Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nokukhulelwa kuyahambisana

Xa umfazi elindele umntwana, ukwesaba ukulimaza umntwana wakhe wenqaba ukulala nobudoda bakhe. Umama ozayo kunye nootata baqala ukuphepha abaqhagamshelana nabo okanye bazame ukunciphisa. Ngamanye amaxesha uloyiko olunjalo lufanelekile, ngamanye amaxesha lucacisiwe. Makhe sibone xa kunokwenzeka ukuba nesondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Ngaphantsi kwefuthe lamahomoni emzimbeni wowesifazane kukho utshintsho oluthile. Ezi zinguqu zichaphazela umnqweno wesini somfazi okhulelweyo. Yomelezwa, iyakucinywa ngokupheleleyo. Enyanisweni, ukuba ibhinqa ngaphambi kokukhulelwa kwasekuqaleni yayinomdla kakhulu kwaye iyasebenza kwizo zesini, ngoko ngexesha lokukhulelwa uya kubonisa isicwangciso esincinci. Le nyaniso, inokwenzeka, inxulumene nabafazi abalindele abafana, kuba emzimbeni wabo amaninzi amaHarmoniki. Ukuba ibhinqa libetha intombazana, ngoko umsebenzi wesondo unokuba uphantsi.

Kwi-trimester yokuqala, umnqweno wesetyhini okhulelwe uhlala unzima. Emva koko kuthinta i-toxicosis, kunye ne-languid, imeko yokuguqa yowesifazane, isicongconi. Ukuthanda kukutshintsha kwaye kuqale ukucaphukisa zonke iintlobo zevumba, nokuba kukuvumba kokutya okuphekiweyo okanye ukuvumba kwe-cologne eyayithandwa ngumntu. Intlungu kwiimbumba ezincinci zigcinwa rhoqo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, owesifazane okhulelweyo uyaba nemvakalelo kakhulu ngeli xesha, wakhala ngokuphindaphindiweyo, aphendule ngendlela engafanelekanga kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo zemihla ngemihla. Indoda yakhe, eqinisweni, iyatshitshisa yonke loo tshintsho, ngokuqhelekileyo kukho ukuxabana, ukuhlambalaza kunye nentukuthelo. Kubonakala ngathi kuya kuba nzima. Kodwa eqinisweni, ukuqhubeka nokukhulelwa kuthatha, umfazi uya kuba lula.

I-trimester yesibili inika umama ozayo kwimvakalelo efudumeleyo yokufudumala ekuthintaneni nomntwana wakhe. Ngeveki ye-18 ukuya kweye-20 ukuya kwe-20 ukuqala kwe-fetus kuqala. Ukukhulelwa kukunciphisa phantsi, vumela ukwesaba okudala kunye nama-phobias. Uyaqiniseka ukuba yonke into ilandelelana nomntwana. Ewe, kunye nenhlalakahle kuphuculwe ngokuphawulekayo. Iba, isisu siyabonakala, kwaye umntu sele egqityiwe ngokugqiba indima yengomso kababa. Kulo-trimester yesibini ukuba ubulili buhle kwaye luncedo. Iimeko zokuphuphuma kwesisu ngolu xeshongo sele zikhutshwe ngaphandle, umntwana ufakwe kwisibeleko, kwaye akukho nto iya kuthintela abazali bexesha elizayo ukuba banandipha kunye nokufumana isibini sesibini.

Kwi-trimester yesithathu ubuhlobo bobulili bomtshato buya kuphinda buhla. Oku kwenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi. Ibhinqa elikhulu lomfazi limvimbela ukuba angabuthongo nje kuphela, kodwa ukumbamba umntu, kukho intlungu ngexesha lesini. Utshintsho luvela kwimeko yengqondo yabasetyhini. Uloyiko lokuzala, kwaye oku kuphazamisa kakhulu ukukhanga kwakhe kumntu. Indoda ifumana ezininzi iingxaki. Kufuneka sibone isibhedlele sokubeleka, apho umntwana uza kubonakala khona, uthenge umqhubi, isikhalazo. Ngekota yesithathu, umsebenzi wakhe wesondo uwa ngenxa yeengxaki zokuqala eza kuye, ezihlobene nokuzalwa komfazi wakhe. Indoda kufuneka izame ngeli xesha ukuba linyamekele, liyakuthandana nomfazi wayo okhulelwe, kuyo yonke into yokumnika yona, ukuba ayenze umsila wokubuyisela, oza kuzisa intombazana enomtsalane kwaye uya kuthintela kakuhle umntwana.

Kukho ixesha elihle lokulala ngesini ngexesha lokukhulelwa:
- Ibhinqa ayifuni ukukhuselwa, akukho ukoyika, ukukhulelwa.
- Ngexesha lesondo, umfazi ulahla iimvakalelo ezimbi.
- Izinto ezikhulelweyo ziyimfuneko, eziqulethwe kwisidoda: amahomoni angamadoda kunye nama-enzymes.
- IiHormones zolonwabo, ezikhulelwe ngokwesini, zibe nefuthe elihle kumntwana.

Izizathu ezingcono ukuyeka isondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa:
- Ukutshatyalaliswa kwesisu.
- Ukubhabha kwi-vagina.
- Xa i-placenta iphantsi.
- Ukukhulelwa okuninzi.
- Isondo somlomo kunye nokuxhaphazwa ngesini ngesithintelo.