Iziganeko ezininzi ezenzekayo ebomini bethu zibonwa ngumntu ngamnye ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Omnye ucinga ukuba inhlanhla kunye nokufumana umphumo oyifunayo ngumphumo wokusebenza rhoqo kunye nobunzima, kwaye iziganeko ezigwenxa nezifo zibangelwa ukuziphatha okungalunganga kwaye kungeyona indlela ephilileyo yokuphila. Abanye babona kwisiganeko ngasinye umnwe wexesha okanye ubuncinane uphawu oluthile.
Omnye ngaphandle kokungabaza uyamkela yonke into emnika ubomi, kwaye omnye ufunda iimpawu ezungeze aze alinde isiganeko esibalulekileyo ebomini bakhe, engaqapheli ukuba uyadlula, kwaye yonke into enhle eyenzekayo kuye ngummangaliso omkhulu. Kholwa okanye ungakholelwa kwiimpawu kunye neenkcazo zexesha elizayo kukukhetha komntu wonke. Into ephambili ukumodareyitha, kwikholelwa enjalo. Kukho iziganeko ezinjalo ezitshutshisa abantu ukususela ebuntwaneni, abahlala bayiqwalasela, ngokuqhelekileyo uzikhumbula emva koko, xa zonke izinto sele zenzeke, kodwa zikhona kwaye akukho nto, kodwa, ukuba kunjalo, ukuhlala kuyo.
Ndiyakholwa-andiyakholwa
Ukukholelwa into ethile, kubandakanywa ebomini bakho, ekulungiswe ngokusisigxina, kufuneka ufumane intuition ephucukileyo. Akukho konke. Kulo mzekelo, kuyimfuneko ukuba ungakulibali ukuba ungayifumana njani isibonakaliso sokufa, eqinisweni, yingozi eyenzekayo. Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuba kukho imingcipheko yamandla kuMmandla kwaye ukuba iphulwa, kufuneka ibuyiselwe ngokukhawuleza. Ukuze umntu aqonde oku, i-Universe ngokwayo imthumela iimpawu ezizodwa. Omnye ubonayo, ukholelwa kubo, kwaye ulandela imiyalelo, utshintshe ubomi bawo nokubuyisela ibhalansi yamandla efanelekileyo kwihlabathi. Ukuba uzibona wena nomntu okholelwa kwisiphephelo, kwisilungiselelo sezinto zonke, kunye nezibonakaliso zexesha elizayo, ngoko ke into ebalulekileyo kuwe kufuneka ube namandla okubona uphawu lwakhe. Ukongezelela kakade kulula - ulandela nje yonke impawu, oko kuguqula ubomi bam.
Ukuba awuyithandi le nto kwaye ungazami ukubona nokubona iimpawu zexesha elizayo, ngoko unokuba ngumntu onokwenzululwazi okholelwa kuphela ngamandla akhe kunye nokukwazi ukutshintsha isigqibo sakhe ngokuzimela. Akukubi nakwezinye, mhlawumbi ikhulu kangangexesha elifanelekileyo ukugqiba yonke into wena kwaye ungakhange ukhangele emuva, ukudala ubomi bakho kunye ne-zhuruki yakho, kunokulinda uphawu olungenakuqondakala ngalo naluphi na. Abantu abanjalo, ngokungaqhelekanga, kulula ukuhlala kuwo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ufuna ukumenza umomotheka, kwaye ukumamatheka kwakhe, ngokufihlakeleyo, kukufihla kwiimpawu zexesha elizayo. Ndicinga ukuba inketho enkulu kakhulu kukubona zonke iimpawu, kodwa ukuzilandela okanye ukungabanokuzixazulula ngokwabo, ukungathembeki kwixesha elizayo kuyo yonke into, ukungabonakali kwimiba enjalo akuzange kubangele nantoni na.
Ngengozi okanye ithuba
Abantu abaninzi, bengakholelwa kwizibonakaliso, bakholelwa ukuba oku okanye eso siganeko siyinto ehambelanayo okanye udibaniso lweemeko. Kodwa ukuba iziganeko ezinjalo ziphindaphindiweyo ebomini bakho kungekho kanye, ngoko akufanele uwathathe njengengozi, mhlawumbi, indalo ifuna ukufikelela kuwe okanye ukuhambisa into ethile. Kukho iziganeko zobomi esicinga ukuba sele sele zifezekile ezi zifezekileyo ezifunekayo, kodwa ekugqibeleni kuvela ukuba le nto yayisilumkiso malunga nengozi ebalulekileyo.
Ngokomzekelo, ebomini bam kwakukho imeko xa isela lizama ukungena kwigumbi lethu, kodwa ndandethusa ngandlela-thile waza wabaleka, ngokungabi nantoni. Sonke sasicinga ukuba sasilumkele ukuphanga ngokuyisimangaliso, siqinisekisile iinqaba kwaye sazilibala ngale meko. Kodwa kudlula ixesha kwaye i-dacha yethu yaphangwa. Kwakuyimini efanayo kwintendelezo eyayingenayo inja yethu, esiyinike abahlobo bethu ngexesha lokuzingela. Kuvela ukuba umzamo wokuqala wokuphanga kwakukho uhlobo olusisilumkiso esivela ngasentla malunga noko kwenzeke ngokulandelayo. Yiyo le mpawu yexesha elikhoyo elinzima ukuluhlula kunye nokuqonda.
Uninzi kunokwenzeka, ebomini bomntu kukho iimeko ezinjalo, ukuhlela kunye nokuphawuleza ngokukhawuleza, enzima kakhulu. Sekude emva kwexesha, sibuyele emuva, siyaqonda ukuba le nto okanye loo mcimbi wawuphawulekayo ebomini bethu, kodwa emva koko sidlulile ngaphandle kokuqaphela kwaye singayiqondi into eyenziwa nguMoya. njani ukwazi?) kwenzeka kwixesha labantu abathandekayo abathandekayo abafowunyiwe. Ngokomzekelo, abantu badibana, bathandana, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, iindlela zabo zokuphila zahluka. Emva kweminyaka embalwa badibana kwakhona kwaye ngoku abanakulungele ukuvumela umhlobo ukuba ahambe ngonaphakade. Ngoku baqinisekile ukuba badalwe omnye nomnye kunye nentlanganiso yabo yokuqala, njengowesibili, akuzange kwenzeke ngengozi.
Yiyiphi indawo ebomini bethu ifanele ibe nemiqondiso yexesha elizayo?
Kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu aqonde ukuba iimpawu ezinjalo zikhona zize zibekho ngexesha, kwaye zenziwe, umntu okholelwa kuzo unokufumana imicimbi eqhelekileyo kunye neziganeko zesiganeko. Ukuba awugcini ngento yokuba le nto okanye eso siganeko ebomini bethu sithetha ngento ethile okanye icacisa indlela echanekileyo, ngoko uyakwazi ukwahlula ngokucacileyo i-omen yangempela esuka kwiingcamango. Kukho ebomini behla rhoqo rhoqo nawuphi na amanani, imihla yokuzalwa, amagama, amatyala okubuyela kwindawo enye, kwindawo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ubuninzi bezinto ezihambelanayo okanye izingozi ... bayazi? Mamela lo mntu uqala ngokubanzi emva koko, xa uthelekisa zonke iziganeko kunye kwaye uzisa umgca othile.
Iingcali zengqondo ziqinisekisa ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo abantu abakholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo kwixesha elizayo kunye nemiqondiso yalo bayesaba kakhulu ukuzimela ebomini. Abafuni ukwenza izigqibo ezibalulekileyo nezoxanduva eziya kuba nefuthe elibi ebomini babo, ngoko ke zama ukugxila kwiimpawu. Oku kubonisa ukungakhuselekanga kwabo ngaphakathi, malunga nokungafuni ukushiya umfanekiso "Ndingumntwana", nangona umntu ekhulile. Akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu omdala asebenze ngeenxa zonke ngamazwi avulekileyo kwaye akhangele ngeenxa zonke iimpawu zexesha elizeleyo kwaye azive. Akukho mntu uthi umntu akanakholwa kwiintlangano ezintle, iintlanganiso ezingalindelekanga kunye nabaqhelana nabo abangenakucelwa, kufuneka simele sikhokelwe ngumgaqo: "Nantoni na eyenzekayo, yonke into iyona nto ibhetele."