Uphando lwenziwe, ngokubhekiselele kulokho i-half-women women answer the question: "Yintoni esiyidingayo ukuze sibe nolonwabo?" Ngoko ke: ulonwabo xa umqeshi ukwandisa umvuzo wakho kwaye kubomi balo bafazi bahlala bevuya kwaye banoliseko. Inxenye yesithathu yabasetyhini belizwe bakholelwa ukuba ukuba babenomfanekiso osondeleyo kwimeko efanelekileyo, babeya kuba nolonwabo ngakumbi. Abafazi ababini kwi-5 baphendule ukuba ulonwabo ekhaya labo ngaphandle kwesixeko kwaye inani elifanayo labasetyhini bakholelwa ukuba ulonwabo alukwazi ukuba lube nolunye uthando. Kwakhona, abaninzi abafazi bavuma ukuba ubomi bentsapho bubaluleke ngaphezu kwesiqinisekiso sokuguga kunesondo esithandwayo, kwaye ukuthengwa kwempahla ebaluleke kakhulu kubaluleke kunokuba bajabule ngokushona kwelanga nomyeni wakhe. Ngaba kuvela ukuba imali iyasivuyisa?
Mhlawumbi oku kuyinyaniso, kuba nemali umntu uvakalelwa ngethemba kwixesha elizayo. Nangona ucela abahlobo bakho kunye nabaqhelana nabo kwaye ukhumbule ixesha elonwabileyo, ke inxalenye encinci yabo idibene nemali. Aba bantu baya kukuxelela malunga nexesha elinomdla ebomini babo njengokuqala kokubanga, ukuzalwa komntwana, ikhefu elingalibalekiyo kwii-Canaries. Ngokulula, ngezinye iinkalo waqonda ukuba ubomi buhle - ngenxa yeenkcukacha ezincinci. Ngenxa yoko sinokugqiba ukuba umntu ufanele aphile okwangoku kwaye angazikhanyeli izinto ezintle ezintle, aphile kwiminqweno, kwaye angayigxothi ukufezekiswa kwehlabathi elizayo.
Kukho uluvo lokuba iinjongo ezimbalwa ozibekayo ebomini, unonwabo ngakumbi. Ngeemeko zomzabalazo okhuphisanayo, onokukhawuleza, onamandla, onobuqili, onobuqili, onobuqili kwaye lowo oya kwi-gym ehlala esaphila. Ngenxa yalo mzabalazo oqhubekayo, izazinzulu ziye zagqiba ekubeni ezi zinto zixoshe abafazi bengonwabi. Unako ukufumana amaxesha amaninzi imali ngaphezu kweentombi zakho, kodwa awukwazi ukuba nesityebi kumgangatho womfazi we-oligarch kwaye oku kwenza ukuba intombi ixineke.
Ukuba uhlala ubeka iinjongo eziphakamileyo zezulu kwaye uhlala ungonwabi ngeziphumo, ngoko umfazi akayi kuvuya. Le nzondelelo kwiinjongo zayo yimibala emangalisayo, kodwa iphazamisa ukuzonwabisa ngoku. Abantu abonwabileyo yibo baqhuba ibhizinisi labo abathandayo kwaye baneliseka kwile shishini.
Iingcali ezininzi zeengqondo zicebisa, nangona kanye ngenyanga uhlala olunye usuku kwaye ungazami ukuziphika nantoni na, kuba uya kuzisola. Bayacebisa ukuba bangabi nomona ngeenkwenkwezi ezahlukeneyo, kuba abantu bekhangela inkwenkwezi baze baqhathanise nabo, banokuvakalelwa njengabaceli, batyebile kwaye bangonwabi. Yingakho sinomdla kubomi beenkwenkwezi, ukuqinisekisa ukuba zombini iinkwenkwezi zineziphene kwaye ngoko zwaneliseka.
Kukho imithetho e-4 ukuze ujabule:
1. Phatha kakuhle abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho kwaye ungawavumeli;
2. Zama ukufumana umsebenzi owanelisayo;
3. Ncedisa abo basenkingeni;
4. Musa ukulibala ukuba abantu abonwabileyo banokungabikho nto.
UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekileyo kwisiza