Enyanisweni, isambatho somtshato somtshakazi ngokumalunga namathathu ngoku akunakunzima ukufumana. Ngaphezu koko, ungakulibali ukuba eYurophu ukutshata xa useneminyaka engamashumi amathathu - oku kuyinto evamile. Kukho abatshatileyo, unokuthi, i-dime ishumi elinanye. Kwaye, abaqulunqi bavelisa iindidi ezahlukeneyo zokugqoka. Iingubo zokugqoka zabafazi bethu zikhoyo. Emva kwakho konke, nokuba uneminyaka engaphezu kwemashumi amathathu, oku akuthethi ukuba akufanele ukhangeleke kakuhle kwaye ubuhle. Ngoko ke, ukuba abafazi abanjalo baninzi izambatho. Abayili beefashion bahlakulela zonke iintlobo zokugqoka kunye neengubo. Ezi zangasese zangasese zitshatyalaliswa ngokwasemthethweni kunye nobuhle. Kwaye malunga nabo, siya kuthetha ngoku.
Kodwa okokuqala, khumbula ukuba ukutshata ngeminyaka engamashumi amathathu akuyihlazo. Emva koko, ngeli xesha lobomi ibhinqa lenza isigqibo ngokwabo, lisikhokelwa yintliziyo yakhe kuphela, kodwa nangengqiqo. Ukongezelela, ngeli xesha le ntombi ibenezokhuseleko loluntu nakwezemali, ngoko akayi kucinga ngecala lezemali lomtshato. Ewe, ufuna umntu ukuba azuze kakuhle, kodwa, kwimeko apho, uyazi ukuba unokuzixhasa. Kakade, xa bekukholelwa ukuba iminyaka engamashumi amathathu-inesidima kakhulu. Kodwa, musa ukulibala ukuba ngelo xesha amantombazana anikwe umtshato kwiminyaka elishumi elinesithathu okanye elishumi elinanye. Kwaye, ukuba babengenayo igazi elimnandi, kwakufuneka benze umsebenzi onzima, ngoko bebaneminyaka engamashumi amathathu bebekhulile.
Kodwa, ngoku kungenye ixesha. Amantombazana amaninzi aneminyaka engamashumi amathathu, aziva eselula, encinane. Ngoko ke, ukutshata kule minyaka, awunakuze udibanise. Ekugqibeleni, yile shishini lakho kunye nobomi bakho, ngoko akukho mntu unelungelo lokuligweba.
Ngoko, imuphi umfanekiso womtshakazi ongcono ukukhetha kunye nokugqoka ukuba ukhethe le mi bhiyozo enhle? Ewe, kukho iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa ke, okokuqala, makhe siqale ngokugqiba ukuba yiyiphi imodeli yanamhlanje, kwaye, njengoko sonke siyazi, yonke inyanga inquma imigaqo emitsha nemitsha. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, namhlanje imfesane yomtshato iyanele ngokwedemokhrasi. Yingakho unokwenza ngokukhululekileyo nangokuzenzele uxolo ngemibhiyozo eyahlukeneyo, apho kwaye uthabathe ingubo ethile. Ngoku kukho iindlela ezininzi zomtshato ezahlukileyo, apho ungakhetha khona okuya kulungeleka kuwe. Umzekelo, abanye abantu bagubha umtshato kwizithethe zabantu. Enyanisweni, kuhle kakhulu, kuba inkcubeko yabani na abantu ithwala imimiselo enomdla kunye nemiqondiso, kuboniswe kwimpahla. Ngoko ke, ukuba ukhetha nayiphi na inkambiso yendabuko yomntu kwaye ulungiselele umtshato wonke ngendlela efanayo, izambatho zakho ziya kulungeleka. Ukongeza, kuphela ngokufumana amava obomi, siqala ukuqonda inkcubeko kunye nembali. Iingubo zabantu ziza kugxininisa kungekudala, kodwa ubulumko bakho namava.
Kwakhona, unokwenza umtshato ubhalwe phantsi kwemashumi amabini okanye emashumi amathathu ekhulwini lokugqibela. Iingubo ezinjalo ziya kubonakala zizintle kwaye zihle kakhulu. Phakathi kweempawu zokugqoka zeso sihlandlo, intombazana nganye iya kukwazi ukukhetha ngokuchanekileyo. Kakade ke, ungakulibali ukuba, kule meko, zonke iindwendwe kunye nabasetyhini nabo kufuneka baphonywe ngokufanelekileyo. Ngaphandle koko, umgubho womtshato awuyi kujonga kuqala, kodwa umhle. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokukhetha ukhetho olunjalo, usenokugqiba ukuba ngaba kulungele ngokupheleleyo kuwe nokuba ngaba iindwendwe ziyakwazi ukuza ngqo kwizinto eziya kubakho, okanye kungcono ukukhetha umtshato wesintu kunye nesambatho somdabu.
Ngendlela, abanye abafazi bakholelwa ngephutha ukuba abanakukhetha ukugqoka umkhwenkwe omtsha onxibayo. Enyanisweni, oku akukho konke. Udinga ukukhokelwa kungekho ngcamango malunga nobudala bakho, kodwa iimvakalelo zakho. Ukuba uziva uneminyaka engamashumi amabini, ke ungazami ukuba ube ngumdala kwaye unzima. Kakade, i-kink intonga ayifanelekanga. Xa ukhetha iingubo, khumbula kwakhona ngeenkcukacha zakho zangaphandle. Zama ukukhetha ngokuthe ngqo isitazi esiza kusigxininisa ngesithunzi sakho. Ngendlela, ungacingi ukuba ingubo yomtshato ifanele ibe ne-crinoline kunye neengubo ezininzi. Imodeli yanamhlanje ineendlela ezahlukeneyo ezahlukeneyo. Abantu abaninzi sele bezama ukukhetha iingubo ezinjalo, ezo zisetyenziswe njengengubo yokuzila ngokuhlwa. Kwakhona, awudingi ukuthenga ingubo emhlophe. Kukho imizekelo emininzi yee-shades ezahlukahlukeneyo, ezibomvu, ukhilimu, ikhofi. Phakathi kwazo zikhona iimpahla ezifanelwe ngumfazikazi oyinyaniso.
Kwakhona, enye ingxaki kubatshatile i-30 ibe ngumkhusane. Inyaniso kukuba bayayazi: oku kuyimfanelo enyanzelekileyo yengubo yomtshato. Kodwa, ngelo xesha, abafazi abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba abafanelekanga ukugubungela isigqubuthelo ngelixesha. Yintoni enokuyenza kule meko? Enyanisweni, akufanele ucinge iingxaki ezingenasidingo kunye neengxaki zakho. Imfashini yanamhlanje sele ishiywe ikhefu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abaninzi abafazi bayambhinqa, kuba le mfanelo yendabuko. Kodwa, ukuba awufuni umnqamlezo, ngoko ungasebenzisa ngokukhuselekileyo isithsaba okanye imihlobiso emihle kwiintyatyambo kwizinwele zakho. Ndi kholelwe. Abayi kujonga ngaphezu kwesigqubuthelo, banike umfanekiso wakho ubuqili kunye nobuhle.
Enyanisweni, ukuba umtshakazi ungaphezu kwama-30 kwaye unomfanekiso omhle, unokuthenga nayiphi na ingubo. Yonke imitshato yomtshato ihlala ngokugqibeleleyo kumanqwanqwa aqinekileyo kunye namanqatha amancinci. Ewe, xa uthe wazibonela iimpazamo, gqoka iingubo kunye neengubo zamahhala. Ungazami ukuzinzisa kwi-corset, ukuze ungakwazi ukuphefumula yonke inkolelo. Kungcono ukhethe ingubo yamahhala apho uya kujonga imvelo kwaye uzive ukhululekile.