Abantu abahlukeneyo baneenkqubo ezahlukeneyo kule nkqubo. Omnye udlulela kwiimvakalelo kwaye ehamba ngokuzithemba ekukhangela injabulo entsha, umntu ushiya, kodwa uhlala ungumhlobo othembekileyo wobomi. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba, akunakwenzeka kwezi zinto? Ngaba ufuna ukufumana iingcebiso malunga nokukhawuleza ukulibala umhlobo wakho?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka sijonge izinto ezibukhali - siyakuqonda ukuba ukulibala ngokupheleleyo umhlobo wakho, akunakunikwa mntu, kodwa ukuphuma emthandweni wothando kunye nokuphazamisa iingcamango ezilukhuni ukuze ukhumbule ixesha elidlulileyo njengento encinane kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ngokuqinisekileyo.
Indlela elula, mhlawumbi, iya kugxotha emsebenzini kunye nentloko. Kakade ke, kukho iingenelo kule ngxowankulu. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ukwandisa umthwalo womsebenzi, ke amagunya, ukuvavanya inzondelelo yakho, mhlawumbi, iya kwandisa umvuzo wakho, okanye uphakame kwi-ofisi. Kwakhona, ixesha lokungena kwiingcamango ezingenangqondo kunye ne-samoyedstvuyuschee kunye nabo abayi kuhlala! Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, umzimba wakho, kunye neentsholongwane, kungekhona isinyithi kunye nemikhosi yayo kusemkhwa wokuphela, ngoko uyiphathe ngentlonipho uze ucinge ezinye iinketho.
Kuye kwaphawula ukuba ixesha elide lobomi, kunye nabahlali abonwabileyo, bahlangene bhetele ndawonye! Zama ukuchitha ixesha elincinane kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ukudibana nabahlobo, chitha ixesha kunye kunye ncokola ngezihloko ezingabonakaliyo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyeka ngokukhawuleza zonke iinzame zokufumana oko kwenzeka, ingakumbi xa unganakulungele ukuthetha ngawo. Masixwayise wonke umntu ukuba awufuni ukuthetha ngawo kwaye uya kuvuyela ukuba lo mbandela awuqhubeki ukuphindaphindiwe. Ngendlela, indlela efanelekileyo yokunxibelelana ngokubambisana yi-forum kwi-intanethi! Fumana isayithi ehambelanayo kwaye unqabile ukungena kwiforum. Zive ukhululekile ukuxelela ibali lakho, phulaphula abanye ... Ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi omnye uya kudibana naloo nto uya kukukholelwa ukuba, eqinisweni, yonke into ayimbi kuwe.
Ayikho inketho embi, kwakhona, yenza imfundo. Bhalisela ezinye iikhosi ezithakazelisayo. Funda ukuqhuba imoto, uthetha isiTshayina, i-macrame ye-weave ... Okukhethwa ngokwenene akuyi kubala kwaye bonke bayayikhumbula into yokuba uyalibala loo mntu owenze kakubi!
Ukuhamba phambili. Cinga ngento yokuzonwabisa. Qala ukuqokelela into. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuqokelela iqoqo lamadayimane angabonakaliyo kuya kuba mnandi kakhulu, kodwa masibe yinto engokoqobo, le nto yokuzilibazisa isesikhwameni seeyunithi, kodwa iqoqo le-statuettes, iimakethi kwiqrijini, kunye neebhotile ze-shampoo, ukuba ngaba yinto efanelekileyo yecandelo layo kwaye yanceda ukulibala ukuba ngubani na onokucinga ngako konke a bafuni. Ukuba le nto yokuzonwabisa iyabonakala ingabonakali, cinga ngokwakho, ekhethekileyo, eqondakalayo kuphela kuwe. Cinga izifaniso zezilwanyana emafini, uqoke i-herbarium, yenzele eyakho, akekho owazi ulwimi kwaye uthethe ngayo nawe. Lapha, njengemfazwe, zonke iindlela zilungile.
Abantu abaninzi benza impazamo enkulu bezama ukulibala umhlobo wakhe ngesiselo esinxilisayo. Ndiza kuthi kwangoko - olu khetho alufanelekanga, kodwa lufanele lupheliswe ngokupheleleyo! Ngaphantsi kwempembelelo yobunxila obunxilisayo, abantu bahlala bengenangqiqo. Kububudenge ngokukhethekileyo xa, emva kokuxila, umntu uqala ukubiza umntu owayengumlingani kunye nokukhubekisa ngolwimi lwakhe ezama ukufumanisa isizathu sokuba wenza. Ndikholelwe, akukho nto ngaphandle kosizi ku-interlocutor ayivuki. Kodwa asimele sidabuke, ngaba thina? Emva koko umsila uphononongo kwaye uqhubeke!
Ukudibanisa umgca. Umzekeliso oqhelekileyo? Kutheni ungayisebenzisi kakuhle kwaye uzama ukuhlangabezana nomntu omtsha, nothando olukhulu? Jonga ngeenxa zonke. Mhlawumbi, kufuphi kakhulu kuwe kukho umntu oye wazama ukubonisa ukuba awukhathaleli? Ngoko mnike ithuba!
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, okugqibela. Ufuna ukukhawuleza ukulibala umhlobo wakho? Emva koko zithande, ekugqibeleni, uyeke ukuthanda! Yiya kwi-salon enobuhle, utshintshe umfanekiso okanye nokuba isangqa soqhagamshelwano, ingakumbi ukuba ihambelana nawe. Jabulela ubomi. Kwaye emphefumlweni wakho apho akuyi kubakho indawo yokudandatheka.