Unyaka wokuqala womtshato
Umtshato usekelwe kwinto yokuba abantu abasusela ngoku bachithe phantse sonke ixesha sabo samahhala kunye-ukulala, ukuphumla, ukwenza okuthile malunga nendlu. Kwaye ukuba ngowomnyaka wokuqala umtshato omncinci ongenanto ukhathalele kakhulu umcimbi wesondo, nokho, emva kokubili, bobabini bancinci, bashushu, bathandana abantu, benza kuphela oko banandiphayo, baze basondele kumnyaka wesithathu wobomi babo, ukukhwela kwabo kuphelile. Oku kuqondakalayo, kuza ukuqonda ukuba iqabane lifundiswa, izenzo zakhe nezenzo ziyaziwayo kwaye zilindeleke, kwaye isondo siba semvelaphi xa siqhathaniswa nemiba yemihla ngemihla. Ekupheleni kweminyaka emithathu, ipesenti ephezulu yokuqhawula umtshato iyabhalwa, kwaye ukuba loo mbini ayibopheli nantoni ngaphandle komdla embhedeni, ke emine imitshato emithandathu yenza ikhefu.
Unyaka wesibini womtshato
Ekupheleni kweminyaka emihlanu yomtshato wakho, isibonakaliso esihle sesinqaba sakhe siya kulala ngesondo. Ngeli xesha, loo ndoda iyancipha ngakumbi kuzo zonke iintlobo zenguqu kumfazi wayo. Olu hlobo uhlobo lwamadoda. Akayi kuqaphela nayiphi na ingubo yangaphantsi okanye iincwadana, kwaye ngokubanzi uya kuba noxakeka nantoni na, kodwa engaboni ngesini nomfazi wakhe. Indoda ngeli xesha ufuna into okanye umntu omtsha. Kwaye umfazi ngokwakhe akazimisele ukuchitha ixesha ekhaya. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akayi kuhamba "ekhohlokileyo", kuba isinyathelo esinjalo kubalulekile ukuba kwenzeke into ebalulekileyo. Ngaphandle kwendlu, abafazi bafuna iimvakalelo ezintsha, amava. Ngoko kuvela ukuba ngomnyaka wesihlanu wobomi bentsapho, indoda ingathatha ingozi kwaye ibe nenkosikazi, kwaye umfazi uya kudlala umdlalo wothando kunye nabesilisa abaya kumnika ukuzithemba kwakhe ngobuhle kunye nobulili.
Ngaloo ndlela, basombulula iingxaki zabo zesini. Kwaye kaninzi ayiphumelelanga. Ngenxa yokuba ingxaki kufuneka ixazululwe ngaphandle kombhede, kodwa ngaphaya, kwinqanaba lomzwelo. I-sexopathologists icebisa iibinibini ngeli xesha lobomi ukulungiselela ukukhutshwa, ukunyuka kweemvakalelo ezintsha. Yiya kwiholide ukuya kwamanye amazwe, zama ukulala ngesondo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Kungenxa yokuba indlela yokulala ngesondo kwindawo enye iya kuhlala idiniwe ngumntu ofanelekileyo.
Unyaka weshumi womtshato
Emva kweminyaka elishumi yomtshato, abantu abaninzi, njengoko izazinzulu ziye zafumanisa, kukho utshintsho oluphawulekayo: iindawo zokuguqulwa kwamaphupha, iimpendulo zokunyanzelisa, ukuguquka kwesifiso kunye nenani lezenzo zesondo zitshintsha. Yaye malunga nokutshintsha i-worldview kunye nomfanekiso ngokubanzi uyathula. Ngoko ke, ixesha elishumi emtshatweni kufuneka lithathwe njengesiqulatho sesibini sokuhlaselwa. Yaye ngobuchule kunye nobumnene uya kuwunqoba umyeni wakho okanye umfazi, inani lezesondo ebomini liya kuxhomekeka.
Umtshato uneminyaka engamashumi amabini ...
Ubomi bentsapho kwiminyaka emashumi mabini yinto ebalulekileyo. Njengomthetho, isondo kunye nezibini ezinjalo sele zide zifikelela kwisithuba esingathiwa isicwangciso seshumi. Ukuqeda umama wesifazane, ukwehla kwe testosterone kumadoda, kwaye utshintsho olunjalo alube lude lube ludade. Kodwa kukho ukungafani nemithetho: abantu abaphila ngendlela ephilileyo, bengabakhathaleli nje kuphela, kodwa nangenxa yeqabane labo, kwaye isimo sabo sengqondo sinxulumene kakhulu, ngoko isondo nezo zibini ziya kubakho.
Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba ixesha akufanele libe yithintelo kwisini kwintsapho yakho. Uhlala ufunda ukukopela ixesha kwaye uhlale uthanda nomlingane wakho. Indlela enjalo yokudibanisa ubomi bakho iyacetyiswa ngabaninzi beengqondo. Ukutyhutyana kwexesha elifutshane lomzwelo kunika amandla okuphila, ukuphinda uphinde udlule amanyathelo olwalamano.