Impembelelo yenkcazelo yamanqaku kwiimbono zehlabathi ngamehlo yintsana yenye yezona zihloko ezibalulekileyo zengxoxo ngabazali abatsha. Yiziphi iindaba zeenkcukacha ezikhethekileyo? Okanye mhlawumbi abantwana abasemasemini abayidingi iifestile? Ziyintoni ukusetyenziswa kweenganekwane? Ngaba kubonakala ngathi kunzima kakhulu kubantwana bethu? Mhlawumbi iindaba zobomi malunga neBolobok zisekho festile? Siza kukunceda ukujongana nayo yonke le micimbi, ewe, eqineni, ikunqoba.
Siyakwazi ukuqinisekisa impembelelo emihle yenkcazelo yamanqaku kwimbono yehlabathi ngamehlo omntwana. Ngamnye wethu ukhumbula indlela ugogo nomama basifunde ngayo ebantwaneni benkwenkwezi. Silindele ngovakalelo olukhethekileyo kulo mzuzwana. Ibali laqala, kwaye siye kwilizwe elingaziwa. Vumelana nokuba bambalwa bethu, ngoku, xa bekhulile, baya kukhumbuza ubuncinci besahluko seenganekwane ezivelele ebuntwaneni. Ngamanye amaxesha uya kufuneka usebenze kanzima ukukhumbula ibali le-story story.
Kodwa into eyona nto ayiyona nto. Ukususela kwiindumiso zenkcubeko siye safumana inkokhelo enjalo yamandla enamandla, ezininzi ezinkumbulo ezifudumeleyo esiza kuzinzela ukuba sizenzele abantwana bethu. Kwaye ukuba uqale ukwenza oku kuyinqweneleka sele sele isondele "ukususela ekuzalweni". Ewe, ukuba umntwana wakho uneminyaka engama-1-4 ubudala, akayi kukwazi ukuthatha itekethi kakuhle.
Kodwa umyalezo wenkcazelo yamanqaku kwinqanaba elincinane lomntwana ebomini bakhe kukuba iindaba zakhe zifundisa ukuphulaphula. Uhlala unina okanye ugogo ngamadolo akhe, uphulaphula amazwi awanakuqondakala kuye, amabinzana. Kodwa sele sele evakalelwa kukuba ithambileyo, ithambileyo yezwi lakho. Ingane iyaqonda ukuba incwadi oyibambe inika ukufudumala, uvuyo.
Kungekudala umntwana akayi kukuvumela ukuba uhambe uze ufunde enye indaba yefriythi. Kwaye oku akubi nhlobo. Ngoko inzala yakho iqala ukulwa nolwazi, uyayazi ihlabathi elikujikelezile. Kungekudala uza kuqala ukuphinda, athobise emva kwakho amazwi atholakala kwintetho. Kwaye nangona kamva, uya kukuchazela ngelixa ephukile ulwimi, yintoni imfihlakalo efuna ukuyiva.
Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba kwinqanaba lokuqala kufuneka ufunde iindaba zeentlobo zobubele kuphela. Ngaphandle kwezinto ezimbi, ezimbi. Kucacile ukuba inkcazo yamanqaku isoloko ihamba kakuhle. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ekuqalekeni umntwana ufumana ubuninzi beemvakalelo ezintle. Umbuzo wobuhle nokubi kufuneka ugcinwe kwinqanaba elizayo lophuhliso lomntwana.
Ukufunda ibali leenkcukacha, uhlakulela ukucinga kwengane. Kungekudala uza kufuna ukuthatha abantu abathandayo. Mhlawumbi, kuya kubakho iimilo ezimbini kuphela, iingcamango ezingaqondakaliyo, kodwa inkunzi yakho iya kuqiniseka ukuba amaqhawe endalini abonakala ngokufanayo. Kwaye kubi?
Inkcazelo yamanqaku ivumela umntwana ukuba ahlole ngokulula iingxaki ezikhoyo. Iingxaki zeprojekti yomntwana kwiimeko ezimnandi, kwaye ufumana ithuba lokujonga iingxaki ezivela ngaphandle. Kungenzeka ukuba umntwana uya kufuna ukufana nabalinganiswa bendatshana yamanqaku abenza imisebenzi ephakamileyo, efanelekileyo. Oku kuza kuvelisa iimpawu ezintle kumntwana wakho. uthatha umzekelo ukusuka kuAlyonushka, i-Ivanushka. Ngoku, awukho nje umzekelo oyimodeli. Ngoxa ejikelezwe kuphela ngabantu abasondeleyo. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza, kwihlabathi lakhe elincinci lahlasela abantu abalungileyo. Nantsi enye incedisi engenakuxhaswa kumama - inqaku lomntwana.
Inkcazelo yamanqaku yindlela yokuphuhliswa kumntwana wokuqonda okucacileyo kwehlabathi langaphakathi labantu. Ngokuncediswa kwezifaniso, i-allegory, uqala "ukuqonda" abantu ngokukhawuleza. Ngoku asikho nje i-fox ingaba nobuqili, kodwa kunye nolunye uhlobo lomntu. Ingane iyazi ukuba ukuhaha kungekhona nje kuphela ingcuka kungakhokelela entlekele. Indoda encinci kunzima ukuyiqonda ihlabathi elikujikelezile. Kwaye ngeendalana zamagama - ukwenza kube lula.
Khumbula ukuba iindaba zamantombazana aziyindlela yokuzonwabisa yokuchitha ixesha. Bonke ubulumko behlabathi, onke amava okuphila ahlanganiselwe kuwo.
Njengoko uyakubona, impembelelo yale ngxelo ikhulu. Ungalibali ukulifunda rhoqo kubantwana bakho, kungekhona nje ubusuku.