Ifilosofi yobudlelwane bomntu kwixesha

Umntu unomdla kakhulu ngexesha - akukho nto. Andizange ndive umntu ecinga ngexesha lakhe njengento exabisekileyo. Wonke umntu ucinga ukuba into enikwe yona, ngokulandelelana kwezinto, kufuneka kube njalo. Umntu akaqondi ixesha, ngelixa ixesha liqhubeka, umntu unokukhubeka kwindawo. Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngobudlelwane bethu kumaxesha. "Ifilosofi yobudlelwane bomntu kwixesha" - umxholo wendaba yethu.

Ixesha likhawuleza, umzuzu omnye nomnye awukwazi ukufumana kabini, asikwazi ukubona ixesha, kodwa sinokukuva ngokuguga okanye ukukhula, amava kunye nobulumko. Ixesha libaleka ngokungabonakaliyo, kubonakala ngathi, siya nje kwiklasi yokuqala, kwaye emva kwexesha abantwana bethu baya kwiklasi yokuqala, kwaye asiqapheli ukuba ixesha likhawuleza kangakanani, asiqapheli ukuba ubomi buqhuma phambi kwamehlo ethu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abanalo ixesha lokuthatha inxaxheba kulo. Ixesha kunye nobomi ngamagama amabini ahlukeneyo, kodwa axhunyiwe ngokukhawuleza. Esi sisithuba esabelwe kuthi sibe sisenzo, kungekhona ukuba sibe khona, kodwa sisenzo. Ubomi bunika ixesha lokuba senze ntoni okanye izenzo kunye nezenzo, kwaye ixesha lisinika ubomi, ngokukhawuleza xa ixesha liphela, siyafa.

Kwaye ke, luphi ubudlelwane bomntu kwixesha elinikwe lona? Omnye uphila ngexesha elidlulileyo, umntu ucinga nje ngekamva, engaziqondi ngoku, kwaye umntu uhlala kuphela namhlanje, usuku ngalunye ngolunye usuku. Umntu ngamnye unalo ifilosofi yakhe, kodwa nayiphi na into ebeyiyo, ngexesha elifuneka ukuba libe likhulu ngakumbi kwaye lixabise yonke imzuzu yokuphila. Kodwa ke kufuneka ufumane intsingiselo yegolide, khumbula ixesha elidlulileyo, ulinganise ikusasa kwaye uphile ngoku, ufumane yonke into kuyo. Kwaye umntu, eqonda ixesha elifutshane, ehamba ebomini, ezama ukufumana okanye ukufika ixesha elide, engaqapheli konke okukholisa ubomi. Ubomi kufuneka buzonambitha njengewayini, ubambe onke amanqaku enkcenkceshe.

Kwaye ke, ukuhlala ngandlela-thile kubalulekile, ube nexesha lokwenza konke, kwaye, ngaphandle kokuchitha ixesha. Unomangalo omkhulu ukuba abanalo ixesha lo, ke ngoko, umntu ufuna ukufunda ukudlala igitare, kwaye umntu ufuna ukwenza ukupheka, kodwa akukho nanye kukho konke oku. Ekhaya, imbewu, umsebenzi, abahlobo, ukufunda - umntu unako konke, kwaye umntu unayo kwiindawo. Ukuze wenze konke, into yokuqala kufuneka uceba usuku ngokuhlwa okanye kusasa kwintsuku, kwaye kulula ukuhlala, kwaye ixesha liyakwazi ukulondoloza ngokwaneleyo isifundo esinye. Isimo sengqondo somntu esicwangcisiweyo asikhululwanga ngokukodwa, ndenza isigqibo esinjalo, ndijonge abahlobo bam. Omnye uya kulibala into. Ngoku baninzi abaququzeleli abahlukeneyo, zombini kunye nephepha, iidayari ezithandwayo kakhulu - bhala phantsi okanye ufake into omele uyenze ngosuku olulandelayo, okanye yonke imihla, kwaye ungenze ngokukhawuleza olu luhlu, kodwa ukuze, ukuze uncede ngokukhawuleza bonke benza. Kwaye ke, ngoku uya kuba lula kakhulu, kwaye ixesha ligcinwe, kwaye izinto ziya kulungile.

Enye ingcebiso, musa ukuchitha ixesha lakho kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo engeyomfuneko, sichitha kuphela kwiiklasi eziza kuzisa iinjongo zangempela kwikamva lakho okanye kwiiklasi ezixhasa kwaye ugcine yakho ngoku. Iimnandi, eqinisweni, ziyinxalenye ebalulekileyo ebomini bethu, kodwa ezinye zazo azizenzi naluphi na uncedo, oko kukuthi, silahlekelwa ixesha lethu ngeze. Izinto zethu zokuzonwabisa ziyakwazi ukugcina yethu yangoku okanye ukudala ikamva.

Yintoni esiyichitha ixesha lethu? Yintoni esiyichitha ubomi bethu? Ngaba sinenjongo yokuba sifuna? Umsebenzi wethu uxhalabise kuphela ukubonelela ubomi bethu ngemali, ngaphandle kokufumana imali? Ndiyathetha ngelo njongo ebalulekileyo esiyinike yona evela phezulu. Ewe, eneneni, umntu unokukwenza oko wayethetha ukwenza kwaye enze imali. Ngenxa yoko, injongo yokuphila yinto yokuzonwabisa kunye nendlela yokufumana imali.

Le ndoda iyakhathalela ngokungafaniyo nexesha elenzelwe yona, engaqapheli ukuba uyabhekisela ebomini bakhe, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba wayiphathe njani, kunjalo kufanelekile, kuba kungekhona wonke umntu omele axabise ixesha labo. Yiba njalo, kungabi nciphisa ixesha, uyayixabisa, ngokuba ukulahlekelwa ixesha ngeze, silahlekelwa yinto ethile yobomi bethu.