye ebandayo. Kwaye mhlawumbi konke oku kunye. Abantu abanjalo baqhayisa, bazingca. Bacaphukisa yonke indawo. Ukulala kunye nomlingane onjalo awuyi kukwazi ukufumana isondo esicacileyo nesichukumisayo. Banobuhlungu kwaye abaqhagamshelani, becinga ukuba bangabulumko.
Umntu onokungaqiniseki, onokungaqiniseki ukhona nje kuphela kubagogo kunye nemilenze eculayo, kodwa nakumntu onenkathazo ezininzi ebomini, ngakumbi ngemali. Umnqweno wakhe omkhulu "wokuphuma kubantu" uyamxhoxela ukuthoba nokuguqa ngokuthanda "ihlabathi eliphakamileyo kweli hlabathi." Ubomi obunzima, obubuhlungu kunye nobunzima obubomi bemihla ngemihla babulala bonke ubomi kunye nokukhanya komntu. Kulele, umntu onjalo, njengomthetho, akakwazi ukulala ngesondo.
Unhurried kunye nomlinganiselo olinganiswayo ukwahlula phakathi kwabantu abanokuzithemba nokuzola. Loo mntu unengqiqo kwaye akalokothi enze izigqibo ngokusekelwe kwisicatshulwa sesibini. Ziyicacise, ziqikelele kwaye zihlala zixhasayo. Nangona i-rationality excessive, iqabane elinjalo linokubangela umdla kumabhedlele nakubomi.
Ukuba ubona ukuba umntu ubeka izithende zakhe, wazi, ngaphambi kokuba ungumfundi owaziyo yonke into, ubona konke kwaye uva yonke into. Unomdla omkhulu kwihlabathi lonke nakumntu wonke ngokukodwa. Abantu abanjalo, njengomthetho, bathanda ukuthetha "malunga nantoni", bayazi zonke iingxolo, bahlala bexhamla, kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, baxhamla.
Umntu othi, xa ehamba, egoqa iingalo zakhe, unomlingana othe ngqo. Loo mntu uhlukaniswe ngendalo yakhe, ingcinga enomdla kunye nenqaba enkulu yamandla. Ngokuqhelekileyo, zonke iinzame zakhe ziya kuphumelela, kodwa akaphelelwa yithemba kwaye "adala". Ubume obuqhakazileyo nangokwemvakalelo yomntu onjalo bukhangeleka kwisini esahlukileyo. Zonke izinto ezilindelekileyo kwibhedi ziya kuza kwenzeka, kuba, phambi kwakho, umculi wenene!
Ngokusekelwe kolwazi olulula, kwintlanganiso yokuqala ungenza uluvo malunga nomntu, jonga umphefumlo wakhe uze ufunde umlingiswa.