Amazinyo abukeka njani ngokubanzi?
- Ukuba uyawa, uthembisa ukugula okanye ukufa kwesihlobo (ngakumbi ukuba kukho igazi elininzi)
- Ukukhupha izinyo, eqinisweni libolile, kuthetha ukuba umphuphi ulinde ixesha elibunzima ngeengxaki ezininzi.
- Ukubona ukuba inyolo ephupheni ayigxininisi nayo ayikho uphawu oluhle kakhulu. Umntu kwixesha elisondeleyo ulinde inkathazo eninzi eya kumthintela ukufezekisa oko akufunayo
- Ukuqhawula amazinyo akho kuthetha ininzi yenhlanhla, kodwa ukuba abanye abantu bakwenzayo-balindele ukugula okukhulu
- Ngokutsho kwencwadi yephupha likaMiller, amazinyo adibanayo, kokubili kumntu omdala kunye nomntwana, kuthetha ukuba ebomini bephupha kukho ixesha lokudandatheka kunye nokukhathala, ekubeni uthathe umthwalo onzima
- U-Splinter zubok uthembisa ukuxabana nesinye sezihlobo, ezinokuthi zikhokelela ekuphuleni ubudlelwane. Kodwa ukuba ithe yaqhekeka kwaye iyaqhubeka igcina emlonyeni wakho, ngoko ulwalamano oluphakathi kwezihlobo zengxabano, nangona ziba nzima ngakumbi, kodwa zingabonakali ngokupheleleyo.
Ukubona amazinyo omntwana ephupheni
Ekubeni ukutolika kwahluke kwi-jikelele, kufuneka imiswe ngokubanzi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, imibono yobo busuku inentsingiselo ecacileyo.
- Amazinyo asebuntwaneni kusana - ukuvuselela umzimba wephupha nokuphucula impilo yakhe.
- Ukuba umntwana omncinci ufikile kuwe kwaye unamazinyo kunye namhlophe, lo mfanekiso uthembisa umphuphi ukuphucula imicimbi yezemali kunye nempilo entle.
- Ukubona ukuba umntwana ususa njani indlela yokuba uya kwenza kunye nomhlobo, ingxabano eyenzeka ngexesha elidlulileyo.
- Xa omnye wabazali ebona iphupha umntwana wabo, onamazinyo akhe ahlulwayo (nangona oku akuzange kwenzeke okwenyani), banokuvuya: yinto ecacileyo ukuba umntwana uya kukhula kwaye aphile.
- Inyo lomntwana ayiphumelelanga - ukuthengwa ngokutsha kwintlalo okanye izinto ezingenakwenzeka. img
- Ukubona indlela amazinyo okuqala omntwana aqhutywe ngayo ukuba umphuphi uya kuba neenhlanhla kwaye anenhlanhla.
- Xa i-chunk okanye i-stagger embalwa kwaye iphuma ngqo kumntwana wakho, kufuneka ulungele ukuba unokubandezeleka kakhulu kwizenzo zakho zokuhlawula.
- Oku kukuchazwa kwamaphupha apho ubona umntwana ongaqhelekanga: amazinyo avulekileyo kunye namahloni athembisa isimo esifanayo esifanelekileyo kuluntu.
Ezinye iinguqulelo
Iincwadi ezahlukeneyo zephupha zihluke ngokugqithisileyo amaphupha ngamazinyo, apho abantwana bathatha inxaxheba.
- AmaSilamsi: ukulahlekelwa kwamazinyo abantwana - uphawu lokuzalwa komntwana ngokwenene
- Incwadi yokuphupha yaseMedea ibhaliwe ukuba umntu obona into enjalo ephupheni kufuneka ahlale ecaphele kwaye angasasazi ngokubanzi malunga nezicwangciso zakhe ngekamva, njengoko abafuna ukuguqula abanokuphazamisa ukufezekiswa komntwana.
- UVanga ukholelwa ukuba loo mibono ithembisa umphuphi ukuba athole ubulumko negunya phezu kwabanye abantu.
- Kwincwadi yencwadi yaseTshayina ibhaliwe ukuba ubone indlela amazinyo omntwana aphuma ngayo - ukuhlukana kwangaphambili kubazali babo. Ulendo olude ulindele umphuphi, apho angayi kubuyela khona. Kodwa ukuba amazinyo asekhulile kwakhona, loo mntu uya kubuya ekhaya aze aphinde ahlangane nezihlobo.