Uninzi lweenkolelo ezinxulumene nokukhulelwa alinayo ingqiqo, kodwa abaninzi abafazi bathanda ukubalandela. Iimeko ngokwayo-ezikhuselekileyo kunokuba ziqhelekileyo-zifuna ukuqaphela. Kwizinto ezingenakwenziwa ngexesha lokukhulelwa, imiqondiso yabantu ayinakulinganiswa. Ngezantsi nje kuphela uluhlu olungaphelelanga lweempawu kunye nezinkolelo ezinxulumene nokukhulelwa.
Kwiinyanga zokuqala zokukhulelwa, umfazi kufuneka abe ngowona mcebisi. Oku akuqinisekanga, kuba ngeli xesha lezona zigaba ezibalulekileyo zokuphuhliswa komntwana, kwaye umngcipheko wokupheliswa kokukhulelwa kwi-trimester yokuqala kukukhulu. Ngoko ke, inkolelo eyona nto ibalulekileyo kunoko ukugcina indawo yakho ngasese kubo bonke. Mhlawumbi, le yodwa inkolelo eyaziwayo ukuba oogqirha banamhlanje abaphikisana nabo, kwaye banokuxhasa. Inyaniso kukuba ukukhulelwa kuyisigamente enkulu. Kwaye nangona i-nature ingabelwe kule sakramente ukuba ibonakale kwabanye (xa isisu sitholakala) - kungcono ukuba ungabhengezi. Ewe, ubuncinane, akuyi kuba nzima nakubani na.
Ukususela kwiintsuku apho abesetyhini basebenza kanzima ensimini, inkolelo yokuba ibhinqa elikhulelweyo alifanele libulale inyoka ligcinwe. Emva koko yaguqulwa kancane. Esikhundleni senyoka, intambo ibonakala, apho ibhinqa elingafanele lihambe okanye liphume ngaphantsi. Kwakhona, "kungekhona inhlonipho" yayiyi-thread. Okokuthi, ukugcoba nokudibanisa ibhinqa elikhulelweyo, ngokwemiqondiso ethandwayo, nayo, ayikwazi. Kukholelwa ukuba intambo yomnxeba iya kuguqa intamo yomntwana kwaye unokuyithintela ngexesha lokuzalwa. Oogqirha nabo bakholelwa ukuba ukuthunga, ukudibanisa kunye nezinto ezinjalo zisebenza kakuhle kwaye zixhomekeke kwintokazi. Into eyona nto ingundoqo ukuba ungadluli, kuba ukuhlala kwindawo enye ixesha elide kwenza i-oksijeni igezelele kumntwana xa kunzima.
Kukho inkolelo yokuba abafazi abakhulelweyo abanakuyidla inyama yomdumba, ukwenzela ukuba umntwana ozayo akayikhoyiki.
Kukho izinto eziphikisanayo nabantu. Ngoko, ngokutsho komnye wabo, abafazi abakhulelweyo bayavunyelwe ukujonga iimpawu, ukuze bangazalanga umntwana onamaqabunga. Kodwa kukho into echasene ngqo nenkolelo yokuba xa umfazi okhulelweyo ejonga iimpawu, umntwana wakhe uya kuba mnandi.
Ngokweminye imiqondiso, ngexesha lokukhulelwa, awukwazi ukukhaba inja okanye ikati ukuze umntwana wabo angabikho.
Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, umfazi akufanele ahlekise ukukhubazeka, ukugula, ukugula njl njl, ukuze "ungenzi" omnye kunye nomntwana wakho.
Kukholelwa ukuba xa bekhulelwe, umfazi waya emngcwabeni, ngoko umntwana wakhe unokuzalwa oqhwala kwaye engalunganga. Ukongezelela, kwakukholelwa ukuba abafazi abakhulelweyo kufuneka babe neempembelelo ezintle ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwakhe, ukuze umntwana abe mnandi, enempilo kwaye onwabileyo. Nanamhlanje, oogqirha kunye neengqondo zeenkolelo bakholelwa ukuba ukonwabile kwaye kukhululekile umfazi okhulelwe, uyavuya ngakumbi kwaye ahlale ekhulile umntwana wakhe.
Kwiindawo ezininzi kukholelwa ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo akafanele acele ukuba amnike ukutya. Usana luya kuzalwa kungekudala.
Umfazi okhulelwe akafanele azinqamle iinwele zakhe, kuba umntwana uya kuba ne-eyelashes emfutshane kwaye ngokubanzi uza kuba buthathaka kwaye abuhlungu. Enyanisweni, le nkolelo inokuvela kwiinkulungwane ezilikhulu, xa iinwele ezinde zazingumntu obalaseleyo. Abazange babekwe, ngaphandle kwezifo ezimbi-i-kolera, isibetho okanye i-typhus. Ngoko ke, ibhinqa elincinci elincinci lalingumzekelo wobuthathaka kunye nobuthakathaka. Luhlobo luni lwabantwana abaphilileyo!
Kukholelwa ukuba ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo uyabeka into ethile, umlo wale nto uza kuhlala kwimeko yesikhumba ebusweni lolusana.
Ngokwezinye iinkolelo, ukuba xa bekhulelwe, lo wesifazane wayeyika ukuba umntu wammbamba ngesandla - emzimbeni womntwana kuya kuba nobunzima kwindawo enye.
Abanye bakholelwa ukuba xa bekhulelwe umfazi wesithombe okanye udweba iifraraits, inokumisa ukuphuhliswa komntwana.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, inkolelo eyona nto ibalulekileyo inamathela kubaninzi babasetyhini abakhulelweyo. Ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana, awukwazi ukwenza nayiphi na ilungiselelo ngendlela yokuthenga umqhubi, isikhalazo, iimpahla, amathoyizi kunye nezinye "ipropati" yabantwana. Ngaphandle koko, kukholelwa ukuba umntwana uza kuzalwa efile. Le nkolelo inokuvela kwixesha apho ipesenteji yokufa kwabantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa yayiphezulu. Kwiidolophana ngokubanzi azizange zilungiselele ukubonakala komntwana ade abhaptizwe. Kwaye emva kokuba lo mboniso baqala ukuthunga iimpahla, ukulungiselela ukulala, njl. Ngeli xesha, nangona kunjalo, ukwesaba okunjalo akufanelekanga. Ukulungelelaniswa kokuzalwa komntwana kunokuvuyisa kunye nokwaneliseka kumfazi. Nangona kunjalo abaninzi banamathele ekukholweni ukuba ngenxa yokukhusela kwabo ngokomoya ayinakwenziwa ngexesha lokukhulelwa - uphawu lwabantu olu hlobo alukwazi ukupheliswa kwiinkulungwane ezininzi. Nangona kunjalo, inesabelo sayo sokuqiqa. Yaye ukulandela okanye awuyiyo - ukhetho luhlala lenu.