Ihlabathi elibonakalayo liye lafaka iingqondo zoluntu. I-intanethi yafika kuyo yonke indlu, kwaye ngokukhawuleza yaqala ukufumana iimpawu zobuqu. Enoba sifuna okanye cha, i-intanethi ye-intanethi yindlela entsha yokuphuhliswa kwentlalo. Kwaye akumangalisi ukuba intsebenziswano yaba yintsebenziswano. Awuyi kukumangalisa abantu abanomxholo onjalo kunye nesiganeko njengento yesini. Iyintoni isondo sesini? Ingaba yiyo eyintlekele yabantwana abaselula, ngaba kukuguquka, okanye ngaba indlela entsha yokubonisa iimvakalelo?
Masizame ukuvula ikhethini
Ukususela kwimbono yesayensi yezocansi, kukutshintshela ubudlelwane ngamabonakaliso ezenzo kunye neminqweno (kule ngxaki ithetha ukuba ubudlelwane bezesondo bubhekiselele), kaninzi luhamba kunye nokuhlaziya umzimba. Inkqubo yesini ebonakalayo iyancitshiswa ekubonakalisweni kwemisebenzi kunye neengcamango. Xa amaqabane ahlukeneyo kwiifom ezahlukeneyo abonisa iimvakalelo zabo, iiminqweno kwaye bacinge ngolu hlobo okanye elo nyathelo. Kwaye ngenxa yoko, kuthatha i-orgasm kunye nenjabulo. Ukuba senza lula, ngoko sinokuthi isondo esona sisisigxina se-masturbation.
Ubundlobongela obuhle bubi okanye buhle?
Akukho mpendulo engaqinisekanga kwiyeza le-Ipsychology. Ngoko ke, qwalasela ezinye zeemeko ezintle nezimbi.
Ncinane malunga neenzuzo:
Isini esingaqhelekanga sinokuba "isekela" yinyani, i-corporal, xa ukulala ngesondo kungenakwenzeka ngesizathu esithile. Ngokomzekelo, xa amaqabane ahlukeneyo, ukuthetha ngokusondeleyo kunokuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokubonisa uthando omnye komnye.
Isondo esilungileyo yintsimi efanelekileyo yokulinga. Oko kukuthi, awukwazi ukukhangela kwizinto eziqhelekileyo, zama izinto zakho zokucinga, ukuba unayo.
Ukuqeqesha ukulungiselela utshintsho lwamava kunye "nokuqeqesha phambili".
Iqonga lokuqeqesha. Emva kwakho konke, ngaphandle kwefantastiki kwizesondo zobuqhetseba, awuyi kuphumelela. Abanye abathandi bezo zesini baxela ukuba ubulili obubonakalayo bufana nokubhala ibali lothando. Ukuze kube yimpumelelo, umntu kufuneka aqeqeshe i-syllable yamagama. Ewe, ngokwenene, zama ukuchaza amagama kungekhona kuphela inkqubo, kodwa neengcinga kunye neemvakalelo. Kulula.
Ubundlobongela obuhle bungasebenza njengento efudumele phambi kokulala kwangempela ngesini.
Ukulungiswa kwemfundiso phambi kokusebenza. Iyakwazi ukukhonza njengesixhobo "seentlum".
Impembelelo yokwelapha, xa umntu efuna ukunqoba intloni yakhe, ngaphambi kokungena kwihlabathi langempela lesini.
"I-Wirth" inokukunceda udlale kwiimbopheleleko zobomi bokwenene awuboni.
Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukusuka kwisini esingaqhelekanga awuyi kukhulelwa kwaye awuyi kugula. Kwabaninzi, le ngongoma ephambili, ngokungahambisani. Ukongeza, lo wesondo unokwenzeka nanini na.
Ncinane malunga neqhenqa:
Ukungabikho kwenyaniso. Umntu usafuna ukwaneliseka okwenene.
Ukutshintshela ubulili obuqinileyo kunye noonxibelelwano lokwenene. Kukho ingozi yokudlala kwinqanaba lokuba isondo sangempela asithandi. "I-Wirth" yacima imida yexesha, ngaphezu koko, apha ilula ngokulula. Kwaye, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ebuyele enyanisweni kwaye ejongene 'neengxaki zangempela' zobudlelwane obuphilayo, umntu, udaniwe, ubuyela kwihlabathi elipheleleyo.
Ingqiqo, nangona kunjalo, iyalingana. Nangona uzama ukuziqinisekisa ukuba oku akunjalo. (Ukuba ngaba iqabane kunye neqabane langempela lihlukeneyo nabantu)
Ukungahambi kakuhle kukufihlakele kwesini esivelayo kwamehlo. Abalingani ababonanga ukuphendula kwangempela komnye nomnye. Omnye unokubanjiswa yinkqubo: iimvakalelo, iimpawu - yonke into iphezu phezulu, kwaye okwesibini imane ityeke iisokisi okanye ibukele ibhayisikobho kwaye ibuhlungu.
Ingozi yokuwa nothando kunye neqabane elibonakalayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba abantu abatsha banikezelwa ngokupheleleyo kwiileta kwesikrini kunye nemvakalelo enikwa umntu ongeyena mntu.
I-Sexologists ixwayisa ukuba ukuzonwabisa okuqhelekileyo kwintlobano yesini esingaqhelekanga kunokukhokelela ekufikeni kwe-fetishism, xa kungenakuqaphela ukuba umkhwa wokungenakunqwenela ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo ngaphandle kwekhompyutha.
Ukungathembeki kwabantu abangena kwezo zihlobo. Kwi-99% yamatyala, kukho ukucocwa komntu othandekayo, ongenakwenza lutho ngokuqinisekileyo.
Manani amancinci
Ukuqonda okuncinci kwee-pluses zeemfesane, kuqhubeka ukudibanisa ukuba ubulili obuninzi bukhangela inani elikhulu labasebenzisi benethiwekhi. Uphando lubonise ukuba malunga nama-60% wabaphenduli bazama le ndlela yokuzonwabisa. Ngelo xesha, imvakalelo emnandi yafunyanwa ngamaphesenti angama-32, ngaphezulu kwabo bafazi. Ukunyaniseka nokungalunganga ukuphendula ngokuthi "Wirth" kubangelwa ngu-22%, kukho kakade inxalenye enkulu ye-muzhchin. Kwaye kungenanto engenamdla kunye nesimo esingathandekiyo ngokwesini esasifumanayo sabonwa ngaba-40% abaphenduliweyo.
Isiphelo: Ukuba zombini abalingani bamkela uhlobo olunjalo lolwalamano olusondeleyo, akukho nto ihlazo malunga nalokhu. Inobumba obusondeleyo yindlela enye yokubonisa iimvakalelo kunye neminqweno. Ngokuphathelele ubunjineli, kwimeko yesini ebonakalayo, kuya kufuneka usebenzise ukubonisa iimfuno zakho kunye neemvakalelo kunye nezenzo "ngokufanelekileyo", kulo mzekelo, ngesondo nangomdla.