Kuphi ukujonga?
Kukho iindlela ezininzi. Ukuba phakathi kolwazi lwenu umntu usele usetyenzise iinkonzo zomntwana, ngoko unokumcebisa umntu, ngokubona kwakhe, ukuhlangabezana ngokupheleleyo nemisebenzi yakhe.
Ngoku kukho ii-arhente ezininzi ezibandakanyeka ekukhetheni kwabasebenzi bendlu. Khetha i-arhente enjalo oyifunayo ngokucopheleleyo-ingqalelo kwiindawo apho i-ofisi ikhona khona, ixesha elide i-arhente isebenza ngayo, ngokude siyazi ukuba luhlobo luni lokuhlolwa. Akudingeki ukuba ube ngumntu oyedwa, kodwa "iofisi ye-sharashka", malunga nokuba akukho mntu owaziyo kwaye yintoni evulekileyo inyanga edlulileyo ayilona khetho.
Abazali abaninzi bathelela kwiinkonzo zezizalwana. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kulungile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuhlawula akufunwa, okanye kuncinci kakhulu kunokuba kuceliwe ngumntu oqeqeshiwe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izalamane zivame ukuzivumela ngaphezu kwabantu abavela ngaphandle. Umzekelo, iimbono zakho ngokusondeza nokukhulisa umntwana aziyi kuqwalaselwa rhoqo, kwaye kufuneka ulungele. Kalula kuba ugogo okanye unina sele sele ephakanyisile inani labantwana kwaye uyazi kakuhle ukuba yintoni. Le meko yemicimbi ihamba kakuhle. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngale ndlela, unokuqiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyathandwa kwaye akayi kushiywa ngaphandle.
Ukuze wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo, thelekisa zonke iindlela ezikhethiweyo, xubusha ngesigqibo sakho kunye nomyeni wakho kunye nezihlobo, kwaye ulinganise zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki.
Yiyiphi na into enokuyenza?
AmaNannies ahluke. Kubantwana abancinci, abaneminyaka yabo engadluli kunyaka, musa ukulingana namancinane. Kungcono ukuba lo wesifazane sele ebenabantwana bakhe kunye namava amaninzi ekusebenzisaneni nabanye abantwana beli minyaka. Imfundo yezonyango idlala indima enkulu apha kunemfundo yezemfundiso, ekubeni abantwana abancinci badinga ukunakekelwa ngokufanelekileyo, kunokuba uphuhliso olubanzi. Kungenzeka ukuba, kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe ukuba umntwana adle kakuhle, alale kakuhle, ungaguli, kwaye uya kushiya ukuphuhliswa kweelwimi nomculo kamva.
Izingane zasesekondleni zidinga unina onokuzilungiselela isikolo. Uya kufikelela kumntu onamava kunye nolwazi lomsebenzi kwi-nursergart okanye kwisikolo saseprayimari. Umntwana oneminyaka emi-3 ukuya kweyesi-6 sele sele enomdla kwihlabathi elijikelezile, ukulungele ukufunda ulwazi olutsha olunjalo oluza kumnika lona.
Kubantwana beminyaka yobudala badinga umfana - utitshala okanye, ukuba umntwana uhlangabezana kakuhle nezifundo zakhe, ngumntu onobuhle onamava. Into eyona nto kukuba umntwana ulandelelana nomthwalo wesikolo, angakhathazeki kwaye angabi nongxaki, ngelixa edla ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ephefumlelweyo. Kwimisebenzi yeso sihlandlo ngokuqhelekileyo kubandakanya ukuhlola umsebenzi wesikolo, ukuhamba nomntwana kwizicaka kunye namacandelo, umbutho wokuzonwabisa.
Abantwana abakhulileyo abaqhelekanga. Ukuba awukhathali ukuba ushiye umntwana wakho wedwa usuku lonke, khangela umntu omdala kunomntwana wakho, ogunyazisiweyo lwakhe luya kubaluleka ukuze umntwana uphulaphule umfana, kwaye akayi kumbona njengemidlalo yokudlala ekwazi ukujikeleza ngokwengqiqo yakhe.
Mhlawumbi, enye yezona zihlandlo ezibalulekileyo kukuba umntwana ufumene ulwimi oluqhelekileyo ngokukodwa ngomntwana. Akukho ukufumaneka kwemfundo ehloniphekileyo kunye namava asebenzayo asemandleni akuyi kunceda ukuba umntwana angayithandi loo mntwana, ukuba awukwazi ukuseka umnxeba. Umntwana, mhlawumbi, uya kulungiswa kwaye aqeqeshe, kodwa akayi kuvuya nomntu ongathandiyo okanye oyikayo. Ngoko ke, ingqalelo nje kuphela imizwa yakho, kodwa nemvakalelo yomntwana.
Ulawulo.
Umongikazi kufuneka alawulwe. Ngoko uya kuziva uxolo, nangona kunjalo, oku kubalulekile de ukuzithemba kwakho kulungile. Unokuchitha iintsuku zokuqala kunye ne-nanny entsha ukubonakalisa ukuba uyintoni na indlela okwenza ngayo kule nto okanye ixesha lemihla.
Qiniseka ukuba ubiza umnxeba ngemini, ube nomdla kwinto eyenzekayo ekungabikho kwakho. Ngamanye amaxesha uya ekhaya ngaphambi kwexesha elindeleke ngalo. Ngoko uyakwazi ukubona ukuba ifana nenanti ikuxelela. Abanye abazali bafaka iikhamera ezifihliweyo kwiindawo zokuhlala ukuze kugcinwe i-nanny phantsi kolawulo. Le nto ifanelekileyo ukuba ungathembeli umntu ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nomntwana ukuba umntwana usemncinci ukuba akuxelele ngoko kwenzeka ntoni kuye ekungabikho kwakho. Ukubeka okanye ukubeka umongikazi kwesaziso sobukho befowuni enjalo endlwini - kuya kuwe.
Ukukhetha i-nanny, ungakhangeli i-ideal, umzobo kaMary Poppins. Umntu ongekho umntu uya kuba neentsilelo zakhe, omnye umntu, umntu omncinci. Iintsapho ezininzi zishiya imisebenzi yazo de kube umntwana ekhula, kuba abanakufumana umntu onokuthenjwa ngumntwana wakhe. Ukuba uvela kubazali, musa ukuzigxeka, jongela ixesha elichithwe nomntwana, kuba liya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza.