Indlela yokuziphindezela umntu ngenxa yobuthakathaka

Kukho iindumiso ukuba thina bafazi sizilwanyana ezinkulu. Akunxulumani nexesha legazi, kungekhona malunga neengcinga ezimbi. Uninzi lwabasetyhini lunento eyenza ukuba babuyiselwe ngenxa yecala. Ngokuqhelekileyo siziphindezela kubantu besilisa abasithengileyo, bashiywe. Ngoko ungabuyisela njani umntu ngokunyaniseka?
Okokuqala, vimbela ukukhala, khangela iingxaki ezingekho, ugijime emva kwenduduzo kwiintsapho kunye nabaqhelana nabo, ukulandelela umgcini-mthengi, nangaphezulu ukuze wenze ingxaki kuye. Ukuphishekela konke oku kungenangqondo, uya kubenza ubenzima kakhulu. Ulungele ukubandakanya emsebenzini osebenzayo: zitshintshe wena. Buza, kutheni ndifuna konke oku? Sichaza. Ukuba ngcono kunakho, ngoko unyanzelisa umntu ukuba ahlalutye izenzo zakhe, kwaye ekujonge, uya kucinga ukuba: "Ndiyintoni na isicengezelo esishiye loo ntokazi?"

Ewe, masiziphindezele kuloo ndoda ngokunyaniseka!

1. Shintsha indawo ejikelezileyo.

Okokuqala, ulahle izinto zakhe, ukuze ungabuyeli kwakhona. Ukulila, liphose kunye neefoto zakho. Kwiimeko ezinzima, thabatha umama. Ukuba ngaba zangaphambili abazange bathathe izinto zabo, bawafake kwikhwama baze bayithumele kuye ngeposi. Yenza ukulungiswa kwindlu yakho (igumbi). Ukuba le nto ingxaki, yitshintshe iipaleni, shenxisa ifenitshala. Ngelinye igama, qiniseka ukuba wonke u tyelele ekamelweni kukumomotheka ebusweni bakho.

2. Phuma!

Ungazivumeli udideke! Yiya emsebenzini, ungene kuyo ngentloko yakho, iya kuba yinto engcono kakhulu yokuphindezela. Xa kuninzi usuku olusebenzayo luya, uncinci uya kukhumbula intliziyo yakho yokugula kunye nendoda enentsingiselo. Ngendlela, ngolu hlobo unako ukuphazamisa into yokuba uya kuphawulwa kwaye emva koko ukhuthazwe. Yiyo yokuqala yokuziphindisela.

3. Yithi intle!

Ixesha lokuzikhulula entlungu kunye nokuziphindezela. Oku kuya kunceda isithethe esincinane. Thatha ibhaluni igcwele i-gel, udwebe umguba kuwo. Ngulo uthando lwakho lwangaphambili. Ukuba ufuna, ungabhala ngokufutshane into ekukukhathazayo. Khangela ibhola, yitshilo kuye kwaye ... myeke aye. Ngokukhawuleza xa ibhola iphela phambi kwamehlo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuziva ukhululekile kunye nokukhanya emphefumlweni.

4. tshintsha!

Ixesha lokucinga ngawe. Vumela uzalwe kwakhona! Yiya kwi-salon enobuhle, utshintshe iinwele zakho, unakekele imilenze yakho, izandla. Sebenzisa imali. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, thabatha iholide uze uhambo. Yonke le nto iya kukuvuyisa kwaye, endleleni eya ekhaya, uya kuqaphela ukukhangela kwamadoda. Nantsi enye inhlanganisela - uye watshintsha ngokugqithiseleyo ngaphandle, ebalulekileyo.

5. Uhlalutyo lwentsebenziswano.

Ixesha lokuhlalutya ulwalamano lwangaphambili. Cinga ngento endiyifumana ngayo kulunxulumano. Ngokomzekelo, ndafunda ukuthi "hayi", kwakumangalisa ukuba ndipheke, ekugqibeleni ndiyifumene nenkqubo yekhompyutheni eyayinzima kuwe, ndafunda ukudibanisa. Zonke ezi ziimpawu ezibalulekileyo. Ndiyabulela kubo, ihlabathi lakho liye licebile. Apha kuwe 3 kunye.

6. Into eyithandayo.

Khumbula into owawuhlala uyiyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo kwakukho uhlobo oluthile lokuzilibazisa. Ngoko banakekele! Ewe, yintoni, ukuba uyalibala ukuba yenziwe njani, ukuba iminyaka engamakhulu awuzange uthathe ezandleni zakho ukukhangela inaliti, i-hook, i-easel, njl njl. Kodwa ngoku unako ukukhumbula konke oku kwaye wenze, yakha, yakha ... Idibaniso yesine.

7. Ubomi obutsha.

Emva kwexesha uza kubona ukuba iintsuku eziliqela (okanye iiveki) awukhumbuli indoda yangaphambili. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bajonga abanye abantu. Oku kuthetha ukuba ulungele ubomi obutsha kunye nolwalamano. Ubomi buqhubeka!

Kwaye ngoku lixesha lokubuyisela! Zibukele ngaphandle, ubona ntoni? Ubuhle, umfazi othembekileyo, owaziyo ukufaneleka kwakhe. Ibhinqa, kwintlanganiso apho umntu owayengumntu omdala uya kuluma iingqungquthela zakhe. Emva kwakho konke, wayengenakukubona konke oku xa wayekrekrele ukwenza intetho. Ngoku unokuthula, ukhangele emehlweni akho, uthi kuye: "Kuhle ukuba undigculele. Ngaphandle koko, andizange ndibe ngokufanayo! "