Inkululeko yokuqhuba
Ukuzalwa kwakhe kokuqala, umntu omncinci uya kuza ngokoqobo - enze amanyathelo akhe okuqala. Abanye abantwana bayayilawula olu buchule, phantse kwiinyanga ezili-8, kwaye abanye baqala ukuhamba ngeenyanga ezintathu emva kokuba baphendule ubudala. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka kwiintsana ezingenakubalwa kwaye zibuthathaka, kunye namafutha - ukunyuka ngokweqile kwakha umthwalo owongezelelweyo kwisimo se-musculoskeletal esinobuthathaka, ngoko ungagqithisi umntwana wakho! Kamva, amanyathelo okuqala athatyathwa iintsana ezisandul 'uhlobo oluthile lwesifo. Esi sifo sibonakala sisula ubuchule obunokufumana umntwana, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba umntwana abe namandla - kwaye ngokukhawuleza wenza ixesha elilahlekileyo. Ukongeza, oogqirha bezingane baqaphele ukuba iintsana, ezinamazinyo eziqhekekileyo ngokubambezeleka, ngokomthetho, unganyanga ukuhamba ngokuzimeleyo. Njengoko umkhuba ubonisa, umzuzu xa i-crumb ivele ngokukhawuleza ibe ne-incisors emininzi ngexesha elifanayo, ibuthathaka kakhulu umzimba wezingane kwaye ibaleke ngakumbi ukuphuhliswa kwekhono lokuhamba.
Ngethuba lokuqala umntwana ovuthwa ngayo isinyathelo sokuqala kuxhomekeke kwimeko kunye nomoya womntwana. Abanye abantwana bayenza ngesibindi, besibambe ngesibindi isandla, ngokunyanisekileyo bakhuliswa nguMama. Ukuwa nokuvuka kwakhona, uqhubeke nohambo lwabo. Abanye bahamba ngokucophelela, behlala befuna inkxaso, bathanda ukuthathwa ngedatha. Kwinqanaba lokugqibela lihlala liwa kesaryata. Abantwana abanjalo kufuneka bakhuthazwe ukuba bahambe ngokuzimela, bakhuthaze baze bazikhuthaze: makhe umntwana enze okungenani amanyathelo amathathu kumama, kodwa ngokwakhe, engenakho inkxaso! Ungesabi ukuba umntwana uya kulahlekelwa ukulinganisela kwakhe kwaye aphumele. Ukuphuka ukusuka ekuphakameni kokukhula kwanawo onyana akuyiyo. Kutheni kunjalo? Kwaye ukukhula kusekho mncinci, kwaye ubunzima buncinane ngokwaneleyo ukwenzela ukuba utyumpoze. Musa ukuyeka, ugijime kwindawo yokuhlangula ngobuso obukrakra, uyithabathe uze uyithabathe ezandleni zakho - olu hlobo lokuphendula luya kuthusa nje kuphela: uyagqiba ekubeni into eyenzekayo iyasongela, iyasongela, kwaye, yintoni enhle, iya kubuyela kwindlela yokuhamba yintsana-ehamba kwindlu. Kungcono ukuphelisa ingozi yangempela ngokulungiswa kwendawo yokujikeleza umntwana ohambayo, ukuze indlu ingabi ngumthombo wokulimala kwayo.
Ikhuseleko imithetho
Kukho izinto ezimele ziboneke ngokuqinisekileyo xa umntwana wakho eqala ukuhamba.
- Hlukanisa indlu kwiindawo
Vala umntwana ngokwakho ukufikelela kwindawo yokuhlambela kunye neyendlu yangasese (kula macumbi ngokuqhelekileyo uyasigxina, ungabetha kanzima kwinqanaba lebhabhati okanye emacaleni kwindlu yangasese), kwi-balcony nasekicini: kukho iimbuko, i-grinder yenyama, i-steamer, isitofu (apho kubonakala khona izimbiza zokubilisa) , i-microwave kunye nezinye izixhobo zendlu - kwiifowuni zakhe, i-crumb ngokuqinisekileyo iyafuna ukucinezela, amaqhina aphikisayo, afake iminwe yabo encinci emingxeni ... Akukho nto enokuyenza! Yondla umntwana ubhetele kangcono kwigumbi, kodwa ukuba ayinakulungeleka, qala ulungiselele kwaye ugubungele, uze ulethe imvumba. Ngokukhawuleza emva kokutya, mkhuphe ekhitshini: mxelele ukuba le ndawo iyidla kuphela!
- Gcina i-Rosettes
Beka kwii-stubs ezikhethekileyo (ezithengiswa kwiivenkile ezizodwa) okanye ukuhambisa izihlalo, iikhabhinethi kunye ne-sofas, ukufihla imithombo yangoku ekhoyo emva kwefenitshala. Musa ukulibala malunga ne-socket ye-dryer yezinwele kwindawo yokuhlambela kunye nabo. okwenzekayo kumatshini wokuhlamba kunye nezitofu zombane. Apha, ama-stubs ayilungiselelwanga, ngoko yeka imizamo yomntwana onokuzibuza ukuba awathathe ngokubamba ngesipuni okanye ummese kwi-doll. Umntwana unomdla kuzo zonke iindidi kunye nezimbobo ezincinci, uzama ukuwahlola ngeminwe yakhe, atshaye into ethile kuyo - ingabandakanyi ithuba elinjalo!
- Vala i ingcango
Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana akayikuhambisa - akayidingi ukunqamla umunwe wakhe: enye yezona zinto zisoloko zilimala kwaye zibuhlungu kulo nyaka! Ngaphambi kokuba uvule okanye uvale umnyango, qiniseka ukuba akukho ncinane. Kwiingcango ze-lockers, kunye nabadwebi bee-nightstands kunye neetafile, kufuneka kwakhona ukubeka isitofu, okanye, kwiimeko ezinzima, ukuzisebenzela ngecala eliyingozi eludongeni. Ngaphandle koko, umntwana onomdla ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuzama ukufikelela kwizinto ezibhalwe kuzo zonke ezi zivulekileyo kwaye afune izinto. Ngomntwana, oku akunjalo ukugqithisa, kodwa umsebenzi wokuqonda, okufuneka asebenze ngenxa yobudala. Ngoko musa ukusibeka phantsi, kodwa uyishukumisele kwicandelo elikhuselekileyo: umzekelo, gcwalisa idrafti evula ngokulula ngezinto ezingenakonakalisa umntwana. ii-cubes, amathoyizi, iimvalo ezivela kwipiramidi, izitya zokudlala, iincwadi ezenziwe ngamakhadibhodi. Vumela konke oku kutshintshiweyo, ukuphosa nokubuyisela kwakhona.
- Fihla i intambo
Okokuqala kukho konke okuxhalabisa i-kettle kagesi! Njengoko umkhuba ubonisa, ukutshisa okukhulu kuyenzeka ngokweSikimu: umntwana usalula ngentambo, aguqula amanzi abilayo okanye isinyithi eshushu. Musa nje ukushiya ezi zinto kwindawo yokufikelela! Thatha i-teapot kwikona ekude kakhulu yetafile, apho umntwana ongenakukwazi ukufikelela khona. Gcwalisa indawo yokuhlamba xa umntwana elele okanye ehamba nobaba.
- Susa zonke izinto eziyingozi
Umzekelo, iinkcukacha ezincinci ezinjengamaqhosha, ubuhlalu, iimpawu (zonke ezi zinto zigqitywa lula, kwaye ziqhutyelwa empumleni kunye neendlebe zentshukumo elincinane), ukubhoboza, ukusika, ubukhali (izikrini, iinaliti, amacwecwe), ezinokuba zityhefu. Oku kulandelayo akubhekiseli kuphela kwiikhemikhali zendlu, ukuhlamba i powder kunye ne-nail polish. Musa ukulibala ukuba i-cactus okanye i-oleander tree, amaqabunga ayo abangela ubuthi obubi, ayikho indawo endlwini apho umntwana ekhula khona!
- Hlola intonga kwiphephethi
Kumele kube yinto emfutshane kwaye igqitywe kakuhle, mhlawumbi iya kuba semlonyeni womntwana, kwaye emva kwesisu! Kungcono ukulala phantsi emagqabini egqabileyo labantwana, kulula ukupheqa kumatshini wokuhlamba. Ukunciphisa abaqokeleli basothuli ngendlela yeetampu ezithambileyo, imilenze, amathoyizi atyebileyo (shiya ezinye zeentsana zakho ozithandayo, kodwa rhoqo uhlambe ii-1-2 ngeenyanga kunye ne-powder baby). Musa ukulibala ukuba zonke ezo zinto ziyimithombo yezilwanyana!
- Indawo ekhululekileyo
Umntwana ukhula ngokukhawuleza: yonke into engekho ubudala yakhe kufuneka ilahlwe ngendlela echanekileyo! Ukugubha phezu kwebala lokungadingekanga kunye nabahambahamba ixesha elide okanye iindawo zokurhweba, ungakwazi ukuwahlalisa imvumba ngokungahambiyo xa uyithwala ukulala emva kokuhlamba. Kwaye umntwana ngokwakhe, ehlala ehlaselwa kwizinto ezingadingekile, uya kuwela rhoqo.
- Gwengqa i ngqungquthela
Hlela ifenitshala ngendlela enokuthi umntwana angayibisi, okanye ukumbumbisa izinto eziphathekayo, ekugqibeleni, zikhutshwe nge-sofa cushions. Emva kokuba umntwana enomdla kakhulu, gcoba ibhokisi lokudlala phantsi kombhede ukuze umntwana angabikho kwiimbambo zakhe.
- Musa ukulahla unyango naphi na!
Hlola rhoqo xa wenza "ukuphicothwa" kwindlu yakho, ungabi namacwecwe okanye uhla etafuleni lakho kwicala lokulala, etafileni yekhofu kwindawo yokulala? Ngeke ube nexesha lokujonga emva, njengokuba i-crumb iya kuvula ibhotile kwaye ithumele okubhalwe kuyo ngqo emlonyeni wakho. Musa ukuzithemba kwi-designer ekhethekileyo, apho abadala abakwazi ukuyikhupha ngobunzima. I-poisoning ye-Passage enye yeendawo zokuqala phakathi kweengozi ezenzeke kubantwana ekhaya.Izinto eziyingozi kufuneka zingabikho kwi-baby. zokudla indlu vidiruyte. wasiphula ukwazi zinongqameko zayo, umntwana kuyenzeka ongenakushukunyiswa konke oko kuya kuba phezu kwetafile. Kulungile, ukuba uyasaphula kuphela yakho ivasi ozithandayo, mandundu kakhulu ukuba mixture warhoxa kuba phezu kwakhe, wamkela yintlama ubuncinane.