Iphupha uze uphumelele amaphupha

Ukuze wenze iphupha libe yinjongo, yenza amanyathelo ambalwa ambalwa. Endleleni yakho 6 "uyeka", ngamnye kubo ulindele ukufumana ezinkulu. Baya kufaka yonke into kwindawo yabo kwaye bancede ukufezekisa umphumo ofunayo ngokukhawuleza. Cacisa ngokucacileyo oko kufuneka uyenze ukuzalisekisa iphupha lakho (funda ulwimi, funda ukuqhuba). Khawucinge ukuba uza kwenzeka ntoni xa iphupha lakho lizaliseka (uya kuba novuyo, uphumelele kakhulu). Cinga ngezenzo ezongezelelweyo emva kokuba ufinyelele umnqweno wakho, yintoni enye uzimisele ukuyenza.

Cinga ukuba iphupha aliyi kubuhlungu abathandekayo bakho, akuyi kubhubhisa ulwalamano lwakho. Khumbula indlela oye waphumelela ngayo ezinye iinjongo, wenzeni le nto, bekude kangakanani bekulwela. Misela kwixesha elifihliweyo, umise umhla ochanekileyo, xa ufuna ukuba iphupha lakho lifezeke. Kuhle kangakanani ukuphupha nokuphupha!

Kwengqondo, kukho enye kuphela-yile ngcamango yenjongo. Injongo ngumfanekiso oqapheleyo wesiphumo esilindelekileyo, apho isenzo somntu siqondiswa khona. Iphupha ngokweqondo eliqhelekileyo ngumfanekiso wengqondo yento enqwenelekayo, ukunyusa, into enqwenelayo. Kubonakala ukuba, ekuqaleni umntu uphupha iphupha, njengento yokuqonda nokungazi kakuhle, iguqulwa ibe yinjongo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iphupha kunye neenjongo zinomntu omnye, esinye nesisiseko esifanayo: umnqweno. Umehluko lukho kwinto yokuba phantsi kwephupha sisoloko siqonde into ethile enkulu, ngamanye amaxesha ayifumaneki. Injongo yamaphupha ingumnqweno wokwenene, womhlaba. Ukuba umntu uzama ukuzaliseka kwamaphupha kuphela ngenxa yokuba ukuphunyezwa kwayo kuhambelana nemvakalelo emihle, ukuwaneliseka ngokomzimba okanye ngokomzimba kwiminqweno, ukufezekiswa kwenjongo ngokubanzi kuyimfuneko enobulungisa. Xa umntu ebeka umgomo, ufuna ukuphakamisa izinga. Kungaba ukufumana ulwazi, amava, ukukhula kokomoya okanye ukukhula komsebenzi. Injongo isoloko isebenza iziphumo. Iphupha kunye neenjongo zihlukeneyo. Emva koko, iinjongo zibandakanya isenzo, isicwangciso esicingayo. Iphupha linokukwenza oku, kwaye uhlale ubalekela imfesane, engenazo ukuphunyezwa kwangempela. Ukuphupha ngumdlalo weengcamango. Inxulumene nezicwangciso zekamva kwaye ingaba nesishukumisi esinamandla somsebenzi. Kodwa iphupha linalo "udade" - iphupha. Kuvela xa iingcamango zithintela kwizinto eziyinyani. Ngokungafani nephupha, iphupha "livila": umntu oza kubangela ukuba ubomi bam bube bhetele, kungekhona mna. Injongo isoloko imbonakalo yeso sifundo esifunwayo. Eli liphupha elichazwe ngokucacileyo ngesicwangciso sekhonkrithi kunye nexesha lokuphunyezwa kwalo.

Iingcamango zikhokelela kwihlabathi elikhohlisayo, elishiya apho livimbela ukuzaliseka komntu kweli hlabathi. Iphupha lithatha umququzelelo walo, kuphela kuba yinjongo. Emva koko uqala ukukhombisa izenzo kwaye unqume ukhetho lweendlela ezahlukeneyo nezindlela zokuphunyezwa. Xa siphupha, ngokukhawuleza kuyenzeka kwinkqubo enhle kakhulu - ukuba ucinge ukuba kuya kuba kuhle kangakanani. Ukusuka kweli ngcamango, injongo ngumgqugquzeli okhuselekileyo wokufezekisa okufunwayo. Isilungiselelo esifanelekileyo seenjongo siya kwenza ukuba ukwazi ukuqonda nayiphi na iphupha, apho kukho ubuncinane inxalenye yezinto eziyimfuneko yokuphunyezwa. Akunakwenzeka ukuzalisa iphupha ngaphandle kokwenza umgomo, kuba ukuqonda iphupha ofuna ukuyenza, kwaye ukuziphatha okunenjongo kungenziwa xa umphumo wezenzo kunye namanyathelo okufezekisa. Injongo inegunya elinamandla elenza umntu asebenze ekutshintsheni amava adlulileyo okanye utshintsho lwehlabathi elijikelezile. Ukungabi nokhuthazo, njengomthetho, kubonisa ukuba umphuphi akazange akhathazeke ukucinga ngeendlela zokufikelela kwiphupha lakhe. Kunzima ukusho ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Ngenye indlela, amaphupha (okwenene) kunye neenjongo zoluntu ziyahambelana. Injongo isoloko isebenza njengezinga elithile, isinyathelo, emva koko, umntu ufikelela kwiphupha lakhe. Ukuba iphupha lichazwe ngokupheleleyo kwilizwe lenene, alinanto enxulumene neenjongo zobomi bomntu, ngoko kunokuhlala nje iphupha. Amaphupha anjalo awavelanga, awanamandla aphilileyo kwaye awaniki abantu amandla okuwaqonda. Bafana nefantasy, umdlalo wengqondo. Indlela eyona ndlela iphumelelayo kukuya ekuzalisekeni kwephupha ngokuphumelela kweenjongo, eyona nto iyimfuneko yokuzaliseka kwezicwangciso ezinkulu. Iphupha ngaphandle kwenjongo inokuba lula, kodwa ayinayo impawu yokuhamba. Kodwa injongo ngaphandle kwephupha ayikwazi ukuba khona. Ingongoma kukuba iinjongo kufuneka zikhutshwe ngamandla ukufezekiswa kwayo. Yinto enika iphupha. Kwaye ukuba akukho nentshiseko enjalo, izibonelelo zangaphakathi ziya kuphelelwa kamsinya kwaye injongo ayiyi kuzaliseka. Yonke into, apho amandla eemvakalelo engasetyenzisiwe, ayifaki iziphumo. Ukufezekiswa kwephupha ngaphandle kwenjongo kunokwenzeka kuphela kwiingxelo zamagama. Injongo ngaphandle kwephupha inokufezekiswa kakuhle. Enyanisweni, inkqubo enjalo ayinayo ingoma, iprosaic. Iphupha liphefumlela, ngaphandle kwalo akukho bugcisa. Ukuba uhamba ngokuthe ngqo ekuzalisekeni kwamaphupha akho, kwaye kungekhona nje ukuyeka ukucinga. Iphupha likhokelo, kunye nenjongo yindlela yokukhonkxa.