Ukwahlukana kwehlabathi kunye nabantu.
Umhlaba wethu uhlala ngabantu abali-billion, kwaye ngokubalulekayo, okuhlukileyo! Bobabini ngaphandle nangaphakathi, bobabini endleleni yokucinga kunye nembono yehlabathi ngokubanzi. Ukuba wawuthandana nomculo waza wazibona esiteji esenza phambi kwabaphulaphuli abaninzi, akuthethi ukuba umntwana wakho naye unokuthanda umculo kunye nokucula. Umntu ohamba ngeenyawo zakho kwaye akazange axolise, kungekhona nje into ebhekile, unokucinga njani. Konke oku kuthetha ukuba abantu abajikelezileyo bahlukile, bajonga izinto ngendlela yabo. Oku kuthetha ukuba abantu kufuneka baqondwe njengabo, kungekhona ukuba bafune ukuba babe njengawe. Ungazami ukubuyisela umntwana wakho okanye umyeni wakho, ungammangaleli uluvo lwakho, njengona yinyaniso kuphela. "Andiyi kuyenza loo nto!" Ngaba iyona mpazamo enkulu. Musa ukuphinda!
Kwaye siyilwela ntoni?
Kubalulekile ukuqonda nokuqonda oko ukulwelayo nokukhusela amalungelo akho. Ukuba uqinisekile ukuba indoda kufuneka ibe namandla kakhulu kwaye isisityebi, kwaye umhlobo wakho akahlangabezananga nokulindela kwakho, umgaqo-nkqubo othiwa umgaqo-nkqubo uyabandakanywa. Ngelo xesha, unamathele kakhulu kunento ethile, kwaye ukuba awufumani, ngoko udidekile. Xa isimo sothando sidlulayo, kwaye uyabona ukuba indoda esecaleni kwakho "ayiyena iqhawe lenveli yakho", iqala ukuthukuthela kwaye ikucaphukise. Ukubonwa kwansuku zonke kuqala: "awunqweneli", "ungenzi nto" njalo njalo.
Musa ukudala imilingo, yakha i-air lock. Ukunyaniseka kukude nehlabathi lakho leengcamango. Ukuba oku kuqondwa ke, awuyi kubulawa kwiiplani kunye namaphupha angaphiliyo. Yamkela kwaye umxolele umntu ngenxa yokungabi yiloo nto oyibonayo entloko yakho ngumsebenzi onzima, kodwa ukuba uyayisombulula, uya kwenza isinyathelo esikhulu endleleni yokucinga kakuhle. Ngaba ucinga ukuba oku akuyi kusebenza? Kwaye uya kugxeka ngokungaphumeleli komyeni emsebenzini okanye kwisisu sakhe? Kwaye uzama uqinisekise!
Ubudlelwane nabathandekayo.
Kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu azi kwaye aqonde ukuba kukho abantu abasondelene naye oya kumkela, ukuqonda nokumxhasa kuyo nayiphi na imeko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba wenze ntoni. Ukuba unokungaqondani okanye ukungquzulana nezihlobo zakho, fumana isizathu kwaye uyisombulule! Cinga, mhlawumbi uzama ukubuyisela umntu kwakhona, kodwa uyayichasa? Okanye ngaba unengcamango yezenzo zakhe, iingcamango, ukubonakala? Kukulungele ukuxolisa kwaye utshintshe imodeli yokuziphatha kwakho kwixesha elincinci kunye nokunyaniseka.
Ubomi ngumdlalo!
Jabulela kuyo yonke imihla entsha, ujonge izinto ezilula, jonga ihlabathi ngokuthe tye kwaye uya kukuphendula ngokufanayo! Musa ukuthukuthela uze ungene ekuphelelweni okukhulu ngenxa yeengxaki, ziya kudlula kwaye yonke into iya kusebenza!
Izicatshulwa, ukucacisa ubudlelwane, ukuhlambalaza ngokubambisana akukhokeli kwisisombululo esakhayo, bathabatha amandla amaninzi, iimvakalelo ezintle. Ngenxa yesigqirha, ufumana umonakalo kunye nokukhungatheka. Zama ukungathathi ngokugqithiseleyo amazwi athetha ngomsindo womsindo. Khawucinge ukuba unesidlangalaleni se-movie uze ubukele ifilimu embi. Musa ukuthatha i-akhawunti yakho yonke ingxaki kunye nemixhala. Akulinganelanga!
Isimo sengqondo esilungileyo, isimo sengqondo esihle, ukujonga ngentshiseko kwixesha elizayo kukunceda ube ngumntu onobungane nomnandi kwintsapho yakho, emsebenzini, phakathi koogxa, nabahlobo kunye nezihlobo.