Kukho ixesha lobomi ofuna ukushiya kwimemori yakho ixesha elide. Kukho abantu abalungile ukuba bangashiyi. Kukho izinto ezenza ubomi bube bhetele. Kodwa kwenzeka njalo, xa into esele ifike ixesha elide ukuba ilahle, kodwa ayisebenzi. Kulungile, ubuncinci buqhekeke. Izizathu ezihluke ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kulezi zinto ezinzima ukuba isizathu sokunganeliseki kwethu ngokuphila. Masivule amakhadi kwaye sivale iingcebiso zeengqondo zengqondo indlela yokujongana kakuhle neengxaki zobomi. Kwaye siya kuqala ukusebenza thina.
1. Gweba iingubo ezinqamlekileyo, onokunyuka kuphela emva kweveki yesiteleka sokulambela.
Hayi, ewe, unako ukuzibamba ngethemba lokuba ngelinye ilanga ... mhlawumbi nokuba "ngelinye ilanga" liya kuza ... Rasprekrasno! Kuphela akudingeki ukuba uzithuthumele kwangaphambili, oko kuthetha, kusengaphambili. Yonke imihla iyinto engabalulekanga, ngoko ke ungazibandezeli wena kwaye uphawule imvakalelo yakho ngezinto ezingekafumaneki. Iingcebiso zeengqondo zengqondo: nje ubuncinane obubini - kwaye yintoni enye into efunekayo yonwabo ...
2. Ukulahla ukwesaba ukuzibonakalisa - kwinkonzo, ebhedeni, kumgangatho wokudanisa, njl.
Umnqweno wokufihla kuwo wonke umntu, ukubaleka, ukufihla ngokukhawuleza ngamnye kuthi. Kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo! Kodwa ukufihla rhoqo sele kusesha. Ungazami ukwenza lonke ixesha ongekho ngokwenene. Kuyisidenge kwaye kumnandi. Kwaye kunjalo "oyiyo" oyinyaniso ngokukhawuleza okanye emva koko uyazivakalisa. Le yilapho wonk 'ubani uya kuqonda ukuba uyenzisela kwaye uceba lonke eli xesha. Kwaye kunye kunye neengxaki zobomi, ukuhlazeka, ukuphelelwa yithemba nokuxinezeleka kuya kuza kuwe. Yiba wena! Ubuncinane, uya kubona ukuba ngubani ongenakukhathalela ngokwenene, onqwenela ulonwabo, othanda ngayo yonke impazamo yakho.
3. Yenza umsebenzi ongenakukuvumela ukuba ujabulele ubomi.
Kakade, ixesha linzima ngoku. Umsebenzi, kunjalo, kuyadingeka. Kodwa ukuba ucinga: ngaba sisebenzela ukuhlala okanye siphila emsebenzini? Iyiphi inqaku lokunyamezela ukuthotywa, ukuxinezeleka kunye nezinye izinto ezinokutshabalalisa emsebenzini, ukuba emva koko uphephe ubomi bakho bonke? Iyintoni intsingiselo yobomi bakho? Kulo msebenzi? .. Awucingi ukuba le nto yinto engento?
4. Belibale iigayibethi kunye nezibane.
Ngokomgaqo, akuyona nje ingozi kwimpilo. Iigarettes ziyingozi. Le nto ayikhululekile. Uhlala ukhoboka, kwaye oku kuhlazisa. Emva kwakho konke, ukhululekile! Ufuna ukuziva ngathi? Ngoko phantsi kunye nobukhoboka! IBhunga lezengqondo: Phatha ubomi bakho ngokuzeleyo, kwaye ungavumeli ukuba izifo ezifayo zilawule.
5. Shiya kwiidolo ezidlulileyo zesondo kunye nenkwenkwezi.
Ewe, maxa wambi kulungile. Ekuqaleni. Emva koko uvuka, ugubungele amehlo akho - kwaye uyawa. Kubonakala ngathi ayikukhanyanga, awufanelekanga, wena nje "ungowomnye" ... Hayi, amakhiwane kunye nabo, ngeenkwenkwezi! Ekufuphi kukho baninzi abantu abahle, abahlakaniphile, abanamakhono abanokwenza nabo. Yaye xa uyifumana - amaphupha akho kuphela - amaphupha ezesondo kunye neenkwenkwezi ziya kudala ngonaphakade. Ubuncinane kuba ngobusuku awuyi kulala.
6. Behla ngehlazo!
Ewe, ukhawuleza. Ewe, akukho nto kuwe okanye kwabanye. Unomphefumlo ongaphezu kwakho, mhlawumbi, ininzi inokuyithanda. Ndikholelwe, le ndlela yokusombulula iingxaki iza kukukhokelela ekufeni kuphela. Okanye esibhedlele. Nangona kubonakala kuwe ukuba ulwela isizathu esifanelekileyo, zama ukuhlalisa. Abakhohlakali abathanga mntu - bahlala baphinda. Yiyo inyaniso yobomi.
7. Shiya izihlobo eziphila phantsi kwesiqubulo esithi: "Wanikela igama ngokwakhe, wazithabatha."
Ngaba ucinga ukuba ezinye azifanelekanga? Okanye ucinga ukuba bonke abafana banjalo? Oku akunjalo! Ehlabathini ngokwenene "amadoda" ngokwenene. Kholelwa kuwe-kwaye hamba! Ulwalamano olutsha, olupheleleyo lokuqonda, intlonipho kunye nothando.
8. Gwema intombi, emva kokudibana nani okhulayo.
Enyanisweni, akunjalo intombi ... Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, awuyidingi inombolo enje kufuphi nawe. Nokuba ngaba, eneneni, abanalo nantoni na. Ubuhlobo bulingana. Zifumana i-intombi engayi kukuhlazisa okanye ikukhathaze. Ukukhangela kunokuthatha ixesha, kodwa umphumo awuyi kudanisa.
9. Khumbula, ekugqibeleni, zakho iimpawu ezinokungaphumeleli zonyaka owedlule.
Ewe, waqhekeza ngoko, kodwa ihlabathi alizange liwile! Kwaye uhlala ufana. Kwaye abanye sele bekholelwe, ndikholelwe ixesha elide. Ewe, ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, awukhumbuzi ngaso sonke ixesha. Yeka ukubandezeleka nokuhlupheka. Vumela ukuhamba kwexesha elidlulileyo uze, ekugqibeleni, kwikamva. KuKhanya.
10. I-cassette kunye noonwabo bekhaya - kwinqwelo! Nangona kubonakala ngathi awukwazi ukufumana kule vidiyo.
Ndikholelwe, uya kukwazi! Ngethuba elingaphambili. Ngaba wakha wacinga ngale nto? Yitsho i-rejistle kwiirekhodi ngokukhawuleza! Musa ukuyihoxisa le ngongoma! Ngesinye isikhathi oku kungonakalisa ubomi bakho.
Siyathemba ukuba, ngenxa yilezi ngcebiso zeengqondo zengqondo indlela yokujongana kakuhle neengxaki zobomi, ekugqibeleni uya kugqiba ukutshintsha ubomi bakho. Qalisa nje - kuya kuba lula. Uya kumangaliswa ukuba kulula kangakanani. Kwaye zonke izinto ziya kuvela.