Ukutshintsha, ungatshintshi.
Abathandekayo bakho bayazi "ukusuka nakuye," ngoko baqaphela kalula nayiphi na utshintsho. Ukuba iminyaka emininzi ngokulandelelana ngeempelaveki udibene, kwaye ngokukhawuleza waqala ukuya kweseksi ekuziqhenyeni, ukuza kubangele. Ngako oko, uya kuba neenkqubela ekuthandeni bakho abathandekayo ukuba unokutshintsha izinto ozilibazisayo, imihla ngemihla. Okwangoku, zama ukudibana nomthandi wakho ngexesha elikhuselekileyo nendawo ephephile.
Mamela.
Ehlabathini lanamhlanje, ukunxibelelana akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kweefowuni kunye neekhomputha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezi mpu melelo zembutho zibonakala. Ngoko ke, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukusebenzisa ezi zinto ngokuhlakanipha. Umzekelo, cima zonke iifowuni - ezingenayo neziphumayo, kwakunye neesms ukusuka kumthandi. Yenza ngokukhawuleza, ungayishiyi emva koko. Ebusuku, cima ifowuni nonke okanye cima isandi - ukuba isithandwa sinobugorha sinquma ukubiza umnxeba, kwaye nawe ngeli xesha uya kuba ekhaya nomyeni wakho, ngoko umnxeba wakhe akayi kufikelela kwinqanaba.
Kwikhompyutheni, ungashiyi nayiphi na ibhukumakethi, ukuba ungumtshitshisi weendawo zokuthandana, ungagcini imbali yomyalezo kwi-ICQ kwaye uhlambulule rhoqo i-imeyile. Futhi ungakulibali ukutshintsha iiphasiwedi ngezikhathi ezithile.
Yiba nomnxeba.
Ngomyeni wakhe, kunjalo. Nanini na xa ebiza, kufuneka uhlale uthabatha ifowuni uze ulale ngelizwi elikholisayo. Iifowuni ezimbalwa ezingekhoyo okanye i-SMS-off, ifowuni ivaliwe, kwaye uya kuqala ukubuza ukuba uye waya kumhlobo. Kwaye akukude kwaye kuhlolwe, ongenakukuqikelela, kude kube sekude.
Jonga.
Yiya ekhaya ngendlela efanayo ukusuka ekhaya, ngakumbi kwizinto ezincinci. Ngokukhawuleza, ushiya ibhokhwe kwaye ungayiqapheli le nto, kwaye umyeni uya kufuneka ukuba aqaphele iinkcukacha ezingekho phantsi kwekhabethe lakho. Ukuba uhlala uphethe iikhondom okanye ezinye izithintelo zokuzala, kunye nomyeni uyazi oku, ungavumeli nto ilahleke. Ukuba kwenzeke ukuba uthathe ikhondom kwi-"intsapho" yamasheya, uzalise.
Ikhathalela ngokukhethekileyo iphunga. Ukuba uvumba lomnqweno womntu womnye, akukho buxoki abuyi kunceda. Okanye umnike umyeni wakhe nomthandi isiselo esifanayo, okanye uhlambuluke ngokuhlambulukileyo kwisitya emva komhlangano ngamnye. Ungazami ukubulala iphunga lendoda kunye neqhumiso lakho - aliyi kulugcina, kodwa liza kugxininisa kuphela umahluko kwivumba lakho eliqhelekileyo.
Ukongeza, qiniseka ukuzikhusela. Ukuba uzisa "isipho" ngesimo sesifo se-venereal endlini, umtshato wakho uya kuqubuka ngokuphazamiseka okukhulu.
Yilungele.
Ukuhlaselwa. Yonke imfihlelo kamva okanye kamva iyacaca, kwaye kuyisidenge ukukholelwa ukuba indoda iya kuhlala ikwazi ukungakwazi. Okokuqala, ngokukrokraza, amadoda afuna ukujonga iifowuni kunye neekhomputha. Masithi uthathe le ngqalelo kwaye uthatha inyathelo. Kodwa lakho iqabane lingathatha ukushicilelwa kweefowuni zakho kwaye zifake inombolo yowamazwe angabangela umtshato. Abesifazane abahlakaniphile abanalo elinye i-SIM khadi, kodwa kunye nefowuni-ingakumbi kwiintlanganiso ezifihlakeleyo. Kuza kukufihla kuyimfuneko engqondweni.
Okwesibini, umatshini. Ukuba uqhuba imoto yakho, kukukho ubungqina. Iibhokhwe, iikhondom ezikhohliwe, konke oku kubakho ubungqina bokungqubuzana.
Ukuba unomntwana, ungamvumeli aze ave umda weendlebe zakho malunga nokudibana kwakho nomthandi wakho. Nangona abantwana abancinci, abonakala bengakhange bafunde ukuthetha, banako ukutshatyalaliswa inyaniso ngawe ngexesha elibi kakhulu.
Musa ukuzisa izipho ekhaya, iintyatyambo. Oku kuya kubangela imibuzo.
Ukuze uhlale uthembekile kumfazi wakhe emehlweni omyeni wakhe, kuya kufuneka uchithe amandla amaninzi kunye neentliziyo. Kuya kufuneka uloyike ukuba uya kubonwa kwi-metro, kwikonti, kwindawo yokutyela, naphi na apho ukhona. Uya kukwazi ukuba ukunyakaza kwakho kulula ukubala, unako ukuva iifowuni, ufunde idilesi. Uya kufuneka uxoke kwaye uzigwebe, ukubandakanya amantombazana akho ukuze uncede ukudala i-alibi ekholisayo. Ekugqibeleni, into ethile iyaqhekeka, umntu uya kubetha okanye uza kwenza iphutha elibulalayo. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokubandakanyeka kwiintlobo ezinjalo, cinga ukuba umtshato othembekileyo uya kuba bubi kangako.