Kuyinto enkulu ukuba i-Olympian ikhula ngemvumba. Kodwa ezintlanu, ezintlanu nangeminyaka elishumi, iziprofeto ezinjalo ziqala kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, nangona imvana ingaphumeleli iindondo, ukudlala imidlalo okanye ubuncinci imfundo yenyama kuyimfuneko yokuphuhliswa kokuvisisana. Umbuzo wokuqala abazali bazibuza wona: yiyiphi imidlalo ekukhethiweyo? Ngokuqhelekileyo, izigqibo zithonywe ngamaphupha abo angabonakaliyo. Kwaye uTata uthenge izixhobo ze-hockey yonyana wakhe aze amkhokele kwikhotwe leqhwa. Kwaye umama uthumela intombi yakhe kwindawo yokuzivocavoca. Ewe, ukuba umntwana uthanda ukhetho lwabazali. Kwaye ukuba akunjalo? Awukwazi ukumphoqa umntwana ukuba adlale imidlalo. Umgaqo oyintloko: uqeqesho kufuneka luhle. Kuphela ke baya kuzuza. Jonga umntwana uze uqonde oko akuthandayo. Ewe, kunokufuneka ukuba uye esikolweni esinye sezemidlalo, uthethe nabaqeqeshi, kunye nabazali babanye abantwana. Kodwa emva kwezifundo ezimbini okanye ezintathu ukuphendula komntwana kubonakala kuvele kubonakala, kwaye kuyacaca ukuba le midlalo iyamfanisa okanye ayikho.
Kwi zempilo!
Ukongeza kwizinto ezikhethwa ngumntwana xa ukhetha icandelo lezemidlalo, kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela ezinye izinto.
- Imeko ye zempilo
Kukho nawaphi na icandelo uya kufuna isatifikethi esivela kwi-polyclinic. Kwaye iingcebiso zoogqirha akufanele zityeshelwe. Kukho imidlalo ephikisanayo nabantwana abanezifo ezithile. Ngoko, ngeengxaki ezinzulu ngamehlo, awukwazi ukujongana neentlobo zoqhagamshelwano: ibhola, ibhola yebhoksi, ibhola le-volleyball. Ukuhlahlela, ukuhlaselwa, ukuwa kunye nokuguquka okubukhali kunokusondeza eso sifo. Kodwa ukubhukuda okanye ukushushuluza kule ngxaki akulimazi nhlobo.
- Idatha yemvelo
Apha, ngokubanzi, nayo yonke into iyacaca. Umntwana ongekho ngokwaneleyo, umzekelo, kuya kuba nzima ukuphumelela kwi-gymnastics okanye kwi-skating skating. Kungcono ukuba akhethe omnye umdlalo apho lo mgangatho obaluleke kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kumaqela okuqeqesha ngokusemgangathweni ngokuqhelekileyo ayamkela wonke umntu. Ngoko, ukuba awuyi kubeka iinjongo ezikude, unganakukungaziboni ukusilela kweedatha ezifanelekileyo. Vumela umntwana ukuba aqeqeshe ngenxa yempilo, kungekhona kwiimali.
- Iinkalo zeengqondo zomntwana
Indlela eqinisekileyo yokufumanisa ukuba uluhlobo luni lwezemidlalo elincinci luthintelo lokuqhagamshelana nomdlali wezengqondo oza kuvavanya umntwana. Omnye unokusebenzisa imidlalo yeqela, omnye - umntu, ubugcisa bokulwa nolwesithathu.
- Umbono womqeqeshi
Bathi iliso elinamava linokumisela ubunako bomntwana kwiklasi yokuqala. Nangona imbali iyayazi imizekelo emininzi, xa iinkwenkwezi ezizayo ebuntwaneni zibhalwa "ekungahambisani."
Bhetele ngaphambi
Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, amaqela abaqalayo akhula ngokukodwa. Ngoko, ukuba iminyaka engamashumi amathathu edlulileyo kunzima ukulungelelanisa imidanso yemidlalo, i-gymnastics, i-skating skating, ukubhukuda okuhambelanayo-yaqala ukubandakanya ineminyaka elishumi, ngoku izikolo zasezemidlalo zamkela kwaye zineminyaka emine ubudala. Inyaniso yokuba ukuzivocavoca kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi, kufuna ukuguquguquka okungakumbi, kwaye kulula ukukhuphula ebuntwaneni. Kubalulekile ukuba ufike kumqeqeshi onamava, owongena umthwalo kunye nokwakha umsebenzi ekuqwalaseleni iminyaka yabantwana. Emva koko umphumo awuyi kudanisa: umntwana uya kuba namandla, abe ngumgula omncinci, kwaye ukuphucula ngokomzimba kuya kubonakala ngokugqithiseleyo oontanga. Yaye amathuba okufikelela kwimpumelelo ebonakalayo yezemidlalo kule meko iyanda. Kodwa umgaqo "ngokukhawuleza, uphezulu" awusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi.Ukuba uya kuqhuba imidlalo ethile, yimizimba kunye nokuziphatha, kuba ukuba le nkwenkwe iqala ukuphakamisa ibha eneminyaka esixhenxe, ayiyi kubakho nantoni na. ezandleni zeso sikolo kunye nesibhamu somoya - imiphumo ingaba yinto edabukisayo.
Ukhetho lu
Nika umntwana kwiSikolo soPhuhliso lwezemidlalo. Isikolo sezemidlalo okanye icandelo kwiklabhu yezemidlalo elisondeleyo? Impendulo yalo mbuzo iphinda ixhomekeke kwiinjongo zexesha elide. Ewe, izikolo zezemidlalo ziphezulu kunye neengcali ezifanelekileyo. Kodwa iinqununu zihlala zilungiselela amaziko ngamagama amakhulu. Akuninzi kakhulu kubo. Ngokomzekelo, zikolo ezimbalwa zezemidlalo ezinokuziqhayisa ngabantu abadumileyo abagqwesileyo abagqwesileyo. Kwaye abazali abazami ngokuzenzekelayo ukuthumela abadlali abancinci bebhola ezikolweni abaneeklabhu ezidumile zebhola. Kodwa kwiindawo ezinjalo, okokuqala, akulula ukuba ungene kwi-screening sele sele sele ukhethwe. Okwesibini, kufuneka ulungele ukuba imidlalo iya kuba yinto yobomi. Akunjalo kuphela ubomi bomntwana. Nangona umntwana esincinci, kuya kufuneka kuthatyathwe ekuqeqesheni: kuqala-ezimbini ukuya kweyesithathu ngeveki, kwaye ngexesha-ezintlanu ukuya ezintandathu. Iindleko zezemali azikwazi ukunqandwa. Iiklasi ezikolweni zezemidlalo zihlala zikhululekile, kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi kufuneka uthenge ifomu ngokwakho. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimincintiswano kudlalwa kwakhona. Kwaye akukho bani oqinisekisa iindondo zeOlimpiki. Ngamanye amaxesha abazali ngenxa yeemvumba zexesha elizayo zikulungele ukuzincama. Kwaye ke, bafuna ukubuyela. Abantwana abanjalo abanalo ithuba lokubonisa iminqweno yabo. Ngoko zama ukuzibuza umbuzo othi: "Ndiyintoni na le nto?" Kwaye ungangxami na impendulo. Kukho iincinci ezincinci, kwaye ihlala isicwangciso semigudu yexesha elide lomdlali, abaqeqeshi, abazali, oogqirha, wengqondo. Ayikho icandelo lezemidlalo eliqhelekileyo apha, ngokungafani nesikolo sezemidlalo, akukho bantwana okanye abaqeqeshi beenjongo eziphambili zifakwa kuyo. Ukuba umntwana unako, baya kuphawulwa, kwaye ungakulibali ukuba into ebalulekileyo kumntwana ngumntu womqeqeshi. , U kodwa kungekhona nje ukuba kufuneka afundise umntwana ubuchule bemidlalo yakhe, kodwa kungekhona nje ukuba iinjongo eziphambili zokufunda zifuna umdla kubantwana abancinci. Umqeqeshi omhle unokuhlala exhasa le nzala, ngoko ke iimvuthu ziza kuye ngokuvuya.