Ukuba umntu udala, kulula ukuba aphile ubomi

Ubuqili bubungakanani bezakhono ezahlukeneyo zomntu. Imeko ebalulekileyo yokwakha i-flexibility apho umntu akwazi ukucinga ngokungafaniyo, utshintshe imikhwa yakhe, uthathe ukujonga ngokutsha kwizinto eziqhelekileyo zobomi bemihla ngemihla. Ukuba izimvo zibonakala zingenakwenzeka okanye xa umntu ephazamise ukuphunyezwa kwayo, kuthatha kuphela ukuzithemba, ukucinga okanye ukucinga.

Ubuchule abukwazi kuba ngabantu abanetalente kuphela bezobugcisa: abaculi, abadansi okanye abaculi, kunye nabameli bazo zonke izakhono. Ukongezelela, ukucinga okubalulekileyo kuyimfuneko kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi. Imeko ebaluleke kakhulu yokudala ingcinga. Icandelo lobungcali bokudala lungahambi, kodwa inxalenye enkulu yalo ilandelwe ngumsebenzi namava. Amandla okudala aphuculwa rhoqo xa umntu eqeqesha idatha yakhe yemvelo.
Ukucinga ngokubalulekayo kuhlobo lokulinga lomntu ngamnye usebenzisa ukucinga kwengqiqo kunye nefantasy. Ngethuba lomsebenzi wokudala, iinkqubo eziliqela ezicingayo zicinga, kodwa umntu akayiqondi le nto, kuba ingqondo yakhe inokubona kwaye ibone kuphela ingcamango engundoqo kunye nengcamango.
Zininzi iindlela ezahlukileyo ezikhuthaza ubuchule (umsebenzi wokudala). Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu akaqiqi ukuba yiziphi iitalente azinayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ekufumaneni kwabo kunokunceda ityala, iimeko ezingavamile okanye kuthatha ubomi bonke. Ngako oko, akuyonto engacetyiswayo, ukusuka kwiminyaka emncinci, ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwimibutho eyahlukeneyo, ukhuphiswano, iziganeko ezibangela ukuchongwa kweetalenta.
Umntu osebenzayo kunye novelisayo ngokukhawuleza uyaqonda ukuba kulula ukuba anike, unikezela ngakumbi uvuyo kwaye uyaqala ukuba nomdla kuyo. Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobugcisa kunye nezobugcisa zingakwazi ukufundwa ngexesha labo lokungcebeleka kwimibutho ehleliweyo, iiklabhu. Nangona kunjalo, unokuzama kwaye ufunde indlela yokubumba izimbiza zobumba, udwebe, ufotoze, ucule kwaye udlale, ulungiselele, wenze imisebenzi, okanye ufunde ulwimi lwangaphandle.
I-arhente zohambo ziya kuba zinika iholide zokudala. Le yenye indlela eqhubekayo yokudala ubuchule. Kule meko, uhambo oluhle kunye nekhosi zihlelwe ngokufanayo. Abaxhasayo bokuphumla okusebenzayo kunye nesebenzayo baya kusebenzisa amathuba anjalo. Umntu obumbayo, ephumelele kwiziphumo eziphawulekayo kwindawo ethile yobomi, uyaqiniseka ukuba eli lizwe linokubaluleka kwamanye amanqanaba. Ukuphazamiseka kwi-profession, uyayitshintsha kwindlela entsha yokudala kwaye iyaqonda. Ukucinga kunye nezenzo zendalo kunokunceda ukwenza ezinye izibophelelo zomntu ebomini, ukususa uxhaphalo olusele emsebenzini, kwintsapho, ukuvuselela umsebenzi omtsha.
Ukuba akukho khothazo kwaye akukho nto igalela ekuphuhlisweni kwamakhono, emva kwexesha le talente ifa. Ngaloo nto, ubomi obungokomoya bubuthakathaka, ukunganeliseki kubonakala, ukulinganisela kwangaphakathi kuphukile, ukuphazamiseka ngokomzimba okanye kwengqondo, okanye ukudumala okupheleleyo kubomi. Ubunono bubonakaliso bomntu ngabanye, akahlali nje uvuyo, kodwa unika abanye. Uvakalelwa ngamandla. Umntu onetalente ulungele ukuchaza "mna" kunye neemvakalelo, ngakumbi uvakalelwa ngokuvisisana komzimba nomphefumlo.
Ngoko ke, ukuzama ukugqwesa kubaluleke kakhulu, kwaye kuyafaneleka ukuba "ukufihla" iitalente zakho phantsi komhlaba. Emva koko, banokuza ngokufanelekileyo.