Masicabange malunga nokuqala ngeengubo zakho zexesha elizayo. Kukho umgaqo omnye omnye - i-tab: umbala omhlophe wengubo uvumelekile kuphela kumtshakazi. Lo ngumthendeleko kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba umtshakazi uya kuba nomsindo gqitha ukuba ungumhlobo ongcono kakhulu, eze kumthendeleko wobomi bakhe egqoke imhlophe kwaye uzame ukumcima. Musa ukuzingca, ncedise umhlobo wakho ukuba abe njengendawo ephakathi kwendalo yonke!
Kwakhona, musa ukunyusa ukugqoka kwengubo emnyama. Awuzanga kumngcwabo. Uhlobo oluhle kakhulu luyilo okanye isambatho sombala oqaqambileyo. Apha ungabandakanya ukucinga kwakho kwaye ukhethe umthunzi wengubo yombala oza kugxininisa isidima sakho sonke.
Ngomtshato ngamnye, iindwendwe ziyanyanzelekile ukuba zithathe inxaxheba kwimincintiswano eyahlukeneyo. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ugxume, ugijime okanye udonse i-twist. Ngoko ke, qwa lasela iinqwelo eziza kuzinxiba. Apha unako ukucebisa okukhethwa kukho ezimbini: ingaba izicathulo ezikhululekile ezinezithende eziphantsi, okanye uthathe nawe utshintsho lwezicathulo, onokuzigqoka xa uthatha inxaxheba kumncintiswano.
Ukucinga ngombuzo wento enxiba ngayo umtshato wentombi, kwaye xa ukhetha iigrafu, khumbula ukuba akufanele ukhangele njengomthi weKrisimesi. Bonisa ukuba unomdla. Kwaye, izixhobo, kunye neengubo kufuneka zikhethwe ukwenzela ukuba zidibaniswe ngokupheleleyo kunye nezindlu zangasese ezikhethiweyo.
Ikhumba lesibini lomfazi liqhumiso lakhe. Ukukhetha iphunga lesiganeko esibalulekileyo njengomtshato womhlobo ongcono, akukho miqobo. Kukho "kodwa": ungasebenzisi kakubi ngemali. Ndicinga ukuba wena ngokwakho akayi kukhululeka kakhulu ukuba ukuvumba kwakho kwamatye kuya kuphazamisa zonke i-aromas zezitya ezifanelekileyo kunye, kunye nabamelwane etafileni baya kutshintsha indlela yakho, badibanise iintonga zabo. Ingqwalasela enjalo kumntu wakho ayiyi kukuvuyisa.
Enye into efunekayo emtshatweni ngumkhonto onokukufaka kwisikhwama esincinci. Umtshato uyisiganeko esibambileyo kunye esibalulekileyo ebomini babasandul 'ukutshata, izihlobo zabo nabahlobo. Ngexesha lomthendeleko, kwenzeka ukuba awukwazi ukujamelana neemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo eziphazamisekile-kwaye ukhale. Kule meko, uya kuza kuncedwa ngumthi owenziwe ngaphambili.
Ukukhetha ingubo yomcimbi womtshato kunye nekhanda, ukuthabatha imihlobiso, khumbula ukuba yonke imini xa umtshato uhlala, wena kunye nazo zonke ezinye iindwendwe ziza kubakho kwiikhamera kunye neekhamera. Ngoko ke, ngokuqwalasela ngokukhethekileyo nokucokisekileyo, sondela kumbuzo wokubonakala kwakho. Ngoko kamva, xa zonke iifoto zilungele kwaye zihlakazeka ezandleni zabo bonke abakhona emtshatweni, akufuneki ukuba udibanise ukubonakala kwakho ngokungakhathali.
Ukuba, ngomtshato womhlobo wakho omhle, unendima yobungqina. Emva koko, ingubo yomcimbi wesiganeko kufuneka kwakhona ikhethiweyo ingabi mhlophe kwaye ingabi mnyama. Isitala seengubo zamangqina kufuneka sidibaniswe nesitayela seendleko zabasanda kutshata. Kodwa, iingubo zakho, amangqina amathandekayo, akufanele akhanye ngaphezu kokugqoka umyeni nomyeni wakhe.
Ukuba uyamenywa kwinxaxheba yobungqina, ke qiniseka ukuba uzisa isikhwama somlomo kunye nompu ococekileyo kuwe kunye nomtshakazi; ihekhi, kuphela kwiikopi ezimbini; xa kunjalo, thabatha kunye namachiza aya kunceda ngeentloko okanye ngeengxaki zesisu. Njengoko uyazi, ubungqina sisandla sokunene somtshakazi, ngoko ukuba umfazi wekamva aneengxaki ezinxulumene nokubonakala okanye imeko yezempilo, kufuneka uhlale ukhona.