Ndineenkwenkwe endiyithandayo
Kukho izicelo ezininzi kwi-intanethi. Eyona nto, phupha iincwadi zichaza ukuba xa yonke into ihamba kakuhle ephupheni kwaye uyavuya, musa ukuvuyela kwangaphambili. Inokwenzeka ukuba, ingqondo yakho kuphela edlala umdlalo okhohlakeleyo kwaye ubonisa ngexesha lokuphumla oko ufuna ukukubona. Njengomthetho, amaphupha omntu onomdla kuwe akwenzeki nantoni na ubomi bakho. Ukongezelela, ukuba kwakungabikho nkathazo ephupheni, unokulindela impumelelo, ingakumbi kwintsimi yomsebenzi. Okanye unako ukufumana izakhono ezintsha ezizisa ingeniso enhle kwikamva.
Khangela nje umfana ephusheni ongathandi okwaneleyo
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukujonga ngokunyamekela indlela yakhe ngayo. Zama ukukhumbula ukuba wayevuyile okanye mhlawumbi wayethukuthele. Umzekelo, ukuxabana ephupheni kunye nomfana ongeyimbi kakhulu, kunoko kungumqondiso omhle-kungekudala uza kuba sisondele. Kwenzeka ukuba le ndoda ayizange iphuphe kuphela, kodwa kunye nentombazana ucinga ukuba uyaphikisana. Musa ukukhathazeka, ukuba uyayazi lo mntu ebomini bokwenene, unokuqiniseka ukuba akusiyo into yakhe.
Kwenzeka ukuba ephupheni ungadaniseka kwisithandwa sakho. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kudibana nendoda eselula iya kuba nomdla kuwe.
Ukumanga nomfana othanda ukulala
Ukubamba ngendoda ephupheni kuyamnandi, kodwa kubomi boqobo loo mbono ayithembiseli uvuyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iphupha elinjalo li lumkisa ukuba lingalahleli, kuba unokulindela ingxaki phambi kwakho. Musa ukukhathazeka kakhulu, akukho ntlekele, kodwa ukungaqondani okuncane, ukulahlekelwa, iingxabano ezinokuthi zilandelwe kwaye ziya kugqitywa ngemiphumo emihle kakhulu. Enyanisweni, zonke ezi ngxaki zingagwenywa, kwanele ukuba uqaphele, ugweme izihloko ezilukhuni kwaye ungabhubhisi iingxoxo ezingadingekile.
Ukuba uyamanga umfana othanda egumbini elinomngcipheko osondelene naye, qaphela, kuba kungekudala ulwalamano lwakho lunokugxininisa abantu abanobukhwele kunye neengxowa.
Kodwa ephupheni lokumanga nomntu onqwenelayo akusiyo yonke into, kuba kaninzi uhlala unyakaza. Olu bulumko luza kuzisa ixesha elihle kwizinto zobomi bakho boqobo. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukugcina le ntombazana ngexesha lomzuzu. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukho into eyoyikisayo kunye neyoyikisayo, ulwalamano lwakho lusenokungabi nantoni. Ngokuqhelekileyo, isimo sakho sengqondo sithetha ngoyiko olufihlakeleyo kunye neminqweno. Mhlawumbi awuyithandi iqabane lakho okanye ufuna ukumbuyisela? Emva koko kufuneka ucinge malunga nokuba udibanise ubomi bakho nomntu.
Njengoko ubona, akukho nhlekelele enkulu kukubanga, ukuvuma okanye ukuthetha nomfana othanda iphupha. Unokuhlala uxolo, qwa lasela indlela oziphatha ngayo, kunye nabo bantu bakubo. Yiba mnandi, umhlobo kwaye akukho maphupha angakwazi ukukugweba.