Kodwa, kwakhona, kubalulekile ukucinga ukuba ngubani owayegqoke, kunye nantoni na wena nabanye abantu. Siyakukunika ingqalelo ingcaciso engakumbi.
Kutheni uziphuphe umgqomo omhlophe?
- Intsingiselo eyaziwayo kakhulu kukuphucula imifanekiso yokuziphatha nokuhlonela abanye. Kodwa zonke ezi tshintsho zihamba ngokugqithiseleyo, kwaye igunya lomphuphi ngokuqinisekileyo lifezekiswa ngumsebenzi omude kunye nobuhlungu.
- Intombazana eyazama ukugqoka ephuphayo, ifuna ukuzibona njengomtshakazi. Kodwa inokukunceda nokuchonga abachasene nabo, abahlala bebathathi-nxaxheba belele.
- Ukuzama iingubo ezimhlophe ngokwakho, kufuneka uzame ukukhumbula ukuba ngaba yeyakho. Umphambukeli uya kufanekisela ukutshintshwa kweengxaki zomnini kumphuphi, ngokukodwa kwintlalo kunye nesondlo.
Ukuphupha intombazana eengubo ezimhlophe
Ukuchazwa ikakhulu kuxhomekeke kwisini kunye nobuntu bomntu oye waphupha. Ngokomzekelo, kuba besetyhini kuthetha ukuxhalaba nokuthanda, kunye namadoda - ukukhohlisa.
- Indoda eye yabona intombazana okanye intombazana eengubo ezimhlophe ephupheni inokulindela ukukhawuleza ukudibana nomntu okhethiweyo kwaye uqale ulwalamano olude.
- Kubafazi, ubuthongo buba ngumbulelo wokufihla nokungafuni ukubonisa amandla omntu wakhe.
- Amantombazana amancinci okanye amabhinqa abambatha ingubo emhlophe kwaye ahlonipha ubuhle bawo, unokuthetha ngamava okwenene ngomtshato ozayo okanye kwenye iholide.
- Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubulili bomphuphi, umtshakazi egqoke umtshato omhlophe unentsingiselo engathandekiyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi - kukubonakalisa ukuvuya kunye nobubele. Kodwa kufuneka uqaphele, kuba iimpawu ezintle ziba yimaski kuphela.
Sonnik Miller
Umtoliki owaziwayo ubhekisela kwisambatho esimhlophe njengesibonakaliso esihle, esithembisa ukuvavanya ngokufanelekileyo komsebenzi kunye nentlonelo yabalingane kunye nabahlobo, kwakunye nokuzaliswa ngempumelelo kwimeko.
- Izambatho ezinde zithembisa ukufunwa kwexesha elide, kunye nokuqonda kwabanye.
- Ukubona ingubo egqobileyo phambi kohambo olubalulekileyo okanye intlanganiso kuthetha ukuba uya kwamkela.
Amanye amanani
- Umama omhlophe, kungekhona kwengubo yomtshato, ephupheni isilumkiso esibaluleke kakhulu ukuba ngokwenene unyoko unokugula.
- Imeko yengubo nayo ibaluleke kakhulu. Ukucoceka nokumhlophe kukubonisa iziganeko ezivuya. Kodwa izibonda kwisityikitya zithetha ukuba idumela lomntu olalayo liya kuphazamiseka.
- Ukuba uthe waphupha umhlobo eengubo ezimhlophe, kufuneka ulindele ukuba umhlobo wakho uza kugula kungekudala. Ukuba ubona intombazana encinci ephupheni, isifo sinokukuchaphazela.
- Abasetyhini abalwela ingqalelo yenkwenkwana, kuya kubakho ukuqaphela ukuba ukuthenga ingubo emhlophe ngumqondiso obumnandi kakhulu. Uthembisa ukunqoba ngokukhawuleza kwabamncintisana naye.
- Umama, owambona intombi yakhe eneempahla, unokuvuyela umntwana wakhe. Iphupha lifanekisela kakhulu intombazana: ukuthandana, impumelelo, iziganeko kunye nendlela entsha yobomi.
- Kwincwadi yeVanga kubhaliwe ukuba ingubo emhlophe ibonakalisa imimangaliso kunye neentlanganiso ezivuyayo, kwaye ukufaneleka kwakhe kuyindaba ezikhawulezileyo malunga nomdla.