1. Ukukwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo.
Amantombazana amancinci angakwazi ukufumana izinto ezinqabileyo, Amadoda athambekele ekuxoleleni izinto ezinjalo kuphela xa zonke ezi zinto zingabangelwa kukungazi. Xa umfazi okhulileyo enomdla, njengomntwana osemtsha, oku kuyamangalisa, ukuthetha okuncinci. Ukuba kukho inzala phakathi komfazi kunye nendoda, kufuneka ixhaswe, kodwa ezinye iimvakalelo zakho kufuneka zilawulwe. Isiphumo esona sisisombululo esinengqiqo sokungabi nandaba nokungavumi, kuba abantu basoloko bezingela, abanomdla wokuxazulula iingxaki kunye nokufezekisa.
2. Phila ubomi bakho.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba ngokukhawuleza xa indoda ibonakala ebomini bombhinqa, akukho ndawo iphela kuyo yonke into. Amadoda athatyiswa yile ngqalelo, kodwa ingaba yeso sizathu sokuba iintsebenziswano zingayi kude. Ukususela kwiminyaka ethile, ukuxhomekeka, nokuba nemvakalelo, kuxabiswa kuphela kubantwana, ngokunjalo abafazi abavuthiweyo akufanele babhekane nabantwana.
Mhlawumbi unomsebenzi, abahlobo, izinto zokuzilibazisa kunye neengxakini eziye zahlala kuwe ngaphambili. njengoko indoda yabonakala. Ungazami ukuchukumisa ngokupheleleyo zonke izinto kwimvelaphi, ungatshintshi indlela yokuphila eyakhethiweyo. Kungcono ukuchitha ixesha ochitha kunye kunye. Ngoko awuyi kudinwa omnye nomnye ngokukhawuleza. Ukongezelela, ikhefu elincinci liluncedo kuba awuqapheli iimpazamo zomnye uze ufumane isithunzi sakho esibaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
3. Jabulela ubomi.
Abasetyhini abaninzi baphikisa ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba novuyo kwaye yedwa ngexesha elinye. Kodwa abantu abanobuhlungu abangenabuhlali bembalwa ngabantu abanomdla. Akunabo bonke abantu ebunzulu bomphefumlo abanamaqhawe okulungele ukugcina amantombazana amahle ekuthinjweni kweemvakalelo zabo ezimbi. Zigweba wena, ubeka phi na ukuba ukhangele abo babonakala ngathi ukuba zonke izifo zehlabathi ziye zawela kuye? Yaye ukuba uyayenza, ufuna ukumyeka ebomini bakho? Uninzi cishe akunjalo.
Ukuba uvuyiswe into onayo, kodwa kungekhona ukutshintshwa kwezinye iinguqu ebomini bakho, uya kujonga ngakumbi kunokuba ukuba yintsimilelo kuphela yobomi bakho iya kuba nobudlelwane nomntu othile.
4. Beka umgibe.
Ukuba ibhinqa kunye nendoda inesihawu kunye nesithakazelo ekubonweni kokuqala, oku, oku, kuyamangalisa. Kodwa akuhlali kwenzeka njalo ngaloo ndlela, ngokuqhelekileyo umntu ubonisa umdla. Ibhinqa elinamava linamathuba amaninzi ukutsala ingqalelo. Ukuba umntu ubona ukuba unomdla komnye umntu, uya kukunyamekela nangona ungenalo umdla.
Ngako oko, kukufanelekile ukumnxulumanisa nabo bantu bakufumanisayo, abanengqondo, abanetalente. Uninzi lweempawu zakho ezilungileyo ziya kubonakaliswa, ngakumbi ukuba uya kuqonda ukuba uyingqayizivele. Indoda iya kuvuyiswa kukuba loo ntokazi inika ingqalelo kuye.
5. Jonga phambili.
Zama ukubona kumntu onomdla kuwe, into ekhethekileyo. Beka ingqalelo kungekuphela kokubonakalayo ekuqaleni . Ewe, unako ukuqonda amandla kunye nokuphakama nokulungelelanisa, kodwa zama ukuqonda into efihla emva kokubonakala kwaye okokuqala okokuqala. Indoda iya kuvuya xa uqaphela kuye ezinye iziqhamo, ezikholelwayo, ezingabonakali kwabanye abantu. Zama nje ukuba ungabi ncinane.
6. Khangela into eqhelekileyo.
Indoda inokuba ngumfazi onomdla wobuphi na ubudala. Ungasondela ngokukhawuleza xa uthanda izinto ezifanayo, unomdla ofanayo, ukuba ulandela imigaqo efanayo kwaye ubeke iinjongo ezifanayo. Akuyimfuneko ukubandakanya kwibhola okanye kwiikhomputha ezifana nendoda, kodwa akukho zimbalwa ezinye izinto ebomini bethu ezinokubangela umdla kubo bobabini.
Kwinqanaba lokuqala lokwazisa ukwamkela kakuhle, apho ubonakala ukopisha ubuso bakhe kunye nesenzo. Oku kuya kunika umqondiso wokuthi "berry sex one".
Umfazi onamava usoloko eyazi ngesithunzi sakhe kwaye uyazi indlela yokukhohlisa umntu kumanethiwekhi akhe. Ngamnye unemfihlelo emininzi, esebenza kakuhle. Kodwa, mhlawumbi, akukho ndlela engcono yokutshata nanini na ubudala - kukuthanda nokuthandwa. Ukuba kukho ngaphezulu phakathi kwakho kunokuba nje uvelwano kunye nokubala ngokusekelwe kukufana kweembono, ngoko ubudlelwane banakho amathuba okuba yinto engaphezu komanyano wabantu ababini obusisiseko.