Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali, xa bethetha ngokulungiselela abantwana esikolweni, okokuqala baqwalasele ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono zokufundisa (ukufunda, ukubhala, ukubala). Kodwa oku akuyona nto ebaluleke kakhulu. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukulungiselela umntwana ngengqondo. Kukho iinkalo ezintlanu zokulungela isikolo.
Ukulungelelanisa. Oku kubhekisela kumdla kwisikolo, umnqweno wokuya esikolweni, umnqweno wokufunda izinto ezintsha. Buza umntwana imibuzo embalwa: "Ngaba ufuna ukuya esikolweni?", "Yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu kuyo?", "Yintoni eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu?" kunye nezinye.
Ukuba kuvela ukuba umntwana uneengcamango ezinzima malunga nesikolo, ukuba ayinomdla kuye nokuba akhulume ngawo, kufuneka ucinge ngokucwangcisa ukulungelelanisa kwakhe. Zama ukwenjenjalo ukuba umntwana ngokwakhe afune ukufunda, kwaye akaye esikolweni, kuba nguloo nto uMama ayifunayo, kuba bonke abantwana bafunda.
2. Ukulungela ukulungela. Esikolo umntwana uya kudibana nesidingo sokwenza oko ufunayo, kodwa into oyifunayo. Kwaye ukuba akaqhelekanga kule nto, kuya kuba nzima kuye ukuba afunde ukuqeqesha, ukuthobela iminqweno yakhe kwimfuno yotitshala kunye neminqweno yeklasi.
Ukulungelelaniswa kweengqondo, isitokethi esifanelekileyo solwazi kunye neengcamango, ukukwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wengqondo. Njengoko uyakubona, oku akusiyo yodwa, kodwa nayo ibalulekileyo ebalulekileyo ekukulungiseni komntwana esikolweni.
Xa uneminyaka engama-6 ukuya ku-7, umntwana unesigama esibalulekileyo (ukuya ku-4-5, ngamanye amaxesha ukuya kumawaka angama-7 amawaka). Abaninzi bayazi i-alfabhethi, iinombolo, baqala ukufunda, bayazi ukubhala amagama ambalwa. Kodwa akukona ngisho nemali yale "mithwalo", kodwa amandla, umnqweno wokufunda, ukufunda izinto ezintsha.
Ixesha lokungapheli "kutheni?" - isigaba esiqhelekileyo ebomini bomntwana, kwaye abantu abadala akufanele baxubushe le mibuzo, nokuba ngaba bayayicaphukisa i-illogic yabo. Ukuba unomonde kwaye unakekele umntwana wakho ngaphambi kwesikolo, unokuphendula yonke imibuzo yakhe, wenza okungakumbi ukumlungiselela ukufundisisa ngokungathandeki kunokuba uzama ukuzama ukufunda iimvumi ezintsha kunye naye, kwinyanga ezimbalwa , amanani.
4. Ikhono lokuva nokuphulaphula umntu omdala, lawula imisebenzi yabo.
5. Ukulungelelanisa umzimba. Xa uneminyaka eyi-6, ukuqhelaniswa ngokusisiseko kwenkqubo yokulungiselela abantwana esikolweni sele kudlulile. Umntwana unokwenza imisebenzi ehlukeneyo yezemidlalo, ukunyakaza okusemgangathweni kakuhle. Impawu eziphambili zeemoto ziquka amandla, ubuchule, isivinini, ukunyamezela. Ngokuphathelele imfundo yempilo kunye nempilo, bonke abantwana bahlula ngamaqela akhethekileyo esikolweni kwimfundo yempilo: isisiseko, isilungiselelo kunye nekhethekileyo.
Enyanisweni, sele sele sele kubantwana bezilwanyana babesenxaxheba kwimfundo yezemvelo ngokubhekiselele kwimpilo kunye nezakhono ezithile kunye nezakhono, kuphela imithwalo eyahlukileyo. Kodwa ukulungelelana komzimba kwesikolo akubhekiselele kuphela kwimpumelelo kwimfundo yenyama. Ngethuba lokungena esikolweni, umntwana kufuneka abe nemilinganiselo ethile yobunzima, ukuphakama, umda wesifuba, inani elithile lezinyosi zamabisi, ezinye zazo sele ziqala ukutshintsha ukuhlala unaphakade. Kumele ukuba abe namandla athile ezandleni zakhe ukugcina ipeni okanye ipensela esandleni sakhe kwaye angakhathali ngexesha lokubhala. Ngalo nyaka uphucula imisebenzi yamalungu kunye neenkqubo ezahlukeneyo, kukho ukwanda kwimizimba yezihlunu ezinkulu, umthamo wokunyakaza okusebenzayo kumalungu amaninzi ukwanda.
Kwaye ukuba zonke iiparamitha ezichazwe ngexesha loviwo lomntwana zihambelana nedatha yamatafula esenza ngayo uvavanyo lophuhliso lomzimba, sinokufikelela kwisiphelo esiya kubaluleke kakhulu kumntwana - "ukulungele esikolweni". Ngoko, ndikulungele ngokwenyama, ngilungiselele ngengqondo, ndikulungele ukukhuthaza ngokuzithandela, kuluntu nangokwengqondo. Ukuba konke kunjalo, ngoko umntwana ulungele ngokupheleleyo.
Ingaba umntwana wakho uya kuthatha isikolo ukuba engaseneminyaka emithandathu ubudala?
Umthetho ngemfundo uthi ezweni lethu abantwana baqala ukufunda ukusuka kwiminyaka emithandathu. Kodwa ukuba unesiqiniseko sokuthi umntwana ulungele umzimba, ngengqondo, ngokukhuthaza, ngoko awukwazi ukwenqaba ukwamukela amaxwebhu. Iinkcukacha kumntwana emva kokuvavanywa ziya kudluliselwa kwi-RONO, kwaye ukusuka apho kuya kwiKomiti yeMfundo. Isigqibo sokugqibela siya kwenziwa nguMphathiswa wezeMfundo.
Yintoni oyifunayo ukuba uyakwazi kwaye uyakwazi ukuba umntwana angene kwibanga lokuqala?
• idatha yabo yepasipoti (igama lokugqibela, igama lokuqala, i-patronymic, usuku lokuzalwa, idilesi yasekhaya);
• ukugqiba ngeyure ixesha ukuya kweyure;
• Yazi amanani ukusuka ku-0 ukuya ku-9, ukubala ukuya kuma-20 kwisigxina esingaphambili nangasemva (xa ubhalisa kwii-gymnasiums ezithile zilawula i-akhawunti ngokulandelana kwangaphambili "ngenye");
• uyazi igama leempawu zonyaka, iintsuku zeveki;
• Yazi ukuba yiyiphi inqaku, umgca, i-angle ebukhali kunye nebala.
Konke oku kwaziwa kubantwana, abaqeqeshwe kwintsimi phantsi kwenkqubo ekhethekileyo ezinikezelwe ekunqumeni ukulungelelwa kwengane yesikolo. Kwaye ukufunda ukufunda, ukubhala, kunye nemilinganiselo ngumsebenzi wesikolo esiprayimari.