Ngesizathu esithile kubonakala ngathi amadoda, thina, abasetyhini, siphila lula kwaye kulula kunabo. Akufanele sihambe "sibulale i-mammoth", kwaye siyidonsa kwintsapho, akudingeki sibe namandla kwaye sikhohlakele, kwaye amaninzi amaninzi "a mabhinqa akufanele abe" ... Mhlawumbi bachanekile. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kungekhona kuzo zonke. Abaninzi bamabhinqa banamhlanje bafumana imali ngokumalunga namadoda, baninzi abahlala kuyo, kubonakala ngathi akuyizikhundla zabafazi. Uluntu luchaza imithetho yalo bobabini nabasetyhini.
Ngethuba siseyintombazana kubaninzi bethu, abazali bafaka umzekelo wendlela yokuziphatha kwabafazi apho bona ngokwabo bakhula khona, kodwa ixesha alizange limi, yonke into iyahamba phambili kwaye ngoku akukho mfazi ngamnye uya kuvuma ukuba ngumfazi wendlu kwaye alindele umyeni wakhe emsebenzini ukuba adle ukutya okumnandi isidlo sakusihlwa waza wambeka embhedeni. Ngoku ibhinqa lifuna inkululeko enkulu yezenzo, umfazi ozama ukuzimela, ukuba ngumfazi kwihlabathi lanamhlanje uthetha ukuba ngumntu ozimeleyo. Kwaye akumangalisi: ukusuka kumaphephancwadi esibujonga ngayo ubuso obuhle, obuhle kakhulu, kwibalasi eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka siphinde sibone indlela abafazi ngokwabo bafeze ngayo impumelelo enkulu kwishishini, baye baziwayo kwaye bahlonishwa ngobuntu. Kwaye ubuncinane kanye kanye ebomini, kodwa ngamnye wethu wazibuza yona umbuzo othi: "Yintoni eyenza ndibi nakakhulu? Ndiye ngumfazi. Kwaye ndiyakwenza oko. "Kwaye siya kusebenza kunye neentloko zethu, sizama ukuphumelela, ukubonakalisa amaqabane aphakathi kwethu ukuba siyabasetyhini nabo bafanelwe ukunyamekela, ukuba thina abasebenzi abalungileyo kunye neziphakamiso zethu zinokubaluleka. Emsebenzini, siyalibala ngobuntu bethu. Sivame ukuphendukela kwizinto ezixhaswa ngumntu ongenazo izinto ezingabonakaliyo. Kodwa ufuna ukuba ngumfazi ... Ndifuna ukuba uzuzwe njengaleyo. Ukongezelela, umsebenzi womfazi ophumelelayo uthatha phantse sonke ixesha samahhala. Kwaye, kunyanisekileyo, ukufumana iqabane elomeleleyo kunzima kakhulu. Kwaye thina, bafazi, sifuna. Ngokuqhelekileyo senza iinjongo, kwaye ke sibagweba bonke abantu ngenxa yokuba akukho "owanelisa iiparitha." Sihlupheka, siva. Ngamanye amaxesha siqala ukudala izinto ezinzima, okanye sifumaneka kuthi ngokwethu ngenxa yokungabi nalwazi kunye nokungahambi kwelo gxalaba elinyeneyo. Kwaye iqala kuqala ... Ukumba ngaphakathi kuwe, kuphi, into engazange iyenze, kutheni, njl kunye nezinye.
Kodwa apha kuza uvuyo ebusweni bakhe, kwaye sikhohlwa zonke iingcamango ezimbi, zonke izikhalazo zethu zesini zesini kunye nokuzinikela ngokupheleleyo kwisimo esibuhlungu, sibe ngumfazi oyinyaniso. Ewe, okanye sizama ukuzinikele kuye njengemvume yemisebenzi. Emva koko ndifuna ukuzinza kwihlabathi lanamhlanje-intsapho. Kwaye ukuvisisana kwintsapho, njengoko uyaziyo, kuxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kumfazi. Isiko soomama? Hayi, eli lizwe elimangalisayo - unina, kodwa thina besifazane asiyiki ukuba ngumama kaninzi, kanti ngamanye amaxesha abantu besaba kakhulu imibuzo malunga nomntwana ... Kodwa isinyathelo esinamandla nesinzulu sokwenza isigqibo malunga nokuzalwa komntwana. Akunjalo kuphela abantu abazenzayo.
Kuyamangalisa xa yonke into ikhula kwaye emva komsebenzi ophumeleleyo umfazi unokungena kwintsapho, abelethe abantwana, aze abuyele kwimisebenzi yakhe yomsebenzi. U fe zekile. Kodwa uluntu lwethu aluyinyamezeli imibono ... kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo umfazi (kwaye ukuba usemncinci kwaye usenomntwana) kunzima ukufumana umsebenzi ohloniphekileyo. Ulwahlulo? Ewe. Kwaye abaninzi abantu bayakuqonda oku, kodwa akukho nto yalezi zivumo ayitshintshi. Kwaye emva koko, phakathi kwezinye izinto, akukho mntu uphelile loo misebenzi yowesifazane "wayithintela" ngabazali bethu. Kwaye umfazi wokwenene kwihlabathi lanamhlanje kufuneka aphile "kumabini amabini."
Ngoko kuvela ukuba silwela indawo phantsi kwelanga ngamandla ethu onke esifuna ukuvuya kunye nokwenza ulonwabo kwiintsapho zethu kwaye oku kunzima kangakanani kunikwa ... Kodwa ke, ndibuze ukuba ndingathanda ukuzalelwa umntu, ndiza kuphendula "Hayi!" Umfazi - kuhle!
Ukuba ngumfazi wokwenene-kungakhathaliseki ukuba kulula okanye kunzima kangakanani-kuthetha ukuba yintyatyambo enhle kulo mlo. Kwaye ukuba umntu oyinyani uyayikhathalela le ntyatyambo, oko akunjalo kunzima ukuba umfazi abe!