Kodwa ukuba ufike kulo mvakalelo ufuna kuphela.
Kwaye uyakuthanda xa bathi, "Unokwenza! Uya kusinda! Uyabona, uya kuzikhwaza, ukhumbule le meko "? Xa singenasempilweni, xa isimo sengqondo singalunganga, ukuxinezeleka sele kudibanisa emnyango - kubalulekile ukuba uphathwe ngokuthanda kwabanye abantu. Bafuna ngokunyanisekileyo ukunceda, kodwa into ayisebenziyo enkulu. Ngoko, akunakunceda ukuyifaka kwaye uyibonise kwabanye. Ukwenza, ukuba yaba yinto ephawulekayo, kuyimfuneko kakhulu - kodwa njani?
Yintoni eyenzekayo ngoku?
Imoya - isiqwenga sokutshintsha. Ngamanye amaxesha sizibamba sicinga ukuba xa uziva ubi, ngoko uyaqonda ukuba kukho iintsuku ezilungileyo. Ngamhlanje ayikho imini. Nangona kunjalo, eneneni, ingxaki inzima kakhulu.
Imvakalelo yiphumo ngqo:
- sengqondo
- imeko yangoku
- xabiso lomntu
- lakhe ngumbutho
- imeko kwikhaya, kwiqela, kweli lizwe.
Kunzima ukuvuya xa ummelwane ufumana amahlanu ngaphezu kwakho. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndifuna ukuxhuma kwintliziyo - ngenxa yokuba intombi yam yazala intombi! Oku kubonakala ngathi iyinqanaba "lekhaya" le ngxaki. Kodwa oogqirha baqinisekisa ukuba sele sele sicinga malunga nokuba wenzeni xa uziva ungalunganga: okanye uyaqonda ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kulungile, okanye "ukulungisa" kwenye yeendlela zokuphila.
Ngokutsho kweengcali zengqondo, kwiminyaka engama-20 isizukulwana siya kukhula, esiya kukwazi ukuhlala ubomi obugcwele ngakumbi. Emva koko, "okuhle" kwethu kuxhomekeke kuphela kwizinto zangaphandle, kodwa nakwiimeko zangaphakathi. Yintoni enokuyithintela?
Umsebenzi Wabasebenzi
Sinyanzeliswa ukuba sinyamekele ukusinda, okusoloko kusijika kuthi sibe yizona zixhobo ezincinci.
Mi sebenzi
Umkhwa awukwenzi ukwenza imisebenzi embalwa elula ekuseni, ungahambi echibini lokubhukuda, kodwa ubuncinane ukuhamba okanye ukugijima kwibala lemidlalo elisondeleyo emva kwexesha elithile liza kuphazamiseka libe luvila, okungeke likwazi ukuphazamisa isimo sengqondo.
Iingqungquthela
Indlela yokuziphatha, ukungafuni ukuzama ezinye iintlobo zonxibelelwano, ukungabikho komdla kwabanye ngokukhawuleza kukhokelela ekungabikho komdla kuthi. Kwaye kuya kuthatha ixesha elide ukuphuma.
Umfanekiso weklinikhi: umntu ophilileyo
Iingcebiso zeengqondo zeengqondo, "ukuba zilungile", zilula. Ukuzaliseka kwabo, kwaye mhlawumbi ukunyamekela ukuba kulula ukuyifeza, kunokuba yinxalenye ebomini yobomi.
1. Okulungileyo-ngathi. Ngokukhawuleza xa sithuthela kwindawo "apha nangoku", siyayeka ukugalela kulo lu lolwandle lwezinto ezinokungqongileyo nakumntu omdala. Kwaye ukuba uqala kule nto, akudingekile ukuba ucinge kwaye "umoya" malunga nemicimbi, ukukhathazeka, ukuqokelela ukunganeliseki.
2. Impumelelo isengqondweni. Ukucinga ngempumelelo kuyinto enhle. Ukuba uyakhumbula ngokwenene into - kungcono ukunandipha amaxesha okuphumelela, kungekhona amaxesha okuhlazeka okanye ukutshatyalaliswa. Kwaye kungcono ukucinga ngekamva, ukwenza izicwangciso, nangona zingagqitywanga ngokupheleleyo.
3. "Yintoni le nto?" Ukwazisa lutshaba lokubandezeleka. Umntu oqhelekileyo akanakho ukuqonda ezininzi zeengcinga zabo zansuku zonke. Kodwa ukuba uziva uzibi, unokukhumbula kwaye uqonde oko kwenzekayo kwaye kulungile ukufumana izizathu zokubandezeleka okanye ukunganeliseki. Zilawula wena - unobtrusively, kodwa rhoqo.
4. U kucoca. Naluphi na, siyacoca ulwazi ngalo lonke usuku. Siyayiqonda ngeglasi yethu. Kuyingozi nje kuphela "ukubona ihlabathi ngeeplastiki zepinki", kodwa nokuba uzibeke "iziglasi ezimnyama". Zama iindlela ezahlukahlukeneyo zokudala i-mood, zibandakanya izihlungi ezilungileyo okanye ezimbi. Uya kuqonda ukuba oku kulula - oko kuthetha ukuba unesimo sengqondo.
5. Musa ukuchoboza! Cinezela ngokwakho kungabi nantoni. Ukuba iimvakalelo ezimbi zifikile, akunakwenzeka ukuba "ungacingi ngembongolo emhlophe," njengomfanekiso omdala osempuma. Zama ukutshintsha, zenzele wena-vumela imizuzu embalwa ukuziva oko ufuna. Yiyiphi "i-parrot" ebomvu ongathanda ukuhlala kuyo iiyure ezimbalwa engqondweni yakho? Yaye ukuba akukho nto ifika engqondweni, unethuba elikhethekileyo lokusebenzisa i-femlification yangempela-inaliti yimuphi na uhlobo, ukupheka, ukuhlamba, ukubeka izinto ngokulandelelana.
6. Musa ukushiya iimeko ezingapheliyo. Kunzima ukukhupha iinkumbulo ezicinezelayo: ukufa, ukuxabana, ukuhamba. Kodwa, njengommiselo, konke oku kuhlangenwe nakho, ukuba onke amazwi athetha, kwaye imeko "icatshulwa" kwisigqibo esinengqiqo. Kodwa ukuba into ayithethiwe ngokwaneleyo, ayenziwanga - ngoko ke iholide enhle kakhulu ingaphunyezwa ngcamango "Kodwa kuthekani ukuba andizange nditshintshe insimbi?" (Le nto isona sikhethileyo, inketho yansuku zonke).
Kwimeko ephosakeleyo, akukho mntu uphazamisa umntu ongekhoyo ukuba aziphendule ngeengcamango zakhe. Tshela abo bangasondelanga ngoku, yonke into endiyifunayo. Mamela, xolele kwaye uqonde.
7. Ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo! Ukuba unomsindo, ungonwabile, udidekile, usizi-zama ukubiza iingcinga zakho "ezimbi" neemvakalelo ezingafanelekanga kwiimeko zakho ezingqondweni. Ukuba kunceda, kodwa kubuthakathaka - ukuwagxotha. Poohayte kunye ne: "U-o-first-oy, ndingayifumana njani i-unstuck! Ndingenza njani, mna, ndihlwempu! "- kwaye unokulawula iimvakalelo zakho.
8. Phinda uphawule ukucaciswa kobudlelwane. Musa ukuxabana kwaye ungabonakali ubuhlobo ukuba wena okanye abathandekayo bakho bafumana iimvakalelo ezintle. Nceda ulinde.
9. Musa ukubonisa! Izinto ezininzi kunye namaqanda adliwa akufanelekanga. Ngako oko, ngaphambi kokuba ubeke amagama, iinjongo okanye iingcinga ezimbi zomntu kwi-akhawunti yakho (uze "ugaye" entloko yakho) - cacisa. Mhlawumbi liyinto emnandi kuphela, kodwa uyonakalisa isimo sakho sengqondo?