Namhlanje awukwazi ukukhumbula kuzo zonke iinkcukacha zentloni kunye neentloni, ndayeka ukuba neentloni kwaye ukwesaba ukunxibelelana kum ngeyona nto ingxaki. Andiyazi ngokuqinisekileyo xa ndiyeka ukuziva ndingonwabi kwaye ndihlazekile. Ngokwemvelo, andinomntu onomdla, kwaye andizange ndiqiniseke ukuba ndiza kuba nentlalontle. Umntu ngamnye unomyinge wokubonakalisa ezinye zeempawu zakhe. Kodwa ngoku nayiphi na inkampani enkulu ndiziva ndikhululekile kwaye ndiqinisekile. Ukulwa neentloni neentloni, ndasebenzisa ezinye iindlela, ndiza kubelana nawe.
Makhe sihlale siyazi .
Zonke iingcinga zizinto eziphathekayo, yakha engqondweni yakho ukholo kunye neenkolelo ezifanelekileyo. Phinda uthi "Nsuku zonke ndiba nokuzithemba ngakumbi", kwaye nakumathuba onke, endleleni yokusebenza, kwilayibrari, kwisitoreji, ziphindaphinda eli binzana. Ngengqondo, unokucinga ngembandela apho usebenza ngokuzithemba kwindalo yabantu, ngoko uya kuzivela ukuzithemba kwakho kunye novuyo lwalo. Ukuba ayinakunceda, kufuneka uguquke kwi-hypnosis.
NoNxibelelwano.
Makubekho abantu abanomdla kwimeko enokusingqongileyo, baya kukunika inkxaso ngenkxaso. Ukuba unxibelelana nabantu abanjalo banamahloni anjengawe, ke ungaqhubeki phambili, ngoko uya kukholelwa kuphela ebuthathaka bakho. Kufuneka ube kunye nabahlobo abangenakukugculela, nokugxeka, ngenxa yeenjongo zakho zokuzinqoba. Kufuphi kuwe kufuneka ukuba ngabahlobo onokuzithembela kuzo zonke izinto, baya kukunceda ukuba uqhubeke phambili, ukuze ufikelele kwiindawo eziphakamileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kuba nzima ukufumana abahlobo abanjalo, kodwa ukuba kukho abantu abaya kulungelelanisa phakathi kokugxeka kunye nenkxaso, ngoko umntu kufuneka azame ukuhlala esondelene nabo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo aye kubo.
Kufuneka ikhulise indawo yayo yokuthuthuzela.
Umntu akayi kufumana iikona ukuba akenzi nto. Ukuba ungenzi nto, ngoko awuyi kukhula, kwaye uya kuphawula indawo. Awazi ukuba ungadada, kodwa qalisa ngokumisa iinyawo zakho. Ekuqaleni kuyabalisa, kodwa kuya kuza ixesha xa ufuna ukufumana umoya kwaye uphuphe emanzini. Intshukumo yale ntshukumo iyethusa, kodwa ukuba siqhubeka sihamba phambili, iya kusiphoqa ukuba sikhule kwaye sikhule. Kwaye ukuyeka ukuhlazeka kufuneka uphume kubantu, zidibana neemeko apho ungahlali ukhululekile, kufuneka uzikhuthaze. Musa ukuyika ukwesaba ukuqonda kwakho kunye nawe.
Ngomzekelo ngokubhukuda, makhe sicinge ukuba ungoyindawo ephantsi kakhulu, ngokokuqala ngqa, ngokukhawuleza, ziphonsele emanzini. Ukuba unamahloni, ngoko ke akunakwenzeka kwaye akunangqiqo ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza ngentetho, bhala ingxoxo uze ubhekane nesihlwele esikhulu sabantu. Okokuqala, qalisa ngabantu abahlanu. Ukuba unokwazi ukunqoba iintloni phambi kwabaphulaphuli abahlanu, kufuneka uqhubeke uye uthetha nabantu abalishumi. Emva koko kuya kuba ngamashumi mabini kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe kufuneka ukwandise abaphulaphuli. Kukho inkolelo enjengonyango, ngokuthi "ukubhaptiza", xa isigulane sinikwa ukulwa naye xa ejongene nobuso, nayo yonke into ayamoyikayo. Yaye le ndlela iphumelela. Ukuba le nqubo iqhutyelwa phantsi kolawulo olusondeleyo lweengcali zengqondo, kuya kuba nomphumo osebenzayo. Isiqubulo sethu ngamazwi - ngokukhawuleza kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo.
Musa ukuthatha intliziyo .
Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abanamahloni nabanobucayi bathatha ngokungathí sina izinto ezenzeka kuzo. Kwaye ukuba ndilibale amazwi, ngaba ilizwi lam liya kuqala ukudibanisa ukuba ndiyiphutha? Le mibuzo iyintloko yabo. Kwaye xa kunjalo, ngaba iya kukubulala? Kufuneka uphathe yonke into ngokuzinzileyo uze ucwangcise ikamva lakho izenzo.
Iintloni ngumqondo wokuzithemba .
Mhlawumbi inyaniso ukuba utywaba ngumqondo wokuzixabisa. Othe wathetha le binzana, wacinga ukuba abantu abaziintloni bacinga nje ngezinto abazicingayo kunye nendlela abajonga ngayo emehlweni abo bantu abajikelezile, kufuneka bajonge ngaphandle "kwegobolondo" yabo kwaye benze imeko ibaluleke kakhulu kubo. Unokunika iingcebiso, cinga ngakumbi ngabanye kunokuba uziphathe. Enyanisweni, akukho mntu ukhathalelayo ngawe, kwaye wonke umntu ucinga ngabo. Musa ukungena ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Yeka ukucinga ukuba abantu abayi kuthetha, abayi kucinga.
Musa ukuwela umgca, uhlalutye izenzo zakho.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba unamahloni, ngoko awuyi kunqoba uhlazo lwakho. Xa uqala ukuhlaziya intloni, uya kuza kwisigqibo sokuba yonke into ayinanto. Ngokukhawuleza xa unjalo kwimeko, xa ungafuneki ukugubhazela, kodwa ukwenza, ukuphelelwa lithemba kuya kukuvumela ukuba uhambe. Konke okufuneka ukwenze kusebenza. Yenza nantoni na oyikiyoyo kwaye ungacingi ukuba akunakunceda.
Zithande.
Abantu abanobugorha bazizwa bengakhululekile kwaye bengenangqondo kunye kunye nabo, kwaye bajikelezwe ngabantu. Yiya kwi-cinema, udle isidlo sasemini, uhambe uhamba wedwa. Kuphawulwe ukuba abantu abanentembelo kwiindawo ezixakekileyo baziziva bekhululekile kwaye bevuya, bebodwa.
Funda iincwadi .
Baya kunceda ukunqoba ihlazo. Funda indlela abantu abanokuyityhalela ngayo ukunyaniseka kwabo, kuya kukukhuthaza ukuba ugwebe ukwesaba kwakho kwaye unqobe eziphakamileyo.
Ekugqibeleni, unokuyeka unamahloni kwinkampani enkulu, kwaye kuthatha ixesha lokwenza umntu othembekileyo avela kumntu onamahloni, lo msebenzi owufezekayo. Ukuxhamla kunye nokuzithemba kuya kwenza ubomi bube bhetele kwaye bube mnandi, kwaye maxesha amnandi ngakumbi. Akufuneki ukuba ubeke yonke into ebambe.