Umbono oqhelekileyo phakathi kwabazali
Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, kuthethwa ngokubanzi ukuba umntwana osemncinci ubhetele kwi-kindergarten ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu, ukuba kuthiwa ihamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye kulula ukulungelelanisa indawo entsha. Njengomthetho, abantwana be-nursery baneengxaki ezimbalwa xa besetyenziselwa i-nursergarten, kuba bambiza umama wokufundisa, bayayithanda inkulisa, kwaye bayavuya ngokuya apho. Kodwa kule meko, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba kubantwana abanjalo ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yokuncedisa ekhaya kunye nabazali kuphazamiseka. Oku akunako ukukhonza inkonzo enhle kakhulu ebomini babo abadala.
Ngoko ke, ukuba unethuba lokuhlala nomntwana wakho kwiminyaka emithathu ukuya emine, ungalilahli leli thuba. Ukongezelela, ukuzalwa komntwana wesibini - oku akusisizathu sokuthatha kwi-nursergenen senior. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, uqhagamshelwano olusisiseko phakathi kwabantwana luyisiseko esihle sokuba nolwalamano lwabo kwixesha elizayo.
Ukwenza isigqibo malunga neeklasi
Ukuba uqhubeka uxoxa, thabatha umntwana kwi-kindergarten okanye ungayi, ugcine engqondweni ukuba inkulisa ayiyena inyathelo elipheleleyo ekuphuhliseni umntwana. Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba, oku kuyimfuneko yokunyanzeliswa, echazwe kwiimeko zobomi. Ikhono lokuthetha noontanga kunye nokuzimela akukhulanga ngakumbi kwaye kwimiqathango yemfundo yasekhaya, kunye nokuphuhliswa kwengqondo, ukukhuphaza ngokubanzi kunye nentuthuzelo yengqondo kunye nokuthetha akuyimfuneko.
Ukuba uthe wagqiba kwibhunga lentsapho ukuba umntwana kufuneka ahambe kwintlobo yesibini ekwindla, emva kwexesha eliseleyo, zama ukuzilungiselela kunye nalo mcimbi.
Ukutshintshiselwa komntwana osemncinci ukuya enkulisa
1. Yeka ukhathazeka ukuba isigqibo sakho sele sithathwe. Umntwana akayidingi ukuyixhalabisa, ungaxubusheli iingxaki ezinokwenzeka naye. Thatha indawo yokuzimela.
2. Nika ingqalelo kwi-regime yosuku. Ngaphezulu kwehlobo, umntwana kufuneka avuselelwe kwakhona ukuze akwazi ukuvusa iyure nesiqingatha ngaphambi kokuba ahambe ekhaya. Ukuba umntwana wakho engalali emini, mfundise ukuba ulale yedwa embhedeni. Mfundise imidlalo. Imidlalo yeminwe kakhulu. Zama ukufundisa umntwana ukuba ahambe enkulu endlwini yangasese ngexesha elinye. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba aye kwindlu yangasese ngendlela encinci, kungekhona xa "ufuna ngokwenene," kodwa ngaphambili: ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, ngaphambi kokuya enkulaneni, ngaphambi kokulala.
3. Ngaba umntwana wakho unzima ukondla? Ngaba ngamanye amaxesha ufumana ukungabi nesidlo okanye ukhetho lokutya? Zama ukwenza ngokugqithiseleyo imenyu yomntwana wakho kwimenyu yontanga. Zama ukunciphisa umlinganiselo wekhalori wokutya, mhlawumbi emva kwexeshana kukhokelela ekuphuculeni kwesondlo sakhe. Ukuba izicelo eziphuthumayo kunye neetoni eziqinileyo ukutya yonke into kubangela ukuba umntwana abe nesisongela, ngoko sizathu esinzulu sokucinga ngetyelelo lomntwana kwi-kindergarten. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, abantwana abanesidlo esibi badinga ukuthetha nootitshala baze bamcele ukuba abe nesineke kunye nobumnene kulo mbandela. Iingxaki eziqhelekileyo ngokutya kukuba isizathu sokuba iintsana azifuni ukuya kwi-nursergarten.
4. Kubalulekile ukufuthekisa bonke abantwana, ngakumbi abo baya kwi-nursergarten. Indlela ehamba phambili kunye nelula - ehamba ngeengubo ezingapheliyo ehlobo ehlabathini nasiphi na isimo sezulu, ngaphakathi. Oku kuqinisa inkqubo ye-nervous and immune system. Iinkqubo zamanzi ezincedo kakhulu (ukuhlamba, iwawa, ulwandle, i-lake), zama ukungawuthinteli ukuhlala komntwana emanzini kwaye ungaboni ngokukodwa ukushisa kwamanzi. Ukuziqhelanisa umntwana ngokuthe ngcembe kwisiselo esibandayo (ubisi, i-kefir, ijusi kwifriji). Ukusuka kwinqanaba lokujonga ulwahlulo lwamaqondo okushisa, i-ayisikrimu yinto ebalulekileyo kwaye iluncedo.
5 . Ngokuqhelekileyo kukho abantwana abaphulaphula kunye nonina. Kufuneka baqinisekiswe ixesha elide. Ukuba emva kokunyamekelwa ngumama umntwana uvakalelwa kakuhle, akayi kubuza malunga nonina, akayi kubuhlungu, kwaye uyakwazi ukunyamezela ulawulo lwaloo mini, ngoko kuyafuneka ukuba utshintshe "isiko" esele sikhona. Kwaye kukho abantwana abanentshwenyeko ekungabikho kwamama. Unomdla wokutya nokulala. Kule meko, kukulungele ukuqhagamshelana nengcali yengqondo. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kwabantwana, njengommiselo, kuba ngumphumo wabazali. Ukuxhalaba komama, ukungafuni abazali ukuba babone kwimilinganiselo yokuziphatha yabantwana yokuxhaphazwa kwabantu - zonke ezi zizathu zingabangela ukuziphatha okunjalo komntwana. Kwimeko enjalo, okokuqala, umama ngokwakhe kufuneka atshintshe imeko yangaphakathi.
Ngokwenza oko, ukufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlukane nonina, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukudala iimeko ezinjalo, ukuze umntwana ngokwakhe acele ukutyelela unina. Ngokomzekelo, kufuneka athathwe ngonina, okanye umama kufuneka ahambe kwile venkile, kwaye wadlala nabangani bakhe. Xa ushiya ixesha elide, cela umntwana, kungekhona abantu abadala ukuba balandele umyalelo endlwini.
Masibeke umntwana ukuba uyakwazi ukwenza ukufika kwakho, makhe azibonele yena xa kufike ixesha lokulala okanye udle. Kwintlanganiso, cela umntwana ngokucacileyo malunga nosuku ayehlala ngalo kwaye ungakulibali ukumdumisa ngenxa yeempumelelo zakhe, xelele ukuba unako ukwenza ntoni ngeli xesha, kuba wakunceda.
6. Landela indlela umntwana edlala ngayo nabanye abantwana. Kule minyaka, kuphela ubudlelwane kunye noontanga baqala ukuyila. Ukunika umntwana kwi-kindergarten, ngaleyo ndlela, siyakhawulezisa inkqubo, ngoko kuya kulungile ukuvumela ukuba ihambe yodwa. Ingaba umntwana uhambela iqela labantwana abadlala? Ukuba kunzima kuye ukwenza oku, ncedisa: mfundise indlela yokubulisa abantwana ngokuchanekileyo, unikeze abantwana babo imifanekiso yokudlala, bacele imvume yokudlala nabo kwaye baphendule ngokuchanekileyo ukwenqaba, ngelixa befumana ukhetho lokunciphisa.
Kuhle kakhulu, ukuba ehlotyeni unenkampani yabantwana kweli lizwe. Hlela kunye noomama uze ulandele umgca wabantwana. Kodwa ngemeko yokuba abantwana abakwazi ukushiya iqela ngelixesha elivunyelweneyo kwaye kufuneka basombulule yonke imiba echaphazelekayo phakathi kwabo kunye nonina, owayesebenza kufuphi nabo.
Kwaye ngoku ngamagama amabini ngamathoyizi. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba aphume kwiredi kuphela ezo zinto azisebenzisayo nabangani bakhe. Kuyafana kunye neetayiti eziza kubantwana bokwenene. Ngaphandle koko umntwana wakho uya kuthiwa ungumntu ohahayo okanye uya kuhlala e-alarm kwi-toy yakho oyintandokazi, apho into eya kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza.