Makhe sithethe ngezinto abafana ngazo ngamantombazana? Mhlawumbi, ngokukhawuleza siza kuqala nelokuba abafazi ababi abayikho. Kukho abafazi abangafuni, abazi ukuba njani okanye abanakuzinyamekela ngokwabo. Kwakhona kukho amabhinqa awanamathele kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo, abafumanayo kubahlobo, abadlulileyo-kunye nezihlobo kunye nabahlobo. Oko kukuthi, ukuba uhlala uxelela umntu ukuba uyingozi, yena ngokwakhe uya kukholelwa kuyo. Emva koko gweba izandla zakho, ungafuni ukwenza nantoni na ukutshintsha oku. Kodwa oku kakubi. Ifilimu ye-Eldar Ryazanov "I-Office Romance" ngumzekelo ocacileyo wokuguquka kobubi uLyudmila Prokofievna ibe ngumfazi omhle, othandekayo, onobukrakra kakhulu. Ewe, uthando lusebenza ngokumangalisayo. Ukuba ibhinqa lithandana, liya kwenza konke ukuba kumthande kumthandi wakhe.
Kwindoda enobungozi, indoda isoloko ibetha induduzo kwisicwangciso sasekhaya nakwiengqondo. Umntu uyaqiniseka ukuba loo mfazi akayi kumngcatsha, akayi kumkhaphela. Uya kumkhohlisa, kuya kuhlala kuthuthuzelwa kunye nentuthuzelo endlwini, ukucoceka nokuvumba kokutya okumnandi. Emva koko, loo ntokazi iya kutshabalalisa ngokupheleleyo indoda yakhe ethandekayo. Uya kulungele ukwenza konke kumthandi wakhe olandelayo.
Kodwa eqinisweni akukhona nje ubuhle bwangaphandle kubalulekile. Ewe, ukuqala kokuqala kuyasebenza kakhulu. Kwaye oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa ukuba ibhinqa libi, kodwa ngaphakathi ngaphakathi lithandekayo, lugqabileyo, ngoko-ke kumfazi onjalo akunakwenzeka ukuba ungathandani. Emva koko, ubuhle bangaphakathi ngamanye amaxesha bubaluleke ngaphezu kobuhle bangaphandle. Esi sipho asinikwe wonke umntu. Ukufumana ubuhle bentliziyo yangaphakathi, umfazi ubonakala eguquka, aphinde abuyele. I-Charm idlala indima ebalulekileyo kwiintsebenziswano. Emva koko, ukuba umfazi omhle unomphefumlo ongenalutho ngaphakathi, ngoko kuya kuba mnandi ukuthetha naye.
Ukuba umfazi onobungozi angazibonela ngokuchanekileyo, ngoko unomdla umntu. Yaye umkhonto wakhe kunye nomngcipheko wangaphakathi uya kumthabatha loo ndoda.
Ukuze ukholise abafana, intombazana kufuneka ikwazi ukuba umntu uyithanda amaphupha akhe, yintoni ebuthathaka bakhe, into ayithandayo. Emva koko ufana nomfana kuya kuba lula nakwiyindoda egwenxa.
Kodwa ke kubalulekile ukubuyela kubuhle obuphakathi. Ngaphandle kwayo, akukho buhle obungaphandle buqondakala. Ukuba umntu ukhanya ngaphakathi ngaphakathi ngothando, isisa kunye nothando, ngoko kunzima ukukhuphisana naloo mfazi. Owesifazane unako ukwenza nantoni na. Uthando, ukunyamekela, ukunyamekela, ukufudumala komphefumlo kunokwenza okuninzi kweli hlabathi.
Kakade, nayiphi na ibhinqa kufuneka izinyamekele. Akukho mntu uthanda iinwele ezigcobileyo kunye nobunwele bezinwele. Kubalulekile ukuba izinwele zakho zihlala zihlala zikhangeleka. Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuba uyayinyamekela umzimba wakho, sebenzisa ama-creams. Musa ukulibala malunga nokuzenzela. Nangona uhlaselwa kuzo zonke izimonyo, ngexesha lethu kukho ezininzi izidakamizwa ezichasayo. Musa ukulibala malunga neengubo zangaphantsi ezintle. Kubukeka bufana kakhulu.
Sidinga ukulahla iingxaki. Emva kwakho konke, ngaphandle kwalokhu awukwazi ukuzithandayo. Kwaye oku kuyimfuneko ukukholisa abanye abantu. Emva kwakho konke, ukuhlala ucinga ngeempazamo, ekugqibeleni uzibophe kwiqula, apho kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukuphuma. Zibonise indlela ovuyayo ngayo, kholelwa ukuba ukubonakala kwakho kufanelana nawe. Kungcono ukuba nethemba ngokwemvelo, kunokuba uphelelwe yithemba. Emva koko uza kunyangwa ngokungafaniyo. Khumbula ukuba abafazi ababi abakho. Kwaye kwihlabathi kukho umntu oyakufumana kwaye abe ngumntu wakho ubomi. Musa ukugxotha imodeli. Ugqoke wena ukuze wena ngokwakho ubonakalise kwisibuko. Ungabi nomona uze umlingise umntu. Wena ungumntu, kwaye unakho ukukholisa loo mntu ngobuntu bakhe, ingqondo kunye nokuthanda kwakhe, umtsalane wakhe kunye nenkohlakalo.
Musa ukulibala malunga nococeko. Kubaluleke kakhulu nawuphi na umfazi. Kakade, imimiselo yococeko lwenu kufuneka ihlale kunye nawe.
Xa usebenzisa i-makeup, ungayidluli. Emva kwakho konke, ubutyebi bakho yikhadi lakho lempondo kumzabalazo wokuphumelela indoda. Nangona ungafanelanga ubukhulu obuhle, yenze ukuba ibonakale ikhangayo kunoma yimuphi umlinganiselo. Emva kwakho konke, amadoda amaninzi afana nabasetyhini abaswele.
Ukwenza imidlalo kuza kukunceda. Uya kuziva uvuya, uqiniseke ngokwakho.
Gqoka abantu, kungekhona abafazi. Ungazami ukufana nomzekelo, ubuntu bakho buza kuphumelela intliziyo yekhethiweyo yakho. Khetha iingubo ezinokufanelana nawe, apho ukhangeleka ubukhenkce kwaye ukhangele.
Kufuneka ukhethe uhlobo lwesambatho esifanelekileyo. Ugqoke ukuze uhlale unemfihlelo. Oku kukutsala ingqalelo kubantu.
Kuyo yonke imilinganiselo iyadingeka. Gcina ukuvumelana kuyo yonke into. Bonisa ubumnandi bakho, bonise iimpawu zangaphakathi ezilungileyo. Ngoku kunako ukutsala nawuphi na umntu, nokuba ngumfazi ongendawo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyaphunga. Iqhumiso lakho lifanele liqhube umntu wakho. Kufuneka ukhethe i-perfume efanelekileyo, ukwenzela ukuba iphunga liyakukufanisa, imvakalelo kunye nesimo sakho. Ukuba le ntokazi izele, ngoko ukwenzela ukuba ibonakale yincinci, iqhumiso elincinci elimnandi liya kuhambelana naye. Zenza umphumo wokukhanya kunye nobabalo. Owesifazane onqabileyo kakhulu unako ukufumana imimoya ebukhali, ummangaliso owamangalisa. Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza isigqibo malunga nokukhethwa kwentyatyambo, ke nawuphi na umfazi othanda ukuqhumisa i-citrus. Faka isicelo sesiphunga kuphela kwesikhumba. Amaphupha okusebenzisa i-perfume - yilo lobes yeendlebe, isikhumba emva kweendlebe, i-fossa entanyeni. Unokushiya i-perfume kwisikristsi, umquba phakathi kwamabele. Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa i-perfume apho iifom. Emva koko ivumba elimnandi liza kufakelwa kunye namaza amnandi.
Naliphi na umfazi, ukuze atshale indoda, kufuneka akwazi ukusebenzisa isicelo ngokuchanekileyo. Imeko efanelekileyo yowesifazane ngumfuneko oyintloko wamadoda. Kuyo nayiphi na indawo, nokuba kusekulobeni, kwipikiniki okanye kwiphathi, ukwakheka kufuneka kusetyenziswe ngokufanelekileyo. Sebenzisa kuphela izimonyo eziphezulu, ukuze ungazilimazi. Ungazibeki ngokwakho phambi kobuso bomntu. Indoda kufuneka icinge ukuba uhlala unjalo, enye injalo. Uhlala uyona nto ibhetele, eyona nto ikhethekileyo.
Zithande, kwaye ngoko uza kufezekisa kakhulu ebomini. Ukutsala ibhinqa elingathandekiyo kumntu kulula, ngakumbi kuba besetyhini ababiyo!