Kutheni umntu onjengezulu elibi?

Kubanda, kungcolile, kunzima. Amafu amnyama agubungela isibhakabhaka, imvula ayimise okwesikhashana, kwaye isengumoya oqinileyo. Kule mozulu, bathi, umnini mhle akayi kuvumela inja. Kodwa abanye abantu bayayithanda. Ndiyambuza ukuba kutheni?
Okokuqala, loo mimoya iyathandwa, okanye kunoko, ihlonishwa yi-meteorologists. Bayazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba yonke into ephantsi kwehlabathi ixhomekeke kwingcamango yokuqhubela phambili kwehlabathi. Ukuba kukho imozulu, kunjalo kuyimfuneko into ethile. Akwahlukanisi imozulu ibe yinto emihle neyingozi, bathi kuphela ngezulu elihle okanye elingafanelekanga kumntu. Kodwa le nto inemeko. Ubomi beemeko siye sahluke, ngoko ke iimfuno zendalo zihluke. Sonke siyazi ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukulungiselela iimviwo xa ilanga likhanya etaweni. Ayiniki ithuba lokugxininisa, inciphisa intshukumo (nje ngeendleko zesimo sengqondo esinokuba nethemba elingenakwenzeka). Kungcono ukuvumela ukuba imvula - kwaye akufanele uphazamiseke ... kwaye yintoni enye ongayithanda imozulu embi? Ngubani na aba bantu?

Zobuntu
Zonke iingoma malunga nendlela umntu alahle ngayo umntu, wahlukana nomntu, malunga nokuba nethemba lingazalisekanga njani, ngothando olungelona luthando luhlanganisa into efanayo. Oku, ke, iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu kunye ... nezulu lezulu! Ungenzi ngaphandle kwemvula ekhulayo kwimvelaphi, kumagqabi aphelileyo, amafu amnyama kunye nomoya okhulayo. Uninzi lwabantu banemimoya efanayo yemozulu ehambelana nento engakhangekiyo kwaye ilahleke. Ngulo hlobo lwemozulu oluchaphazela iintliziyo zeebongozi, kunye nabantu abasandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa kunye nabathandekayo kunye ne-melancholy. Xa kuvula ngaphandle kwefestile, bafuna ukuhlala bebodwa kunye nabo, bazibambe ngokwabo, bacinge baze bahlupheke. Xa ilanga livuna esibhakabhakeni, umculi uya kubonisa umsebenzi wakhe omtsha kuwo wonke umntu, umntu olahlekelwe ngumntu uya kuziva emitsha imikhosi ukuze aphile aze avuyiswe. Kodwa ubuntu, obhekene nokunyamezela, kuya kuvuyisa. Kwaye oku kuphazamiseka kukuchaphazela ubuhlobo kunye neqabane. Kukho inzondo malunga neenyawo ezilinganayo, i-melancholic ingayichaphaza ngokwengqondo umlingane, okanye i-scandal enkulu ingenzeka. Ngenxa yokuba ngandlela-thile iphosakele - ukucwina nokulila ngenxa yothando olungagcwalanga, xa lugcinwe apha, kwicala lakho. Kwaye ukuba xa uqala ulwalamano olunjalo olungathandekiyo lunokutsala, lube luyimfihlelo kwaye luhende, ngoko xa ubuhlobo sele bude bude kwaye buzinzile, bubangelwa ukucaphukisa. Kwaye kumbuza loo mntu malunga nento edabukisayo, usenokufumana impendulo engapheliyo "ngento". Kodwa le yinyaniso. Umntu oseburhulumenteni, ngokwenene, unokulila ngenxa yezinto ezingabonakaliyo. Ngaloo nto ayinakwenzeka, kodwa kungekhona kuye, kodwa kwihlabathi ngokubanzi. Kwaye nangona iimbongo ezibuhlungu ziyamkhathalela ngokuthe ngqo, oku akuthethi ukuba akanelisekile ngoku. Kuphela nje ukuba abantu balolu hlobo banesidingo salo-kuba buhlungu, ukuphupha, ukuya kwizinkumbulo.

Iilancholics kufuneka zenziwe ukwenzela ukuba uthando lwabo lwezulu lungahambelani ngokuchanekileyo ngentsapho kunye nabahlobo. Ngokomzekelo, unokuthi: "Emvula, ndihlala ndiziva ndibuhlungu, ndifuna ukuma ngefestile kwaye ndikhangele ihlahla kunye namafu amnyama."

Ukuzichaza
Abantu abanempawu zobuntshitshisi bemvelo (ukunyuka kweemfuno zabanye, ukucasula) ngokwabo bafana nemimozulu embi, yingako bayithanda kakhulu. Nangona abazange bavume. Ngokuphambene noko, bayigxekisa ngenxa yento. Ngeemvakalelo, imizobo, ukuthelekisa. Ukuba kubanda, baya kuthetha ukuba ityilisiwe kwithambo okanye ukuba inyoyi ingabetha izinyo. Nangona kunjalo, kwimeko embi yemozulu abanomdla wokumangalisa. Ziba nzima kakhulu, zivuya, ngokungathi zikwindawo yazo. Ngoko kunjalo. Kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo (ezilungileyo), abantu abanjalo bazizwa bengenakuhlala kakuhle, kuba abanako ukukwazi ukuziphatha ngendlela abafuna ngayo. Oko kunjalo, bayakwazi, kodwa bayaqonda ukuba ukusuka ngaphandle kubonakala bukhuni. Kodwa kwimozulu engalunganga unako ukuzonda kwaye ufungele ngokuzenzekileyo - kukho isizathu, kwaye kuyaqhelekileyo kuwo wonke umntu. Isimo somzimba nesengqondo siphucula, ukuzithemba kuphakama. Kodwa oku, okwenene, kuphela ngenxa ye-detente. Kwaye kulungele ukulungelelanisa nemozulu. Nangona kunjalo uninzi lwabantu lukhululekile.

Abo baziyo malunga nokukhawuleza kwabo nokukhawuleza, akufanelekile ukuba bangaphuthelwa naluphi na usuku olukhanyayo. Phuma uze uthi: "Yeyiphi intsasa enhle!" Emva koko iziqhwithi ezihlamba ziya kuba ngaphantsi.

Umphefumlo ushushu
Abanye abantu abayithandi imozulu embi ngokwayo, kodwa ithuba lokufihla kuyo: hlalani kwisitulo sezandla ezicocekileyo, sigubungelwe ngengubo, okanye udibanise embhedeni, ucinezela ithoyizi elithambileyo okanye umququ. Musa ukuya phi na, ungenzi nto. Ukukhohlisa, ukuzonwabisa, ukuzinyamekela. Ngenxa yokuba phakathi kwelanga abananto. Okanye kukho, kodwa kuncinci. Bambalwa abachukumisa, abafudumalayo, bathintela, ukubetha. Akukho ukunxibelelana okwaneleyo, kuzisa uvuyo. Abantu abanjalo ngokuqhelekileyo bathambekele ekukhangekeleni izinto ezinonophelo eziphathekayo ngokusebenzisa impahla, izinto zangaphakathi. Bathanda ubumnandi, bayibophe iingubo, i-sliffy slippers. Kakade, oku akusoloko kulungile kwaye akunakwenzeka njalo. Masiyikukhupha ibhere le-teddy emsebenzini. Unokuzifihla ngombhobho, ewe, ekhaya, kodwa ngosuku olukhanyayo luya kuba nefuthe ehlukileyo ngokupheleleyo - kufuneka uvume ukuba ufuna ukunyuka ungena emgodini ngenxa yalo, kodwa ngenxa yokudabuka nokudabuka. Imozulu embi yenza ukuba kube lula ukucinga ngento enjani. Kuqhelekile ukuba indoda ifuna induna efudumele nefudumeleyo. Nangona kunjalo, alas, amathuba ombhoxo awanamkhawulo. Iyanciphisa ukubonakaliswa kobukhulu, kodwa ayiyikuyilahla.

Esikhundleni sokumboza ngengubo, kungcono ukutyelela okanye ukuhamba, okanye ukumema umntu omaziyo kumbe yetiyi.

Ukuqonda ngokuvisisana
Ngamanye amaxesha uthando lwemimoya embi luphawu lwesifo sengqondo okanye nokudandatheka. Kwamazwe aneenguqu ezichaziweyo zonyaka, njengaseRussia, oogqirha banokunyuka kwinani labantu abadabukileyo, entwasahlobo nasekuseni kwehlobo. Kubonakala ngathi yonke into kufanele ibe yinto echaseneyo. Ukuba umntu unemimoya embi, ke imozulu efanelekileyo kufanele ikulungiselele. Ilanga likhanya, iintaka zicula, iibhotela zibaleka, iintyatyambo zivumba, zihamba-ziyancwina - akunakulungiswa na oku? Ewe, abaninzi abantu bayonwabile ngayo. Abo banesimo esibi sengqondo - ngenxa yesizathu esithile kwaye kungekhona ixesha elide. Ukuba iyancitshiswa ixesha elide (ngaphezu kwenyanga), ke imozulu efanelekileyo yongeza i-fuel emlilweni. Ukwahluke kakhulu phakathi kobuso bangaphakathi kunye nento ejikelezayo. Kwenzeka ukuba abantu abanjalo abazange bayeke ikhefu iintsuku eziliqela kwaye bavale amakhethini ngokugqithiseleyo, ukuba bangaboni oku kumnandi. Kwaye kwimozulu embi kuba lula. Kukho imimandla yomsebenzi, unxibelelwano, nokuba uphuhliso luphuculwe. Eli lizwe akufanele lihlale lingakhange linyanzelwe. Akunako ukuhamba ngokwalo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda indlela zonke zaqala ngayo kwaye zicwangcise ukuphuhliswa kweemeko, ukudweba i-hapli ekupheleni. "Ukulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi, ulwaphulo-mthetho, ubudlelwane obunzima kunye nezihlobo, iingxaki zemali - akumangalisi ukuba ndinomnotho ngoku, mhlawumbi ndiza kubakho kwimeko embi kakhulu kwiinyanga ezimbalwa, kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba yonke into iya kubuyela ekwindla."

Ukuhla kwexesha elide akufanelekanga. Kubalulekile ukuqonda, oko konke okuye kwaqalwa kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ukucwangcisa uphuhliso oluphumeleleyo lweemeko.

Ityala xa kuthelekiswa
Abemi bezixeko ezinkulu abanenkinga yokukhathazeka kwemizwelo ehambelana nemimozulu, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kuneendawo zasemaphandleni. Kwaye nangona kunjalo ukuba bajamelana nesimo sezulu esingaphantsi kwaye bakhuselwe kakuhle kwiimeko zalo. Kodwa kuvela, kwesi sizathu. Abemi abaziveleli izinto ezimbi kuphela, kodwa nabo bazintle. Ngaphantsi nibone ilanga, ungaboni i-sunsets, ungalivumi iphunga lezityalo. Abanalo ixesha lokufumana yonke into abayifunayo kwiimeko ezifanelekileyo zemozulu, ukuyivuselela ngamandla. Ngako oko, baxhalabisa kakhulu ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kwayo. Indlela kuphela yokuphuma ukutyelela uluntu ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye uzilungiselele ikona eliluhlaza kwifestile.